girlfriend stalls career

[DirtBikeManParticipant 535]

On drudge earlier today. What an awful, selfish bitch.

http://montrealgazette.com/news/local-news/mcgill-music-student-awarded-350000-after-girlfriend-stalls-career

McGill University music student Eric Abramovitz was among the top clarinetists in Canada. He studied with some of the country’s elite teachers from the age of seven. He won first prize at the Canadian Music Competition six times. He was a featured soloist with the Montreal Symphony Orchestra and the Orchestre symphonique de Québec.

In late 2013, Abramovitz applied for a full two-year scholarship to complete his bachelor’s degree at the Colburn Conservatory of Music in Los Angeles. Every student at Colburn receives a full scholarship, including tuition, room and board as well as money for meals and other expenses, worth roughly $50,000 a year.

If accepted, he would study under Yehuda Gilad, considered one of the best clarinet teachers on the planet. Gilad accepts two students a year out of dozens of applicants. To be chosen is virtually a guarantee of a high-paying symphony career directly out of college. After an exhaustive pre-screening process, Abramovitz flew to Los Angeles in February 2014 with his parents to do a live audition before Gilad and a committee of faculty members.

A month later, Colburn sent an email to Abramovitz. He had been chosen.

Except Abramovitz never got the email. Jennifer Lee, a fellow McGill music student and Abramovitz’s girlfriend at the time, did. They had started dating in September 2013, and within a month he was staying at her apartment almost full time. He trusted her. He let her use his laptop. He gave her his passwords.

Scared he would move away and perhaps no longer be in a relationship with her, Lee deleted the email. She sent the Colburn Conservatory of Music an email, pretending to be Abramovitz, refusing the offer because he would “be elsewhere.”

She sent Abramovitz an email pretending to be Yehuda Gilad, under a new address she apparently established herself, giladyehuda09@gmail.com, saying Abramovitz had not been accepted for a scholarship at Colburn. Writing as Gilad, she told Abramovitz he was offered a position to study at the University of Southern California with a scholarship of $5,000 a year. Annual tuition at USC is $51,000, a cost she knew Abramovitz could not afford.

Abramovitz was completely taken in. He lost his two-year scholarship opportunity to study with Gilad. He completed his studies at McGill, and then did a two-year certificate program at USC, not on scholarship, where he got to study part-time under Gilad.

In an interview with the National Post, Abramovitz explained how he discovered the ruse months later, long after his relationship with Lee ended in September 2014 for unrelated reasons.

It was at his second audition before Gilad, in which they had a brief and strange interaction, when Gilad said, “Why did you reject me?”

It was a fair question. As Abramovitz put it, “You don’t reject him.” But having done nothing of the sort, Abramovitz asked in return, “Why did you reject me?”

They could not sort it out then and there, but over time, the wonder lingered. Another student of Gilad’s asked him about it. Eventually, Abramovitz forwarded the fake email to Gilad, who replied: “I’ve never seen that in my life.”

“That’s when I knew that something underhanded was afoot,” Abramovitz said. One day in 2015, he and a friend set about trying to gain access to the fake email account, and because Abramovitz and Lee once shared a computer, he knew one of her passwords, which he tried.

“Miraculously, it logged right in,” he said. Her email was listed as the recovery email, her phone was the recovery phone. “We felt like Sherlock Holmes.”

Abramovitz also said she did a similar thing involving fake emails with his successful application to the Juilliard School in New York, causing him to decline it.

After Abramovitz learned of the deception, he sued for $300,000 in general damages, including for loss of reputation, loss of educational opportunity and loss of two years of income potential.

On Wednesday, Ontario Superior Court judge David L. Corbett ruled in his favour, and added $50,000 “against Ms. Lee for her despicable interference in Mr. Abramovitz’s career.”

The case was heard in Ontario because Lee is a resident there.

“I accept and find that Mr. Abramovitz lost a unique and prestigious educational opportunity, one that would have advanced his career as a professional clarinetist,” Corbett wrote. “It is difficult to quantify such a loss. Mr Abramovitz’s life and career have continued. Imagining how his life would have been different if he had studied for two years under Mr. Gilad, and earned his teacher’s respect and support, requires more speculation than the law permits. One hears … of the ‘big breaks’ that can launch a promising artist to a stratospheric career.

“I cannot speculate as to how high and how quickly Mr. Abramovitz’s career might have soared, but for the interference by Ms. Lee. But the law does recognize that the loss of a chance is a very real and compensable loss.”

