Give Better Than You Get

[Quiet ThomParticipant 116]

I just saw a preview of a movie that really frosted my cheerios, if you know what I’m sayin’. It was the preview of Ant-Man. It looked promising and like a fun way to waste a couple of hours and then IT happened. Paul Rudd is being schooled by some female on how to fully utilize the powers that will be bestowed on him. She tells him that he needs to learn how to punch. He puts his hand up and says with a smirk “Okay, show me how to punch.” In other words, punch the hand he’s holding up. Instead, she blasts him in the face and he staggers back. “That’s how you punch.” says she with a smug look on her face. Hilarity ensues and the preview moves on. It is my sincere hope that the rest of the scene continues in this way I’m about to put forth, but I know it won’t. It would be great if Paul Rudd regained his footing, smiled as he rubbed his chin, and would say, “Oh….I see.” Then he’d pivot and would throw a crisp right jab that knocks her senseless. Seeing her eyes roll back and her head bounce off the floor in slow motion would be icing on the cake. He then could slowly walk over to her, bend down with a huge smile, lightly slap her face to wake her, and when she painfully comes to he could say, “Gee…thanks for the lesson. How’d I do?” This will NEVER happen in a movie. Feminists would spontaneously combust, manginas would clutch their pearls in horror, and white knights would want to avenge this outrage. For the record, I do not advocate violence to anyone, male or female. But, know this. If you think you can visit harm on someone without consequence, you will (more often then not) be in for a rude awakening.

You may ask, have I ever hit a woman? The answer is yes. Once, and I only hit her once. She had picked up a rock the size of a small melon and came at me. I’m sure it was my fault that she felt compelled to do that. I probably shouldn’t have responded to the stupid that was running out of her mouth. I actually pleaded with her to put the rock down, but she chose to charge me instead. I was cornered and couldn’t run…..it was so f~~~ing surreal.  For one of the few times in my existance, I feared for my life. So, I stopped her. Cold. I didn’t tag her very hard and she was as good as new when she woke up. I sure would have liked it a lot better if she put the stupid rock down. Not my finest moment and nothing I’m proud of, to be sure.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Women are f~~~ing insane. As Bill Burr said, they don’t get knocked about like guys so they never ponder their actions.

After a fight .. on the drive home .. a guy will ponder ‘you know I think I may be been a douch back there’ and he adjusts accordingly.

Women don’t.

[xgreenlanternoxParticipant 253]

I agree that they ask for it sometimes. IDK though I just can’t bring myself to hit a woman… My ex was having a temper tantrum once and I tried to be a calm guy and put my arms around her and she head butted me. Instinctively, I was half swing headed towards her face and then immediately redirected my arm down to the floor and just walked away.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Trust me … ALL women have been ‘trained’ to be insane.

They will ‘front’ up to you knowing that you’ll do nothing. That’s how they control you.

However, just YouTube ‘man hit woman’ and you’ll see how far they’ll push a guy.

[RoyDalParticipant]

The martial arts have taught me not, not to use violence to settle disputes (believe it or not). That said, your first responsibility is to maintain your integrity, meaning stay alive and with as little dangerous injury as possible. Don’t let anyone harm you, physically or mentally. It will be easier to talk your way out of a court room than a morgue or loony bin.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Quiet ThomParticipant 116]

Believe me, FNF, I held off as long as I could not to pop her. If she had not charged me with the rock above her head (which surprised me BTW…she indicated that she was going to put it down) I might have just tried to take it away from her or maneuvered my ass to a point where I could run away. This girl went f~~~ing crazy and I mean that in every sense of the word. Why? I’ll never know but I’ll bet it was my fault. Now that I’m older and much, much wiser, I can honestly say that I can and would avoid or walk away from conflict before it got within binocular distance of terminal. The best fights are the ones you never had.

