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[tofu916Participant 36]

Hi Guys. My name is Tofu (real name) and I have been putting off signing up here and I could kick myself in the ass for waiting so long. I am what you may consider an older MGTOW because I was suckered into marriage in my 20’s, had a couple of kids and got divorced. I was ass raped by the family courts. She is a convicted felon and I am not. Still, she got the kids and our very few assets in the divorce. Now, I am forever in the child support dungeon. I am living proof that the game is rigged and I feel that it is my duty to warn the younger guys of the dangers of simply being a man.

I am unsure of my “official” MGTOW status, because I am in the adult business and have to work with women, every day. Though, I only use them as a means to an end. Since my divorce 6 years ago, I have sworn  off relationships and will never get into one for as long as I live.

So anyway, that is a bit about me. If you’d like to know more, just ask. I am all over social media under the username ‘tofu916’ and will ALWAYS follow my MGTOW brothers.

Thank you for your time!

 

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

Better late than never brother!
20s is the most s~~~tiest time to get married because it is the time to work hard, play hard, make tons of money, and climb the career ladder. When someone marries in 20s, he practically has no assets and whatever he acquires after marriage will be split 50-50.
That’s why I tell all my brothers that if you really are a romantic type and have found a NAWALT Unicorn, please marry her after you’ve crossed 30 and put away some assets so that you’re not totally f~~~ed.

Also, there’s no such thing as an “ironclad” prenup. If you have to marry someone, don’t involve the state.

[tofu916Participant 36]

You are so right about the 20’s, bro. I remember hearing something saying “20’s is for learning, 30’s is for earning…”. The interesting thing is, I actually SEE younger guys actually getting a clue about the way the game is rigged.

One of my camera guys is 24 and very talented. His gf is 30 and keeps bugging him to get married and have a baby. He is always shooting her down and says that he fears she may leave him, because her biological clock is ticking and he refuses to do anything until he turns at least 35.

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

tofu916 wrote:

20’s is for learning, 30’s is for earning…

Totally a myth bro! 20s is for working 80 hrs a week like a dog. Only then, you get to earn those really big bucks in 30s. The sooner people realize this, the better. For e.g. My cousin has friends who chase skirts 4 days a week while he’s working hard and getting so good at his job that it isn’t even funny anymore. He’s in running for VP a bulge bracket Investment Bank. Not to say he doesn’t have a social life, he goes out two days a week religiously.

20s is the time when you can really put in the hours because your body can take the punishment. Try doing that in 30s and you’ll end up killing yourself. Remember men age like wine, women age like milk. A 30ish man with a tax free million $ put away in the Caymans is a pussy magnet. When you have a million $, you don’t even need to pretend about “game”. You have a natural f-you game that men in 20s can never have.

20s aren’t supposed to be easy, college isn’t supposed to be easy. If you scooted through 20s easily, then you are setting yourself to fail in the long run.
It’s hard not to, because people always tell you that you are young, energetic and can conquer the world. You’ll have enough time to make money later, just enjoy your youth for now. Those people are bulls~~~ters and you should delete their contacts from your phone and never see them again.

Get up and dust yourself off buddy, you were suckered into marriage but you are free now. It not too late for money, power, glory, and happiness. You can start a minimum wage job now and still make ends meet because you’re not carrying dead weight. But you already have a career which is good. Put in the hours and enjoy the life.
Always remember that hard work trumps everything (intelligence, talent, connections…).

[SoldanoParticipant 108]

Hi welcome. So in the adult business huh ?

Interesting i bet you have very interesting stories to share.

Anway welcome, itt’s nice to see men finally realising we need to support each other after so many years of womanisation that have made us believe we’re in competition. We’re not, they are in competition to tie the knot before it’s too late.

[DilbertParticipant 281]

When I hear about all you guys who got ass-raped in divorce and are now shackled to a money pit I wonder if it wouldn’t be better to disappear and go ghost/dark for a few years, then emerge with a new fake identity.  Hell for a while but at least you get to own the rest of your life.

It is for very good reasons the Devil chose to tempt Eve not Adam...

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

Dilbert wrote:

then emerge with a new fake identity

That’s what I always wonder. It’s not that difficult too. I’m totally in favor of it. When you are paying so much alimony that you basically have only $100 remaining from your salary each month, then I say hell with your career. Change states, get lost, build a career and a life somewhere else!

[experiencedParticipant]

To: TOFU916, “One of my camera guys is 24 and very talented. His gf is 30 and keeps bugging him to get married and have a baby. He is always shooting her down and says that he fears she may leave him, because her biological clock is ticking and he refuses to do anything until he turns at least 35.

Her trick is to get him to marry, have a kid, and then she may leave him, but he’ll have to keep paying…and paying…and paying, but she probably won’t tell him that ahead of time?

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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