The judge found that the lost two years in scholarship was worth $50,000 a year. The cost of the two years Abramovitz studied under the certificate program at USC was estimated at $50,000 for tuition and another $30,000 in living expenses. Based on testimony from Gilad, who noted that Abramovitz won numerous competitions in his first five months in Los Angeles and secured a position in the Santa Barbara Orchestra, Corbett agreed he had lost out on two years of potential salary because of his girlfriend’s deceit, worth $71,500 U.S. a year.

“I am very frustrated that a highly talented musician like Eric was the victim of such an unthinkable, immoral act that delayed his progress and advancement as an up-and-coming young musician and delayed his embarking on a most promising career,” Gilad wrote.

Corbett agreed to Abramovitz’s claim for damages of $300,000 Canadian. To that he added $25,000 in aggravated damages, representing “the incompensable personal loss suffered by Mr. Abramovitz by having a closely held personal dream snatched from him by a person he trusted.

“The general damages reflect financial losses; the aggravated damages are modest recognition of the anguish and hurt that has cost Mr. Abramovitz no money, but which has nonetheless hurt him.” Another $25,000 was charged to cover court costs and legal fees.

He said he is not certain he will be able to collect his damages, as he does not know where she is and she has blocked him on social media.

Abramovitz earned a position with the Nashville Symphony Orchestra. Last March, it was announced he was appointed associate principal clarinet of the Toronto Symphony Orchestra.

His former girlfriend never responded to the statement of claim against her, never filed a notice of intent to defend or a statement of defence, and thus was noted in default. Lee could not be reached for comment.

“A defendant who has been noted in default is deemed to admit the truth of all allegations made in the statement of claim,” the judgment explained.

“This award expresses the court’s revulsion at what Ms. Lee has done,” Judge Corbett wrote in his summation.

The most important thing you can do is ask yourself, what do I really want out of life. Really think about it, and always be true to yourself. Then Do it.

[MACHOParticipant]

I believe Romulus beat you to it!

This Is One Cold Hearted Bitch

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[DirtBikeManParticipant 535]

Dang, sorry.

The most important thing you can do is ask yourself, what do I really want out of life. Really think about it, and always be true to yourself. Then Do it.

[experiencedParticipant]

Trying to think of a way to prevent her from doing the same sort of thing to the next guy.
Probably better to encourage guys to read mgtow.com as opposed to hunting her down smashing all her teeth in and killing her.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Russky2Participant 3086]

S~~~ like this reminds me of this:

MGTOW AKBAR

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Fairly common to have two or more post up on the same topic.

Interesting read. Wonder if he will ever get any of the 300k.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

DirtBikeMan wrote:

she has blocked him on social media.

Because she owes him over $300,000 (lol)
If it was a man owing vagina-money they would garnish his wages and put him in jail.

Interesting how their relationS~~~ ended within a year anyway.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

W.A.C. – What a c~~~!

#ManOut

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Employ debt collectors and pursue her to the grave. Get warrants for her arrest any and everywhere. Destroy her, utterly.

Equality, right?

[Anonymous 42]

The emotion of love must be avoided at all cost!

Douse it in gas and burn the motherf~~~er!

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Enter the c~~~ into the “Register-Her” database and ruin her future too.

I would personally take revenge on her. In a way I can’t describe here.

To keep away from such a need, I kept away from women precautiously…

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[joetechParticipant]

I had a girlfriend once that did something very similar to me, although it wasn’t this significant. I don’t remember what exactly it was that she f~~~ed up for me (I think it was a job), but when I asked her why she did it her reply was that she was afraid basically that I would excel and leave her behind, like this girl not wanting her bf to move to L.A.. This woman has some serious insecurity issues. I broke up with her and just moved on. I ended up getting a better job, but I never forgot the surprise I felt that someone who was supposed to care for me would do that, but that was when I was young and still learning.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 12]

That is not stalling.
This is a P-39 Flat spin with the CG way aft and depleted nose ammo stores.

Unrecoverable damage.
She ruined his life path – not even married.

What a fool.
Never give access to anything not absolutely necessary.
Based on fear.
not facts.
FEAR.
Emotion.

[Anonymous 1]

Girlfriends and Wives are the “Career Killer.” The truth is Women are afraid of THEIR men becoming successful. They are afraid of THEIR man upgrading.

Meanwhile, Hypergamy is always running in their mind and they will monkey branch to next wallet ASAP. Sabotaging one man after the other, they leave a trail of human wreckage behind them.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

joetech wrote:

I never forgot the surprise I felt that someone who was supposed to care for me would do that, but that was when I was young and still learning.

I already posted in the parallel thread that my parents kept me down so they would keep me as a caregiver.

Well, I turned their house and land into a car part and electronics storage facility.

God has ways of taking revenge.

Not letting me go meant that I had to do what I always wanted “locally”…

And having it rent-free became the reason I stayed in “MY” paradise.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

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