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Going my own way sounded awesome at first….then I realized that going my own way = I own all my problems. I started to panic a little. The What if’s kept repeating in my thoughts. What if I loose my job? What if my truck blows up? What if I get cancer? What if my roof leaks? Thoughts of needing a wife for a second income. Thoughts of a sugar mama to save me for once. Thoughts of me not being able to make it on my own. This is the beauty of what I learned here from the forums.
1. Even if I have a wife or gf, all of those problems I listed, would be fixed by me anyway. I would have to fix my truck. I would have to climb up on the roof. I’d get another job or just retire early. They aren’t pitching in, they aren’t buying you a new truck, they will call the most expensive roofer in town.
2. I learned that women bail on their spouses when they get sick anyway. I never knew that, it hasn’t happened to me. But I have learned that lesson here. 7-10 will leave the man on his hospital bed. Those videos from health care workers are shocking at the least. Psycho killers just so the estate doesn’t evaporate before you die. Makes me sick. My solution: be strict on my diet and exercise daily.
3. Women don’t really offer much except promises they don’t keep. I could give you a list of spoken promises that were never kept. When I give my word it happens. When a women gives her word it’s like p~~~ing in the wind.Anyway, point is, I have so much more confidence in my abilities to solve any issue by myself. This is probably why women hit on me now then ever before. They see I’m resourceful and are drawn to me due to their parasitic nature.
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Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.
Owning your problems (and fixing them) is the definition of maturity.
And you’re right that women by and large do neither."Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.
It can be scary to have just yourself with nobody else to lean on or call for help. Why do you think there are so many homeless men out there? But looking for help and security for a woman is like looking for good quality toilet paper from the dollar store. It just doesn’t exist.
As if having a woman around ever did anything but make s~~~ worse.
What if I loose my job?
She would leave you and take half your s~~~.
What if my truck blows up?
She would leave you and take half your s~~~.
What if I get cancer?
Best case, she would leave you and take half your s~~~. Worst case, she would f~~~ up your treatment, let you die, and get all your s~~~.
What if my roof leaks?
She would get the courts to force you to fix the roof (because making her live under a leaky roof is “abuse”), then leave you and take your whole house, which you would continue to have to pay for.
‘Thoughts of needing a wife for a second income’
Whooooo !!!
01: They don’t work as much or at all after getting married
02: Alleged additional income is nullified by grotch goblins born due to the marriage
03: Her money is HER money. All household bills and related marriage expenses are ultimately paid for with her husband’s money
04: Temporary benefits of ‘second income’ are eventually offset by future alimony, child support, loss of assets in a divorce and negative impact to psychological sanity of the husband.
05: If her income / ‘second income’ and/or career position increases or advances past her husband’s level – FYI: Pumpkin is rolling out. And with plenty of Chad c~~~ to get her off.
06: ‘Second income’ is irrelevant if / when the second income earner enters the marriage (legal charade) with massive debt or racks up insane debt during the marriage
07: Additional income doesn’t prevent Pumpkin from cheating.
08: Unless she uses her income to take out and pay for a $1 million life insurance policy with her husband as the beneficiary then blows her own brains out, 30 days into the marriage: There is no financial benefit to a guy from his wife bringing a second income into the marriage.
‘Thoughts of needing a wife for a second income’
Whooooo !!!
01: They don’t work as much or at all after getting married
02: Alleged additional income is nullified by grotch goblins born due to the marriage
03: Her money is HER money. All household bills and related marriage expenses are ultimately paid for with her husband’s money
04: Temporary benefits of ‘second income’ are eventually offset by future alimony, child support, loss of assets in a divorce and negative impact to psychological sanity of the husband.
05: If her income / ‘second income’ and/or career position increases or advances past her husband’s level – FYI: Pumpkin is rolling out. And with plenty of Chad c~~~ to get her off.
06: ‘Second income’ is irrelevant if / when the second income earner enters the marriage (legal charade) with massive debt or racks up insane debt during the marriage
07: Additional income doesn’t prevent Pumpkin from cheating.
08: Unless she uses her income to take out and pay for a $1 million life insurance policy with her husband as the beneficiary then blows her own brains out, 30 days into the marriage: There is no financial benefit to a guy from his wife bringing a second income into the marriage.This is true.
Early on, my wife made more than I did. (She also brought debt into the marriage). I fantasized about leaving the marriage but hung around out of a sense of duty. I did it the right way, and worked my ass off to make sure I caught up my contributions to our financial health. Fast forward ten years way after I had caught up and I was making more money than she. Her response was the complete opposite—she was entitled to it all and I should get a lawyer. Her theft was substantial, in the hundreds of thousands.
