Girly Boys

[herbertwestParticipant 9]

I am a single father of two teenaged girls. I have tried to teach them to keep their word, and that actions have consequences, and to be kind to others. That is not the main point of what I have to discuss, my concern is this: I used to be afraid that one of my kids would one day be stupid and end up pregnant. I don’t worry about that any longer because almost all of the high school boys I have met seem to not have enough testosterone in their bodies to make sperm! I recall shaking hands with one boy and actually backing off on the amount of “squeeze” because I was afraid that I would hurt him! To me, this is a consequence of single mothers raising sons. I have a niece that got pregnant out of wedlock (this was back when boys could make sperm), had a son and, to make a long story short, she completely f~~~ed that kid up. He was a smart young man, and I think she crushed him. Today, he cannot hold down a job of any account, has substance abuse problems, and has been in and out of mental institutions.
I am a product of a single parent household, and “learning” manhood was a long uphill climb that I am still climbing at the age of 59. I am sure that many of you are in the same boat, and have seen the same things I have. Thoughts?

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

yeah. i skype with my boys twice a week and i see this happening. My one son told me he had an issue with another boy talking s~~~ to him. i told him to stand up for himself and give it right back. Of course, he has been told to tell the teacher and have her solve his problems for him. Just one example, albeit a seemingly small one, children have to learn to solve their problems on their own and stand up for themselves. As it is, they’re learning to complain and have nanny state government solve their problems for them.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[markParticipant 451]

I love being part of this generation of “sissified” young men. It makes things so easy for me!

I am 38, and I am yet to find a girl who doesn’t love how “manly” I treat them. Every single time, after I have reached a certain level of trust with the female, she ends up confessing how fed up she is with men who don’t act likewise.

The problem with kids raised by single moms is that they (moms) tend to somehow revenge on the kids, trying to make them “respectful” of women and all that crap. As a result, they become losers in more ways than one.

I have a coworker just like that. His manager has made enough waves for him to know he is going to be sacked sooner than later. Me, real man, whenever I face a dangerous situation at work I already start looking for another job. What the hell! Even whenever a yearly review comes I look at other offers just in case. This guy prefers to wait and see. Guess who is going to keep making dough and who is going to end up as a social welfare repository?

We are annihilating men. They are making us shadows of what we used to be. We really need to get back on the saddle.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10917]

This could be being caused by the Anti-bullying bulls~~~ that has been floating around the schools for awhile. When I was a kid if you got bullied you didn’t let the teacher handle it, you took it to the locker room or an off-school-site location and settled it. Even if you lost you got respect. Telling any teacher so that they could handle it was an express ticket to getting your ass handed to you on a daily basis. You learned to stand up for yourself. Even amongst neighborhood friends if you had an issue you settled it there and then continued doing whatever it was that you were doing and often times with the person you had a beef with. Now there is cyber bullying which makes me laugh. How does one get bullied over an internet connection?

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[HuevonParticipant 68]

Mr. Spock wrote:

How does one get bullied over an internet connection?

You stupid pointy ear idiot!!! That’s how it works! Just messing around.
I totally agree with you. When I was a kid, we had the same rules, and I’m from Germany. So these rules seem to be international. You get bullied, you fight back. You tell a teacher, you will get your ass kicked until you leave school. We were somewhat gruesome as kids. The guys who would go tell the teacher were outcasts. Children nowadays seem to suffer a loss of reality when they go crazy about bullying on the internet.

[Anonymous 42]

Women lost their identity in the onslaught of feminism, they instill the toxic thinking into their children, both boys and girls, creating generation after generation of children with a lost identity. With the man now being extracted from the family, his input and influence is null, giving rise to a drone nation of lost people holding their hands out to gynocracy for their daily feeding, a condition where all identity is lost, and personality disorders are more multiple than the stars above. Our culture and national identity can only be found in stories of the past (histories breadcrumbs).
Women were always fickle and unpredictable creatures, before feminism they were powerless to act on these fickle impulses and for the most part ignored by men. Now with the horse power of law empowering them to act on these fickle impulses, only a fool of a man would ignore a thousand horse power wrecking ball swinging in every direction! The new key to a man’s sanity and security is surly not ignorance anymore, it being aware of this relatively new paradigm and avoiding it at all cost!

[QuietManParticipant 26]

Whenever I hear of kids being raised by “single moms,” what I translate that to is kids being raised by “schools” instead. I don’t think most single moms take the time and effort that is needed to raise their kids. They use their community to raise their kids. And in most instances, that community is the public school system (I’m talking about in America here, since that is where I live.”

The worst thing you can do is let the school system raise your kids. They will teach them dependence upon others to solve their problems, dependence upon the government to provide for them, and they will do whatever it takes to destroy any kid’s independence–especially if that kid is a boy.

A father’s job is to teach his kid independence, for fathers are the ones who know what the world is really like. The world isn’t filled with grazing unicorns who occasionally jump over rainbows out of shear joy and step a lively dance to a Brittany Spears song about the joys of being a slut. It’s a rough place were nothing can replace hard work, knowing how to do things is the recipe to survival, and you can’t always count on others to be there for you. And bad s~~~ happens on a regular basis. Public schools can’t even allow kids to think of the world like that. It would threaten their attempts to convince all kids that the government knows what’s best for them and that they should let the government do all their thinking for them.

