Girl Used To Run With

[LaserParticipant 33]

I like weight training & running. Used to run with this attractive girl. Was friends with her husband and knew other friends from work who knew her. Carpooled to 10k and she always seemed ok, but on way back from run she was talking to another girl in truck and said something around the lines of “I can’t believe my husband gets so jealous for no reason” then they go on to bash him for like 5 min right in front of me. Obviously she is doing stuff to make him jealous then tells everyone how much of a jealous sob he is to make her look like a victim. I still am in disbelief and completely disgusted by her actions. What kind of wife does that?

[joetechParticipant]

Laser wrote:

What kind of wife does that?

The kind that likes that kind of attention. I’ll bet she’s all drama and petty bulls~~~ at home.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Laser wrote:

“I can’t believe my husband gets so jealous for no reason” then they go on to bash him for like 5 min right in front of me.

Forget “jealous”. He should forbid her from speaking about him like that when her husband is not present. They always shamelessly talk bout the most intimate details of “the relationship” with EVERYONE ELSE – except the man she’s in a relationship WITH.

It’s a mental sickness, and totally unacceptable.

If a woman speaks about “the relationship” with anyone else , she is OUT. And as the non-husband, you can tell her that’s your personal policy right where they can both hear it.

I would.

… and then you can smile and watch them sweat knowing you will probably mention this to him later. She shouldn’t be talking about this in front of anyone.

Laser wrote:

Obviously she is doing stuff to make him jealous then tells everyone how much of a jealous sob he is to make her look like a victim.

It’s more of a pathetic attempt to heighten her perceived “value”.
“My husband is so jealous! I’m so wanted and awesome!”

My good friend of 25 years was once out of town, and his wife called me to “get out of the house” and go for a bite after work. OK why not?

I’ll tell you why not.
Because the second she set foot in my car, she said “don’t tell Mike”.

I was 100% straight with her and said “Why not? This isn’t a date and I’m not lying to my friend. I went to your wedding and have known him since puberty”. Women are never counting on this kind of directness, and you can OWN it.

They don’t communicate directly. It’s always always about what’s NOT said. Little Dynasty-style dramas and manipulations. Petty jealousies and machinations. They think they are the “queen bee”. But when you know the score, you shoot directly with them and they freak out.

Ever since then, she sweats through her blouse when my name is mentioned. Imagine If I told him what his wife said “don’t tell Mike”… like she believed she was doing something she shouldn’t be doing.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 13]

Laser wrote:

What kind of wife does that?

I’ll tell you what kind of wife is like that.

Every f~~~ing wife is like that.

Mine was, my friends, My colleagues, all of them said their wives bashed them behind their backs.
Seriously ALL OF THEM!

Mine didn’t have anything to bash me about so she actually made up complete lies about me, then told her friends in the most normal convincing way you can imagine.

As KM says it is totally unacceptable and they’re mentally sick! Who the f~~~ does that s~~~? Oh yeah, that’s right, my wife, your wife, his wife, their wives, their girlfriends, all women, it’s what they do.

F~~~ing sick puppies.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Women talk about people behind their backs? You don’t say? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Laser wrote:

What kind of wife does that?

Answer: ALL

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Laser wrote:

What kind of wife does that?

The one about to Monkey branch. Wait for it.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

This is one of the blessings of MGTOW. At some point, the honesty just rolls right off the tongue without you having to think. It’s not even about “calling someone out” any more, you just respond to the world and the naked truth of it is devastating to people.

For example, I spoke to a woman friend yesterday evening about her marriage situation. She’s 53 and has been in a loveless relationship with her husband for the past 15 years. She spoke of how she has guys who want to date her (she looks better than lots of women half her age) but isn’t sure what to do about it.

My response: “When was the last time you got laid? When was the last time your relationship was fun? When was the last time you had someone in your life who you looked forward to seeing when you were stressed out or depressed or unsure of what to do because they listen, care and make things better?

If your relationship isn’t doing that for you, you’re better off alone. Unless you need this guy to pay your bills or you’d get kicked out of your community for dumping him, get the f~~~ out.

I tell you, I’d rather be alone than be dragging around 120 pounds of dead weight. If you choose to stay in this relationship, you have nobody to blame but yourself. Now you’ve got five minutes to knock ideas around with me about it and then we won’t speak of it again until you’re free.”

Now one of two things will happen:

1) She’ll declare her independence, start divorce proceedings and get to the job of making her life fun again.

2) She’ll go back to him and choose to keep suffering… but she’ll be so ashamed of the fact that she’ll never speak to me about it.

