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Two helpful links:

Do Narcissists and Borderlines Deserve Love?

And:

https://www.amazon.com/Say-Goodbye-Crazy-Restore-Sanity-ebook/dp/B014W0587S/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1441837272&sr=1-1&keywords=say+goodbye+to+crazy#nav-subnav

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Well since the I originally posted this,,, I have been treating her different. I have not been walking on egg shells around her and have had a more of “well you can be ticked off and p~~~ed about your issue/trigger of the minute but I am done playing games. I am not going to fall all over myself because you cant pull up your big girl pants. I know I haven’t done a thing wrong, it is just you not controlling your emotions. And I am not going to cater to it anymore”

It seems like she is starting to get that it is her not me that is causing all the problems. She seems like she is starting to try to come to grips with her issues and realize that it really is her causing the problems. We will see where this leads to. After reading so much here in a short time I have realized that if it ends, life will go on without her and I can make myself happy. I have told her that if we split that I wouldn’t want anyone else to make her feel better about herself. And that is very true, I really don’s want anyone else. If this implodes, I know that I can MGTOW the whole way and make it work for me. Reading all of your guys stories have really been eye opening and but into sharper focus what I had already known.

Thank you for the fellowship and advise that you have extended to me and all of the other guys on here who are hurting and in need. I know that I have been brought to tears so many times feeling for what some of you guys are going through.

Stay safe and strong

Just don't care anymore,,,,

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