Wasn’t worth it.
I hope the next guy does the same thing to her."Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.
Great post. Going your own way means you only have to take care of yourself not some 160 lb parasite that contributes nothing but aggravation and fighting to the relationship.
#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.
I had a problem my father passed away it didn’t bother me we were never close, but the women vanished temporarily for the time they thought I was grieving its telling not that I cared but I treat them with contempt now cannot rely on them for s~~~, the only difference was that mgtow showed me this would happen when you need something your out of luck what goes around comes around peace brothers.
Women don’t really offer much except promises they don’t keep. I could give you a list of spoken promises that were never kept. When I give my word it happens. When a women gives her word it’s like p~~~ing in the wind.
Great post. Going your own way means you only have to take care of yourself not some 160 lb parasite that contributes nothing but aggravation and fighting to the relationship.
EXACTLY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
After my Divorce Raping, then I will ONLY HAVE MYSELF to be responsible for, and the parasitic leach will just have “to figure it out for herself or NOT”. LOL LOL LOL
I will still have some YOUNG adult kids hanging around and probably living with me, but I’m training and teaching them the importance of being self-sufficient, and they’re getting it better than the resident parasitical Leach.
In fact, the older she gets; the more USELESS she becomes.
It will truly be joyous when the day comes that IT WILL BE GONE !!!
In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash
‘Thoughts of needing a wife for a second income’
Whooooo !!!
01: They don’t work as much or at all after getting married
02: Alleged additional income is nullified by grotch goblins born due to the marriage
03: Her money is HER money. All household bills and related marriage expenses are ultimately paid for with her husband’s money
04: Temporary benefits of ‘second income’ are eventually offset by future alimony, child support, loss of assets in a divorce and negative impact to psychological sanity of the husband.
05: If her income / ‘second income’ and/or career position increases or advances past her husband’s level – FYI: Pumpkin is rolling out. And with plenty of Chad c~~~ to get her off.
06: ‘Second income’ is irrelevant if / when the second income earner enters the marriage (legal charade) with massive debt or racks up insane debt during the marriage
07: Additional income doesn’t prevent Pumpkin from cheating.
08: Unless she uses her income to take out and pay for a $1 million life insurance policy with her husband as the beneficiary then blows her own brains out, 30 days into the marriage: There is no financial benefit to a guy from his wife bringing a second income into the marriage.I saved this list for whenever I get that dumb ass second income thought. All true. Thanks
Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.
Towards the end of my marriage, the old central air unit went out in the middle of summer and we were all suffering the heat with just a borrowed window unit that wasn’t sufficient to cool the whole house. I knew she would be kicking me out of the house so I wasn’t going to throw money away on an A/C unit that’d I’d never get to enjoy.
Almost immediately after I moved out, she paid to have a brand new air conditioning system installed. She had the money, but wasn’t going to contribute s~~~ as long as I was living there, in the hopes that I would be dumb enough to pay for the new unit, so she let the whole family suffer through the summer heat. I was paying all the bills, utilities, food, property taxes……..all of it and she was paying nothing with the exception of HER car payment.
Living with a woman who has an income doesn’t help a man out for s~~~. You’ll still never get ahead and have any money. Since my divorce, my bank account has been slowly but steadily growing. I’ve never had this much money in the bank before, especially when I was married. No, I don’t need a woman to keep me impoverished. I’m doing much better on my own even with a brand new house payment.
GYOW sounds awesome, because it is awesome. Sweet freedom, I love it.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
That’s why many men are manginas. They rely on emotional support from their women. I was one of those idiots when I was younger. It turned out, women don’t respect a man that talks about his problems too much and is dependent on her. I blame society and the brain washing in school system and media on raising emotionally dependent blue pill men.
Once you hit bottom and restructure your life around you, it all takes a turn for the better. My problems are mine now. I got 99 of them but a bitch ain’t one.
God bless peace and freedom.
In fact, the older she gets; the more USELESS she becomes.
When my ex felt lonely after divorce raping me and quickly got remarried to a stranger she met online, the engagement story she shared with the world was about what restaurant he took her to and what food she ordered. My friend commented it was the stupidest and most boring engagement story he had ever read. Reminded me how much of a “high S” consumer she has recently become and the direction to which her values have shifted over time; the blue pill dude was offering his life to her & here she was talking about cheeseburgers.
But there is something to be said for the fear you’ve pointed out. If you fall off your roof & there’s nobody around, there you will lie. It’s perhaps a reason to be more careful with yourself. The idea of teamwork in general adds stability to a family structure; the problem is she will never stay on your team long-term, or worst case will seek to destroy you, & as Sky-O says, any temporary benefit will get inverted in the long term.