I don’t actually give a f~~~ what happens to her… it’s of no consequence to me. Whatever she does, though, I win because I’ve made it clear that her problems are her own creation and I’m not listening to any more self-sabotaging relationship drama crap ever again.

As KM has repeatedly stated, I don’t want a “serious” relationship… I want a FUN one. Bring the fun or stay the f~~~ away.

[AttonParticipant]

Don’t think that marriage will last that’s for sure.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Stargazer wrote:

This is one of the blessings of MGTOW. At some point, the honesty just rolls right off the tongue without you having to think. It’s not even about “calling someone out” any more, you just respond to the world and the naked truth of it is devastating to people.

For example, I spoke to a woman friend yesterday evening about her marriage situation. She’s 53 and has been in a loveless relationship with her husband for the past 15 years. She spoke of how she has guys who want to date her (she looks better than lots of women half her age) but isn’t sure what to do about it.

My response: “When was the last time you got laid? When was the last time your relationship was fun? When was the last time you had someone in your life who you looked forward to seeing when you were stressed out or depressed or unsure of what to do because they listen, care and make things better?

If your relationship isn’t doing that for you, you’re better off alone. Unless you need this guy to pay your bills or you’d get kicked out of your community for dumping him, get the f~~~ out.

I tell you, I’d rather be alone than be dragging around 120 pounds of dead weight. If you choose to stay in this relationship, you have nobody to blame but yourself. Now you’ve got five minutes to knock ideas around with me about it and then we won’t speak of it again until you’re free.”

Now one of two things will happen:

1) She’ll declare her independence, start divorce proceedings and get to the job of making her life fun again.

2) She’ll go back to him and choose to keep suffering… but she’ll be so ashamed of the fact that she’ll never speak to me about it.

I don’t actually give a f~~~ what happens to her… it’s of no consequence to me. Whatever she does, though, I win because I’ve made it clear that her problems are her own creation and I’m not listening to any more self-sabotaging relationship drama crap ever again.

As KM has repeatedly stated, I don’t want a “serious” relationship… I want a FUN one. Bring the fun or stay the f~~~ away.

I’ve always jsut responded calmly with truth my bosses at work never seem to like that 😉

“Well Mr Boss as everyone knows you are an incompetent weak little bitch micro managing bully cnt who acts as captain save a ho for the obnoxious, rude incompetent snowflakes in the hope they will suck your penis.”

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[narwhalParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Forget “jealous”. He should forbid her from speaking about him like that when her husband is not present.

Except he can’t do that BECAUSE they are married. Marriage removed his ability to give repercussions for her s~~~ty behavior. If they were not married, if she didn’t hold his finances hostage, then he could tell her to stop it now or we’re through. He gave up that ability when he got down on one knee.

Stargazer wrote:

This is one of the blessings of MGTOW. At some point, the honesty just rolls right off the tongue without you having to think. It’s not even about “calling someone out” any more, you just respond to the world and the naked truth of it is devastating to people.

Yep, I find myself doing this fairly regularly. Women at work will start bad mouthing their husbands and I can’t help but chime in.

My husbands never appreciates me for all I do around the house!
When’s the last time you thank him for his paycheck?
That’s different!
Why is it different?
Because the money comes with the man!
Ah. But the housework doesn’t come with the woman. Got it.

Keymaster wrote:

It’s more of a pathetic attempt to heighten her perceived “value”.
“My husband is so jealous! I’m so wanted and awesome!”

Agreed. I don’t think jealous is really the game, it’s about getting the attention she craves. It’s keeping her opportunities open for monkey branching. If she wanted him to be jealous, she would tell him about the attention men are giving her, right to her face. She doesn’t though, she hides it from him, and will deny it if he brings it up.

Really, telling her GFs about jealousy isn’t even about attracting more attention, it’s about her social status with her GFs. She wants them to envy her because she’s so wanted. I guarantee you she wasn’t asking her GFs for advice on easing her husband’s sense of jealousy.

Ok. Then do it.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Stargazer wrote:

She’s 53 and has been in a loveless relationship with her husband for the past 15 years.

Regardless of her age or time in a marriage/relationship this is the standard go to statement when SHE is remotely unhappy.

Stargazer wrote:

loveless relationship

How the F~~~ is that simple statement remotely valid when spoken by a portion of our species that claims to “love” cats/dogs/songs/movies/books/paint colours/wallpaper/fabrics/furniture/people they never met/clothing/make up/perfumes/ and anything else the so desire.
They can apparently have some sort of relationship with, and love everything in time and space EXCEPT the man they are with.

F~~~ love, it is just a chemical reaction in the brain.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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