Going Your Own Way Is Freedom.

[SpleeferParticipant 958]

Going your own way is freedom.

When I first joined MGTOW, I kept reading this ideal over and over again. I am always skeptical whenever someone says the words freedom or empowerment to describe the idea they are pitching to me. In my experience people say these words to lure you in to their ideal or movement, but in the end you are left in the same state you were to begin with or worse.

I just kept reading the forums searching for how other members enjoy their Own Way. Freedom for some members is to choose Hobbies, business, peaceful home, taking care of dog, house, fitness, investing in one self. I read example after example but I still didn’t know what that freedom meant for my own walk.

As time goes by, I am finding that freedom for my life. Its been a slow process, because of my blue pill mind. The pull women had on my life was like a chain around my neck. Finally, I have accepted and applied to my life a MGTOW principal of freedom.

Freedom to give a f~~~ or not.

That’s the biggest reason for me going my own way. I choose where my time, talents, and resources go. If I want to leave the house at 2:00am to get a Whataburger green chili double, I just go. If I want to go for a run instead, no problem. I can buy anything I want and I don’t have to pay for someone else’s shopping spree. No more painting the walls of a room just to change the color. Unless I don’t like the color. The peaceful sleep alone is freedom.

Blue pilled Spleefer was always running around doing bulls~~~ to please a woman. Now, before I do something nice for someone I ask myself “what is your motivation?“. If the answer is to impress anyone then I don’t do it. If it’s to make them happy , that’s cool. Helping others, even women is ok for me, but impressing them is a red flag to my blue pill chains.
The Freedom to give a f~~~ or not, has changed my life for the better.

Mgtow is freedom, it sure is.

Thanks Boys for all your red pills,

Spleefer

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

No.

It’s a powerful word. What’s the saying? Figure out who you can’t say no to. That’s your boss.

Saying no to someone or something means it’s not your boss. And it keeps the options open for what you really want to do. If you’ve ever heard of the concept of an “opportunity cost”, it means that once you say yes to something you give up any other opportunities that you could have said yes to. You’ve said no to every other opportunity that is mutually exclusive from what you said yes to.

Freedom is saying no everything but what’s in your best interest.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 38]

The decision to go your own way is wanting more than the usual cycle that always ends in disappointment. It is noticing the game for what it is and realising it’s rigged, and you’ve been played.

Spleefer wrote:

As time goes by, I am finding that freedom for my life. Its been a slow process, because of my blue pill mind. The pull women had on my life was like a chain around my neck. Finally, I have accepted and applied to my life a MGTOW principal of freedom.

Freedom to give a f~~~ or not.

It’s slow, and even later when you’re fully RP your resolve will be tested. It’s not an easy path. But freedom does come with a price.

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Going your own way releases you from this;

Working full time as a physician and wondering why you have so little savings.
Buying a huge house, hiring a weekly maid, cooking for yourself, doing your laundry, doing the yard work and you are called the lazy one.
Buy her an SUV bc she needs a bigger vehicle for the kid. She later decides she wants a bigger SUV and trades up. A few weeks later, she decides it’s too big and you come home to a different SUV traded in for a total loss of 13k.
She wants to go to Disney World with kid and her family. Schedules it over Christmas. I can’t go bc I can’t take off for 11-12 days over the holidays. Accused of not caring about spending time with family.
Accused of cheating bc her incessant bitching and denigration just doesn’t stoke your fire.

Ultimately, it saves you from this. Being told “because f~~~ you, that’s why” is the reason why the judge is screwing you in your divorce. Literally reading a decision by the judge in which he states that because I make enough money to afford it, he can rule any way he wants. No fairness. No equality. Just f~~~ me because he can.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

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