Going Monk instead of relationships ?

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Princekie wrote:

Now French women… well, that’s a different matter!

Ironically, my University work placement year, some 20 years ago, was in a big French IT company based in Les Ulis, about 6 miles outside of Paris; I shared a flat with 3 other 21-year-old guys, you can just imagine. Anyway, the French girls in that company were ABSOLUTELY STUNNING and made English girls look like plain dogs, even back then. Needless to say, I “fell in love” with a lovely French girl in the Marketing Department; I will never forget her. There’s something about French girls; the way they walk, the way they talk, their figures, something about the way their faces look, and their accent, is just so damned attractive to me. French itself, as a language, is far cruder than the English think (the English have an overly-romanticised view of the French and of the French language), and French girls do swear a lot (when talking to each other in their own language, because I over-heard them a bit whilst I was there), but they’re still so damned sexy to me. Mind you, I am going by what they were like 20 years ago, so I don’t know if they’ve got worse, better, or stayed the same, since then.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

For me its more of being comfortable by myself…To just be complete by myself…If someone comes, they can stay, if they go away then its no big deal…Its the NFG attitude that is very peaceful and keeps the focus on what I want in life instead of constantly trying to please someone else…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[BokehParticipant 65]

Monk mode is my choice. I dated a long, long time, and if I haven’t found ‘the one” by now, i’m never going to. I don’t want kids, I’m too old, and honestly, sex lost it’s shine a while ago. If i were younger, I’d still be sport f~~~ing, but now? I honestly don’t care, and if any urges pop up their little heads, I’ll just get an escort.

My life is my own. It’s quiet. I like quiet. I don’t have to get “permission” for things, like guys I know do. I don’t get a “honeydo” list on the weekends. Mancave? F~~~ you, man HOUSE. It’s small, it’s nice, it’s comfortable, and it’s mine.

I’m looking forward to a nice, quiet retirement, pursuing hobbies and not being stressed out financially or henpecked or worse, ignored in my own home. It’s not for everyone, but it’s right for me. I have women in my life, I work with them, and have some honest to god female friends. But I don’t date anymore, have no interest in dating anymore. I’m old enough that a date with a woman my age, or 10 years younger, is an interview to see if I can afford to support HER in retirement, because she never bothered to start a 401k, or borrowed against hers for her “finding herself” trip to Europe. I see women post on Facebook “I can’t wait to settle down and stop working!” when they’re in their 40’s and single.

I’m set for retirement, financially. The only issue I have is narrowing down the long list of things I want to do. None of them involve women, unless it’s to do social things with friends and family. I’ve opted out, and I couldn’t be more happy, stress free, and looking forwards to the future.

[GrumpyParticipant]

I’m a tad bit of a literalist.
Every interpersonal contact is relative IMHO.
Excluding the sexual aspect, I have no interest in “intimate” relationships with women anymore. That’s all.
I still interact and converse with women/females because there is no realistic alternative due to them being half the population of humanity, and I am straight.
However I do so on my terms, and at a safe emotional distance.

Personally I am very rules oriented, so I lay out my “rules of engagement” in plain and simple language and confirm that the other party is fully cognizant and willing to participate according to the stated rules before any further interaction takes place.
If they are not, I simply walk away. At the first sign of change to the agreed upon rule set, I also walk away.
I keep the majority of humanity at a safe physical/psychological/emotional/ distance and react accordingly to the treatment I receive from them.

The only difference in being labeled as a confirmed bachelor, a monk, or a hermit is the degree of denigration one receives due to refusing to participate and acquiesce in the ongoing s~~~fest called relationships.
Everyone in life plays “games”, my game is not playing them.

TL:DR
As long as you are not hurting others, why should anyone else care what you do?

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[LEO THE WISEParticipant 249]

Thanks guys for your point of views about this video.

It’s quite the topic amongst men going their own way. Not that easy to ditch entirely women or relationships. For some it’s less of a burden than for others.

Some consider that to be taking it too far.

But that’s still YOUR OWN WAY, whatever you choose.

Kr,
LEO THE WISE

Leo the wise : Giving to all men their needed uprise My MGTOW YOUTUBE channel, first vid : https://youtu.be/Xt-tJgVUGuI

[AzraelParticipant 502]

I appreciate the posts that talk about interacting and socializing with women. I do believe in treating people with respect, even if I don’t get it in return. Besides, my displeasure is with the human race in general. Women are just an example of what is wring with the world, and a glaring example at that.

Quit looking at my signature, queer-mo.

[LEO THE WISEParticipant 249]

Nice !! that’s a way to go, more honest than those girls asking for nothing yet expecting everything from men.