I have two sons. I raise them my way, and the school can be damned. I have taken my boys hunting since they were too young to hunt. They didn’t carry a gun in the woods for years. They went with me and we had fun together in the woods. Both of them, however, did shoot their first deer when they were nine years old. They watched as I gutted the deer, hung them in trees and skinned and cut them up into steaks and roasts. Early on, they learned exactly where meat came from, how you harvested it and how you processed it. They learned the damage shooting a live animal causes, and the hard work it takes to put food on the table. These are all lessons, in my humble opinion, that transcends the garbage forced upon them in public education.

My sons’ teacher’s response to me showing my kids how to hunt? She pulled them aside, individually at separate times, and told them that I was a bad influence on them. This c~~~ of a teacher, who thinks I give a rat’s ass about her f~~~ing opinion, told my own sons that I was a bad influence on them. F~~~ her and f~~~ the system that allows her to think her f~~~ing opinion should make one bit of difference to my sons. My sons didn’t even tell me about the teacher doing this until after the school year was over. The c~~~ was retiring at the end of the year, so they waited until she was gone. My boys have spent time with me and they know me. They knew this teacher was full of s~~~ and should be ignored. That didn’t happen by accident.

Single moms don’t teach their sons or daughters lessons like this. They don’t have it in them. The public school system is a female dominated institution, and the “Girly Boys” are a direct result of that. So, it’s no surprise that so many boys today are girly. They’re raised by girls who have been empowered to the point that they actually think their irrational view of the world is realistic, and even if the world isn’t a soft, warm, fuzzy kind of place, it ought to be. I’ve told my sons over and over, “Don’t let the school turn you into girls.” They know what that means, but I keep an eye on them daily to make sure I’m not letting this dependence creep into their way of thinking.

[herbertwestParticipant 9]

Quiet Man, I think you are spot on! I do not hunt but I do machine work on guns and like to shoot, but mostly black powder. Both my girls have shot guns, know how to change a tire and the oil in a car and how to jump a battery. My youngest helped me lay new flooring in the kitchen last week. I am afraid my girls are more manly than some of the boys I have met.
The American school system is a means for the state to teach helplessness and eternal childhood to everyone. In this way, the state can become an eternal parent. I think this is a tacit part of the radical feminist agenda. This also explains why boys are seemingly targeted as being bad actors in the school system, and why men are being excluded from the child rearing process.
I believe that one day, the whole s~~~ house is going to go up in flames, due to a combination of stupidity, shortsightedness and greed. It will be men that know how to work with tools and know how to get s~~~ done that will piece the whole mess back together

[WolveParticipant 191]

This sissified generation is there for a reason though that reason being those who stand up for themselves are called “Problem children” by teachers and other children’s parents. To give you an example bullying if you get bullied for example someone goes around calling you names and you don’t go to the teacher but stand up for yourself and tell him “F~~~ off dick” or anything that isn’t “Weeh mommy, teacher help me” they will go “Weeh, mommy, teacher help me” and you will get punished, over, and over, and over again every single goddamn time.

I’m not even talking about standing up for yourself outside of the damn school which is a mess all of its own with social media whining and s~~~ talking online, if you ever dare to say something to them online you will get called out for “cyber bullying” and punished by either your parents, your teachers or even other people’s parents going out of their way too call s~~~ on you chasing after you to “correct your behavior”.
The few people who do stand up for themselves will inevitably end up with some mental problem, most likely depression and or a stress based disorder from all the f~~~ing bulls~~~ being thrown at you.
Those people who stand up for themselves are still out there, just they all got a disorder at this point from all the BS thrown at them over the years for doing so.

[Darth CovfefeParticipant 62]

That’s more pussy for me!

The only reason women have so much privilege is because 20 million years ago they forgot how to lay eggs.

[RoyDalParticipant]

herbertwest wrote:

I have tried to teach them to keep their word, and that actions have consequences, and to be kind to others.

That is my idea of good parenting. BTW, chess teaches people these basic facts of life. Come to think on it, so does Monopoly.

herbertwest wrote:

He was a smart young man, and I think she crushed him. Today, he cannot hold down a job of any account, has substance abuse problems, and has been in and out of mental institutions.

There are plenty more like him in your daughters age group. Do not assume they are in the clear because most of their cohort is filled with girly-boys: Most is not all!

uchibenkei wrote:

children have to learn to solve their problems on their own and stand up for themselves.

Looking back in my life I realize I should have kicked more bullies in the b~~~~. Even if I lost the fight, they would have been taught to move on to easier targets. Win or lose, the school “authorities” always found a way to make me the wrong one, so I had nothing to lose by actually kicking the tar out of the bully of the day.

herbertwest wrote:

Both my girls have shot guns, know how to change a tire and the oil in a car and how to jump a battery. My youngest helped me lay new flooring in the kitchen last week. I am afraid my girls are more manly than some of the boys I have met.

Have I mentioned you are a good parent? You are!

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