Going to other weddings…

[OdinParticipant 524]

Watching another man getting married is painful. Poor bastard. But the worst thing…

“Why are you not married yet?”
“You’re next”
“You need to get married bro”

My response: Thanks for the free food and drinks.

You stupid cucks. 😀

[MonkParticipant 17047]

‘I’m getting married. You should too’.
[Sound of door slamming]

[BoarParticipant]

Don’t go and don’t send a card. Wait 7 years and then start sending him postcards from your awesome life adventures that he is no longer permitted to have. See if he still says marriage is a wonderful thing.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Anonymous 18]

I love attending weddings. Because I enjoy being part of others happiness and good fortunes. Everyone is happy. There is great food. The vibe is positive.

Then I go home and rest in peace, nap, or go for a drive.

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

I do note how everyone tends to one up each other in how much of a lavish wedding they can manage. Everytime, I see more exotic food as the years pass by.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I love attending weddings. Because I enjoy being part of others happiness and good fortunes. Everyone is happy. There is great food. The vibe is positive.

Then I go home and rest in peace, nap, or go for a drive.

Why would you invest your time and money in someone’s failed marriage? 6% chance of your marriage not making 20 years. 6%. That’s worse than playing Vegas.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I enjoy weddings. I don’t over think it. F~~~ if the guy wants to do it let him. As along as it’s not me I don’t care. Free food and drinks. The ceremony is painfully boring, but once your’re past that, it just another party to me.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Odin wrote:

Watching another man getting married is painful.

The last wedding I attended was 2007 and it was more like a funeral.

He actually flopped sweat during the vows so badly, that the best man ran to get him a TOWEL. Not a Kleenex or a tissue. A hotel bath towel. I have a photo of this moment! Everyone was giggling including the bride – like it was cute and funny – except me.

Afterwards she actually made a “joke” in her speech about why weddings usually take place in churches.

“AISLE . . . ALTAR . . . HYMN”.

“Aisle. Altar. Hymn”.

“I’ll alter him.”.

And everyone applauded and laughed.
He was turned into a joke at his own wedding.

It f~~~ing hurt me in my b~~~~ to witness that s~~~.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[QuellParticipant 2538]

I’ve grown tired of the phony charade of weddings. The cheesy vows, the fat bridesmaids, the smashing of the cake in each other’s faces, the first dance, the garter toss and bouquet toss. There is so much blue pill garbage.

This is an open bar is essential to a good wedding. Everyone secretly knows that in order to have a good time they must be hammered.

[Yojimbo RockfordParticipant 348]

I love going to weddings. I red pill everyone at the reception who asks me when my turn is. The looks I get are priceless.

[freedomParticipant 5129]

The worst thing about it is that sometimes you have to drive hours to get there and if you don’t show up, people will start bitching for years about it.

also, you watch how the couple spent a 25K$, for one damn night and of course it’s your responsibility to help cover the losses, so you give away a 100$ and just wait till it will be polite enough to bail out of there.

So everyone, other than the bride and her mother, just hopes that the moment ends and they can get on with their lives.

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

Attended several weddings in the past few years, friends, cousins. I never did overthink it before. But not attended one after mgtow. Quite bored of it now. I prefer quality music rather than dance parties these days.

[President CamachoParticipant 941]

Last time I went to a wedding was in June of last year, I destroyed the buffet and talked with a guy for five hours about politics, the founding fathers of America, and pro wrestling. The only other thing I remember about that day was a tatted up purple haired hairstylist flirting with me and following me around. The best part is that she was engaged. I want to feel sorry for her future husband.

A Western marriage that survives in the current year is an act of mercy and compassion by the woman.

[OldBillParticipant]

I only attend weddings these days as “wrangler” for elderly relatives everyone wants to invite but no one wants to take care of. It’s always “Old Bill, MeMaw wants to go to Vaginoppia’s wedding, but we need someone to help her…” I collect MeMaw, get her to the church, get her to the reception, and then get her back to the home. A few drinks, a free dinner, easy peasy.

When asked when I’ll marry, something asked less and less often, I start pointing at all the divorced people and saying “Ask him… Ask her… Ask him… Ask him… Ask him… Ask him… Ask him…”

That usually shuts them up.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 3]

freedom wrote:

The worst thing about it is that sometimes you have to drive hours to get there and if you don’t show up, people will start bitching for years about it.

also, you watch how the couple spent a 25K$, for one damn night and of course it’s your responsibility to help cover the losses, so you give away a 100$ and just wait till it will be polite enough to bail out of there.

So everyone, other than the bride and her mother, just hopes that the moment ends and they can get on with their lives.

lol you don’t have to show up. I always got invited to so many of them, and I hated going. Finally a friend just told me “Just don’t go” and I stopped. Nobody has ever given me trouble for missing any event of any kind since I stopped setting the expectation that I’d show up.

Instead, when I do show up, everyone is extremely happy about it and thanks me for the privilege of gracing them with my presence. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that, it sort of makes sense if you think about it. People will take you for granted if you let them, if you march to the beat of your own drum, then instead people will change their schedule for you and not the other way around.

[freedomParticipant 5129]

FrostByte wrote:

I enjoy weddings. I don’t over think it. F~~~ if the guy wants to do it let him. As along as it’s not me I don’t care. Free food and drinks. The ceremony is painfully boring, but once your’re past that, it just another party to me.

Actually, around here it’s not free at all, you have to write down a check, usually for an amount equal to a very expensive restaurant (it’s because the couple usually spend over 25K for that night, Though, that doesn’t bother me as much as driving for over an hour to get to the place (don’t forget an hour to go back as well) + most weddings I go to, are scheduled on work days, so I get back home only around 1-2am which completely p~~~es me off, because I have to wake up early the next day.

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I love attending weddings. Because I enjoy being part of others happiness and good fortunes. Everyone is happy. There is great food. The vibe is positive.

Then I go home and rest in peace, nap, or go for a drive.

FrostByte wrote:

I enjoy weddings. I don’t over think it. F~~~ if the guy wants to do it let him. As along as it’s not me I don’t care. Free food and drinks.

Assuming these are weddings of close relatives, I also don’t mind going. You get to catch up with family and have a good time.

[bstoffParticipant 4878]

The “Wedding Crashers” guys did it to get laid. Take advantage of those raging hormones and desperate woman. Try to remain anonymous if you can.

Make sure to congratulate the groom on his wedding contract.
That will give him something to think about.

I’m trying to decide whether to go to my nephew’s marriage contract ceremony in a couple of weeks. So far, I have seen nothing to convince me to go.

[HydroParticipant 164]

bstoff wrote:

I’m trying to decide whether to go to my nephew’s marriage contract ceremony in a couple of weeks. So far, I have seen nothing to convince me to go

I have several nephews too, all in their late teens and early 20’s. Most of them I like very much except for the one blue pill nephew who has been with the same girl that he met in high school (he’s a college graduate now) and is probably beyond saving. If the day ever comes when one of the other nephews decides to sign the marriage contract and I get invited to the wedding, I’m not sure what I’ll do.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Even before red pill, I looked at weddings a serious mistake. Most ending in divorce. The money would be better spent on something else.
Have not been to one in some time. Being as I am divorced my response to the you are next and when and we need to get you a, is been there done that got the scars to prove it. Very effective no one responds back, guys nod, women blank stare.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

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