Going Cougar

[TransactionaryParticipant 45]

So, I’m currently sleeping around with this cougar that is much older than me.

We both are just considering it friends with benefits where we both know no relationship is going to last between us.

We’re just winging it at the moment taking each week as it goes where there is no commitment or strings attached.

Yay, or nay?

[EekParticipant 1162]

The only person here who can answer that is you.

The main things to remember are to protect yourself, protect your property, and steel yourself emotionally (don’t fall for the games).

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Older women make the mistake of taking it as a *compliment* when younger guys are willing to have with them.,.. but in reality, there is just no work involved. One drink and she’s off to the races. She wasn’t like that when she was 19. Nothing wrong with warming up with Stiffler’s Mom while biding your time until the 19 year olds take notice of you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

I am the wrong person to ask. I am 41 and I am really only into girls half my age.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

Good luck!! Don’t make her pregnant lol,otherwise you will be f~~~ed up for life

[TransactionaryParticipant 45]

Eek wrote:

The only person here who can answer that is you.
The main things to remember are to protect yourself, protect your property, and steel yourself emotionally (don’t fall for the games).

Definitely. I am a much more cautious man than I was at a younger age.

I definitely don’t have any blinders on.

[TransactionaryParticipant 45]

Keymaster wrote:

Older women make the mistake of taking it as a *compliment* when younger guys are willing to have with them.,.. but in reality, there is just no work involved. One drink and she’s off to the races. She wasn’t like that when she was 19. Nothing wrong with warming up with Stiffler’s Mom while biding your time until the 19 year olds take notice of you.

Funny you should mention that.

That’s how I look at it also.

You’re absolutely right about the drinking.

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Beware of the feelings that eventually will come, you and her will most likely belive that you love each other.
Your brain will attach itself to her if you f~~~ her enough times, perhaps you cuddle for a while after, sleepovers? Movies? Dinner? OUUPPPPPS
Wtf just happened shes pregnant and i love her….

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[OldBillParticipant]

Transactionary wrote:

Yay, or nay?

Yay, with a few provisos.

Let me preface all this by explaining I live in a town neighboring a major US state university. That location provides me with a number of benefits be they cultural, sporting, academic, social, or whatnot. One of those benefits are female grad students and the occasional undergrad with “daddy issues”. (I’m 54.) My social circles include professors, researchers, and other professionals associated with the university and that has given me a window into the fairly recent cougar phenomenon.

One acquaintance of mine, a female non-STEM professor in her 40s, is notorious for selecting a new boy-toy at the beginning of every academic year each fall and reducing him to near zombie status by late spring. Each starts out a happy, eager, whole person only to be transformed first by regular access to pussy and then by psychological manipulation into a silent, solemn, nonentity. Their behavior changes. Their opinions, their behavior, their hairstyles, even their wardrobe all change. When summer break begins, these husks are kicked to the curb. It’s a wonder not one has yet snapped and assaulted her. (Of course all of this is studiously ignored and even joked about because the professor in question is a woman. If a male professor was devouring female students in this manner there would be a national outcry. Hypocrisy thy name is woman.)

If the cougar in question is merely using you as a human dildo while you use her as a cum sponge, there is no problem with your arrangement.

However, if she begins attempting to control or change you in even the most seemingly insignificant manner, you need to end the arrangement immediately. While young women use their c~~~s subconsciously and reflexively to control and change their targets, older women use their c~~~s deliberately and often to “avenge” perceived slights and hurts from their youth.

Enjoy the sex, but keep checking your six.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Good for you. Enjoy it.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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