[xgreenlanternoxParticipant 253]

Quiet Thom wrote:

Believe me, FNF, I held off as long as I could not to pop her. If she had not charged me with the rock above her head (which surprised me BTW…she indicated that she was going to put it down) I might have just tried to take it away from her or maneuvered my ass to a point where I could run away. This girl went f~~~ing crazy and I mean that in every sense of the word. Why? I’ll never know but I’ll bet it was my fault. Now that I’m older and much, much wiser, I can honestly say that I can and would avoid or walk away from conflict before it got within binocular distance of terminal. The best fights are the ones you never had.

Sorry man, I apologize if I came off as hinting that you were wrong. You were right as rain to pop that bitch good for basically attempting to assault you with a deadly weapon. My situation was nowhere near as severe as yours (my nose hurt like hell but that was about it) and I would even agree that even though I couldn’t do it, if it was another guy in my same position and he rocked her s~~~ good, I wouldn’t say he was wrong either. Don’t hit unless you plan on being hit. My point is that I still have that pathetic “weak” spot for a female and may likely let her get away with hitting me (but of course… I have no problem fighting a man). If put in the same situation as you though, I too may find the ability to fight back.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I have an 80lb dog who could do some massive f~~~ing damage to me if she wanted to.  Literally any night I’m sleeping she could jump up on my bed and rip my throat out.  At the same time I could hurt her pretty bad if I wanted to or straight up kill her, but I don’t.  Its a mutual understanding…in human terms we’d describe it as loyalty, respect, and love.

Its sad that an animal can understand this relationship on the most primal level, but a modern woman can not.

Sure maybe they can get away with hitting a man, but it doesn’t make it ok, or doesn’t mean they should do it.  At the same time men have a right to defend themselves, and I laugh my ass off every time I watch one of those videos where a girl swings first and then is totally stunned when the dude swings back.  The way they think is he won’t swing back because he’s a pussy, but when he does swing back he’s a coward for hitting a woman…they’re too f~~~ing stupid to think maybe I could hurt him with a weapon or a cheap shot, but he could definitely hurt me any second and never has raised a hand against me so I don’t think I’ll raise one against him.

[Executor MaxwellParticipant 591]

Quiet Thom wrote:

 I feared for my life. So, I stopped her. Cold. I didn’t tag her very hard and she was as good as new when she woke up. I sure would have liked it a lot better if she put the stupid rock down. Not my finest moment and nothing I’m proud of, to be sure. 

You may not be proud but I am proud of you. I’ve noticed it’s usually really hard for the older guys to defend themselves. And that just leads to the dead bodies of men that failed to defend themselves. Not always so easy with the younger guys either but the odds are a lot better.

No doubt she was ready to put the rock down. Right in your skull that is.

I once had a girl threaten me. I stated clearly I would defend myself.  She asked incredulously if I would hit a girl. I responded deadpan that I would without hesitation, and that my first judgement of anyone is weather or not they are trying to kill me if the answer is yes I know all I need to judge them. There was a crowd but they didn’t think I said anything unreasonable,  that or I was regarded as high enough in status to not be challenged on it.

Back then I’d have described her as looking at me in shock, now I’d say she stood with her mouth agape desperately trying to spin up the hamster but when she saw she had no support from the crowd she backed down and started acting submissive so fast you’d think she got hit by a brain slug.

They behave so evil and violent because they truly believe they will have no accountability for anything they do no matter how vile or deplorable.

While an ironic phrase to choose considering the nature of our phenomena “All that is needed for evil to succeed is for good men to do nothing” Undoubtedly the author didn’t envision current conditions but in summary Quiet Thom you did the right thing and I am glad that you did as I am glad that you live.

 

[Quiet ThomParticipant 116]

Thank you for your kind words, Sir and good will and wishes right back at ya. This happened many moons ago and now I know the warning signs and avoid situations like this like a plague. Although I know I did what I had to do, I’m still p~~~ed that I was forced to do it. I remember thinking after it was over, “Jesus, what a f~~~ing idiot.”

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