Leo the wise : Giving to all men their needed uprise My MGTOW YOUTUBE channel, first vid : https://youtu.be/Xt-tJgVUGuI

[RighteousMGTOWParticipant 8]

I went monk because in short order the women I start seeing want to know where we stand, and I don’t want a relationship so I have to tell them that and it ends. So I figure what’s the point of going down that road if it’s a waste of time for the both of us. I’m happier without women anyway, interactions with women are full of drama and s~~~ tests that I have no desire to be involved in.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

I’ve chosen to go monk for the summer, and am still monk. With my life and situation, it is just far easier.

It has been interesting to see things from the “monk” side, I see going monk as a sane alternative to “dating”. I’m getting pickier with age too.

“Aren’t you afraid of being alone ?”
“Nope, Solitude and sovereignty are superior to servitude.”

Frank V.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

I am over women. They have no place in my life. The only ones that do is my family, mom, aunt, sister, cousin. But anybody else doesnt have a chance. They screwed it up with me for good.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[ghostParticipant]

Kaido wrote:

I am over women. They have no place in my life. The only ones that do is my family, mom, aunt, sister, cousin. But anybody else doesnt have a chance. They screwed it up with me for good.

This puts a smile on my face, Kaido. You are a wise man.

[Anonymous 42]

I see only two choices from all that I have gathered.

1. Monk.

2. Endless streaming bulls~~~ with more variations than a rainbow!

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

There are currently 3 females in my life; my old-fashioned caring/kind mother, my parents’ cute/loving female dog, and my very toxic benefit-supported land-whale sister.

I have no problems with cutting my toxic sister out of my life entirely, and in fact I would have done this a while ago, if it were not for the sake of my poor young nephew (my sister and my nephew live with her current nightmare controlling boy-friend); she lives a 2-hour drive away from me, I hardly see her and my nephew, and I just have infrequent text communication with her, so that situation is manageable, at a distance, but nevertheless unfortunate (I ultimately cannot help my nephew and I have no control over his situation, as neither does his divorced father, who only gets to see him every other week-end, and so I just buy him gifts and enquire about him).

My parents are extremely nice people, but they are old-fashioned blue-pill; there are no problems between me and my parents, and I can easily visit them, since they are a 20-minute train ride away, so that situation is fine.

I have absolutely no problems with being a MGTOW Monk and NFG, myself. The only slight ‘issue’ is that I cannot get my mother to accept how bad women are nowadays and that it is better for me to be alone; my mother is a lovely caring sweet woman, but she is an old-fashioned blue-pill woman who has been protected by my father from the bad elements of the modern outside world, and so I do not push the subject of girl-friends/relationships, as it is futile and usually ends with her saying “there is a woman out there for you, just keep looking, you haven’t found the right woman yet” kind of rubbish. I need some more advice from people about how to handle this aspect of my life, but I never got any such advice before, when I asked.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I see only two choices from all that I have gathered.

1. Monk.

2. Endless streaming bulls~~~ with more variations than a rainbow!

I see two choices..

1. Monk

2. STD’s.

[LEO THE WISEParticipant 249]

I am jadded of women I seriously cannot put with their s~~~ anymore.
Even the attractive ones are giving me a bad feeling when I think at all the crap I have to deal with for nearly no return.

Women are clearly a depreciating asset and a bad investment in term of financial terms. They are not even worth holding microseconds anymore…

Going monk is just the natural state based on the rational analysis.

I do not need a nagging narcissistic woman to pollute my life and add problems, clogging my bright future ahead.

These distractions are not even amusing anymore : They are dangerous too with all the enforced laws and excessive unbalanced rights given out there, it’s not fun anymore.

Leo the wise : Giving to all men their needed uprise My MGTOW YOUTUBE channel, first vid : https://youtu.be/Xt-tJgVUGuI

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

I am going full monk now. I aint really socializing with women because all it is really its gossip and her complaining about me. The only time Ill talk with them is it concerns business. Other than that I am staying away from them and keeping it short. Only exception is family. Family are the only women I will socialize with.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[ghostParticipant]

Kaido wrote:

I am going full monk now. I aint really socializing with women because all it is really its gossip and her complaining about me. The only time Ill talk with them is it concerns business. Other than that I am staying away from them and keeping it short. Only exception is family. Family are the only women I will socialize with.

You are a quick study, Kaido. This will be one of the best decisions of your life. Believe me.

[UniquecornParticipant 48]

MONK MODE – https://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/

[UniquecornParticipant 48]

Being alone does NOT mean being lonely…women just do not get this.

[LEO THE WISEParticipant 249]

We can still grow as men going our own way by sticking with the crew of like minded folks. It’s not like women have anything interesting or valuable to say anyway….

When you hear the amount of crap gossip bulls~~~ each time they open their mouths I think I am gonna die !

Do not count of having anything meaningful and of substance from women : They are just copycats adapting to you not bringing something to you.

Leo the wise : Giving to all men their needed uprise My MGTOW YOUTUBE channel, first vid : https://youtu.be/Xt-tJgVUGuI

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