Girlfriends removing blokes friends

[Jim01Participant 6678]

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/relationships/11029239/Mates-Most-married-men-waved-their-best-friends-goodbye-years-ago.html#disqus_thread

just spotted this and I could only make it until the point where he says single blokes must be gay and then skipped straight to the comments and there are some good ones down there that are worth a read where blokes see how women deliberately cut a bloke off from his mates

This has been happening to me recently – as much as most of my friends have come and gone down the years, one particular bloke is someone I have been good mates with for going on ten years now and he has been going out with a girl for nearly a year and I am seeing myself slowly starting to get marginalised. It used to be guaranteed drinks at least once a week plus football Saturdays but now she has started doing football with him so I am cut out of that and I am finding texts go unanswered and I am getting regular “can’t do this week mate” for drinks. Is a real shame actually as I can slowly see this ten year long friendship that has seen us both through s~~~ is coming to an end because she probably doesn’t approve of him being out drinking with me as she can’t control him.

Another bloke when I was out for a drink last week said “my girlfriend is away this weekend so can stay out later” so he has been pussywhipped….what the f~~~ has happened to the male gender? Noone stands up for themselves anymore and bows down to the vagina

[Jim01Participant 6678]

The more of the comments under that article I read the more I see men finally waking up! Definitely worth making some time to read through them

[VileNordParticipant 766]

Women don’t love men. Ever. Never have.

A woman in a relationship with a man wants to eliminate all of his activities that don’t benefit her. She doesn’t care about him losing friends because SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM. She doesn’t care about his need for solitude or male bonding because SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM. She doesn’t care about his need to relax after work because SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM! Women only love what a man can provide for them, anything that a man needs for his own well being is considered only if it has a negative effect on hers.

A man in a relationship needs to make it known upfront that if his quality of life suffers, so will hers.

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[magx01Participant 30]

<cite>@vilenord said:</cite>
Women don’t love men. Ever. Never have.

A woman in a relationship with a man wants to eliminate all of his activities that don’t benefit her. She doesn’t care about him losing friends because SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM. She doesn’t care about his need for solitude or male bonding because SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM. She doesn’t care about his need to relax after work because SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM! Women only love what a man can provide for them, anything that a man needs for his own well being is considered only if it has a negative effect on hers.
.

So true. Sad but true.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Men need to start telling girlfriends tough s~~~ if they get mad that they want to hang out with their friends.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Oh yes! Thanks for that link.

But first…. WHAT is with that damn go-to picture of those martini-slupring over-the-hill turkey necks on SexAndtheCity?
It’s the same one! ALL THE TIME!

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1093011/Women-far-promiscuous-men-says-shock-new-study.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1213212/The-ego-epidemic-more-inflated-sense-fabulousness.html

Are these the poster chicks for “the new female”? Jesus Christ that is horrifying. And the pictures are more than 15 years old! 15 years is practically a whole generation. Will Sex and the City 3 take place in a rest home?

And now, back to the original topic and our regularly scheduled programming…..

Vile Nord said it. The book “the Manipulated Man” addresses this topic too. It’s a prime function of the female and they are almost totally unaware that they do it. WHY do they do it? It’s quite simple really. To make the man feel totally alone. To artificially inflate her value and contribution to his life. In the same way that a feminist feels she has “won” be bringing a man DOWN (instead of lifting herself up)…. a wife/girlfriend REMOVES his friends to make herself look more important and most valuable to his life. After she carefully extracted and alienated his friends, she bad mouths them, leads him to believe he “doesn’t need them”, they are a “bad influence” and picks them off – one by one. Until she forced him into a situation where he one day looks around and falsely believes she will always be there… and is all he really has. “see? your friends deserted you, but I didn’t”. She is TERRIFIED that he will wake up to realize that (like an indoor cat) he will realize he his missing out on life, she programs him to thing she IS his life, and there is no other world outside of her. It’s remarkable, really.

I have so many married friends like this I can’t even count them all. One in particular. For the longest time, the wife worked her ass off to try and pawn me off to her over-the-hill single fat friends. When her plan backfired, and she realized I am not as brain-dead as her husband, she panics and tells the husband “you don’t need that unmarried loser around here”. (or something to that effect). The last time I saw him, he provoked an argument out of nowhere. He never did this before, We always laughed LOUD when we got together. Having great fun and talking about school days and people his wife didn’t even know from his previous life. She got intensely jealous of this. We were friends for more than 25 years, and his BITCH wife has made sure we don’t even speak anymore. What a c~~~.

You guys have really been terrific with your contributions and discussions here.
You’re making us very glad we started the forum when we did.
Very proud to have each and every one of you here.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

Gone back to the older threads – shocked it has been over 5 years! Just crazy how time flies!

Does Keymaster post anymore? Know a lot of crap happened but not the same without him

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

VileNord wrote:

Women don’t love men. Ever. Never have.

A woman in a relationship with a man wants to eliminate all of his activities that don’t benefit her. She doesn’t care about him losing friends because SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM. She doesn’t care about his need for solitude or male bonding because SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM. She doesn’t care about his need to relax after work because SHE DOES NOT LOVE HIM! Women only love what a man can provide for them, anything that a man needs for his own well being is considered only if it has a negative effect on hers.

A man in a relationship needs to make it known upfront that if his quality of life suffers, so will hers.

Beautiful insight brother.
Women want a human ATM. Women want a beast of burden.
Blue pilled men would happily let women work them to death.
Screw women. Buy golf clubs (or something you’ll enjoy)

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