Sweet freedom, I love it.
I need reminding at least as much as anyone else . . . . Go LIVE YOUR LIFE!
"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.
But there is something to be said for the fear you’ve pointed out. If you fall off your roof & there’s nobody around, there you will lie.
I’ve thought of this when changing the oil in my truck. If the jack fails, I may be crushed under the vehicle with no one finding me perhaps for days. I’ve accepted this as a small price to pay for my freedom. Death is preferable to the misery of marriage and living with a controlling woman. Besides, I also use jack stands to hold the truck up if the hydraulic jack lets go.
Just 5 more hours to go until I get to leave these workplace women behind and go home to my beautiful, quiet, empty house…….not that my house is that great, but the fact that it’s empty and quiet is the beautiful thing about it.
Oh, nope, I forgot. Going to meet a friend after work for drinks and hot wings and I didn’t have to ask permission or inform anyone about my plans and when I do make it home, there won’t be some sour puss faced bitch waiting for me. FREEDOM! Life is so wonderful and I can still appreciate it 6 and a half years after the divorce. I plan on being very happy for the rest of my life.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Why do you think there are so many homeless men out there?
and women are the ones who put them there! Women make men homeless, seen it firsthand many times. No woman ever saved me from anything. In fact, getting to know one has always been a massive risk. Like petting a wild animal.
Some of yall have really had a hard time. I will never get married, precisely because of the experiences you’ve shared! You helped others by sharing here.
If you fall off your roof & there’s nobody around, there you will lie.
A simple fall arrest harness kit will cost you about $150. I recommend spending a little more on a self belay and descending kit. It might seem expensive, but it’s cheaper than a wife (who likely won’t hear you over her soap operas).
If the jack fails, I may be crushed under the vehicle with no one finding me perhaps for days.
A stack of 2x4s is less than $10.
A stack of 2x4s is less than $10.
Besides, I also use jack stands to hold the truck up if the hydraulic jack lets go.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
I know what you mean. I’ve gotten into the habit of thinking about the safest way to do any project that involves risk of injury, and how I can mitigate the risk as much as possible. Damn near fell off a ladder one time because one leg started sinking into the ground; this was while I was still married and my (now ex-) wife probably wouldn’t have noticed for hours if I had fallen, since she was too busy watching “reality” TV inside. I’ve always given ladders a lot of respect — and after that, I’m even more careful.
Another time, I needed to do some unplanned repair work on my truck that involved jacking up and supporting the rear of the vehicle and crawling under (rear wheel bearing failed, trashed the axle shaft in the process). My (now ex-) wife was on a 5-day “girls’ trip” with one of her female friends (yeah, I know…). I called her and asked her to check in with me in two hours and make sure I was ok. Holy hell — she couldn’t even be bothered! That’s right: she refused!
But there is something to be said for the fear you’ve pointed out. If you fall off your roof & there’s nobody around, there you will lie.
I’ve thought of this when changing the oil in my truck. If the jack fails, I may be crushed under the vehicle with no one finding me perhaps for days. I’ve accepted this as a small price to pay for my freedom. Death is preferable to the misery of marriage and living with a controlling woman. Besides, I also use jack stands to hold the truck up if the hydraulic jack lets go.
Just 5 more hours to go until I get to leave these workplace women behind and go home to my beautiful, quiet, empty house…….not that my house is that great, but the fact that it’s empty and quiet is the beautiful thing about it.
Oh, nope, I forgot. Going to meet a friend after work for drinks and hot wings and I didn’t have to ask permission or inform anyone about my plans and when I do make it home, there won’t be some sour puss faced bitch waiting for me. FREEDOM! Life is so wonderful and I can still appreciate it 6 and a half years after the divorce. I plan on being very happy for the rest of my life.Great post. Going your own way means you only have to take care of yourself not some 160 lb parasite that contributes nothing but aggravation and fighting to the relationship.
And 160 lbs is on the lighter side if she is an American female.
02: Alleged additional income is nullified by grotch goblins born due to the marriage
So true.
04: Temporary benefits of ‘second income’ are eventually offset by future alimony, child support, loss of assets in a divorce and negative impact to psychological sanity of the husband.
Ouch, that one hit home.
01: They don’t work as much or at all after getting married
Ding ding, we have a winner.
women don’t respect a man that talks about his problems too much and is dependent on her.
You generally can’t rely on a woman for emotional support if you are a man but they will bitch all day long about you not sharing or being in touch with your feelings.
And 160 lbs is on the lighter side if she is an American female.
I play in the 115-140 pound weight class and at 140 they better be fit.
Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.
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