Girlfriends subtle double standards give me a headache

[Mr ZiesParticipant 8]

Hi, although I know being in a relationship may not always be synonymous with mgtow but ive been one to go my own way in many respects- all the right ones in my opinion, and we’re both agreed that if this ever gets stale or we find ourselves into someone else we’ll bring it to a close. That was one I established early on- lifes long why not spend it with different people and get a more rounded view of the world. Now, its been two years and although my hobbies and what makes me happy come first and theres never been any dispute about this…just recently ive noticed little double standards that have caused me to expend a little more energy than id have liked to, explaining why they were double standards. For example when we play fight she grabbed my clothes, id said once how i didnt like this. But she did it again so i returned the favour to which she said couldve hurt her. Even later taking me to one side and telling me she didnt like it. This caused me to have to explain her fuzzy logic which we both then agreed on. But then later in an albeit fun week, she told me how she likes the voice of this one musician, i said i couldnt see it but then she kept on talking about him. At the time i thought maybe shes just discovered something new and is really into it. But later that day she sees a girl smile at me and when she asked me who it was i said i didnt know she got a bit antsy and said how she seemed to know me. Bringing it up later on in the night i retorted by pointing out that she talked about this musician guy for ages and i didnt bat an eyelid, which she then agreed and apologised. i feel like some fun is still there to be had before we end it but not if all the while im having to keep a score card. You guys know any way around this?

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

You guys know any way around this?

Yeah. Dump her.

Or just quit giving a s~~~ about her till she goes away.  Just don’t expect her to change her nature, because it won’t happen.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

MOWsince95 wrote:

Just don’t expect her to change her nature, because it won’t happen.

Trying to pound some logic into a broads skull is like trying to teach a goldfish calculus, it just can’t be done

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

treelville..miami wrote:

Trying to pound some logic into a broads skull is like trying to teach a goldfish calculus, it just can’t be done

LULZ!

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

MOWsince95 wrote:

Yeah. Dump her.

Straight to the point. And true.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[a bananaParticipant 288]

as keymaster would say

“NEXT THAT BITCH”

 

[BlackEagleParticipant 54]

Uugh so many similarities, This will keep on going and it will get worst. The relations~~~ will become toxic! and eventually you will stop giving a s~~~ about childish behavior like that.  Give her an ultimatum with a get better, Or DUMP her. Other wise she will dump you as soon as she find another. When you dump ,let her know that her s~~~ her childish behavior had direct effect on the outcome. tell her you going MGTOW and that you have taken the red pill

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

Dude, quit and walk away now. If you’re keeping score, you’re not in a relationship you’re playing a game. All games end eventually, this cannot be avoided. Sure you had fun, good for you and her, now walk away while can still remember the good times.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

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