Girl just asked me out…

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

I told her I have a girlfriend (lie) and it felt good !

Girl: Hey, um… I was wondering if you are up to grab something to eat later?
Me: I have a girlfriend…
Girl (in a wtf voice now): Ok….I didnt even ask that
Me: Excuse me, I am a busy guy (smile towards her and walked away)

Her look = priceless

It was a nice change of pace and it was certainly refreshing as well as rewarding to be saying that instead of being on the receiving end.

Gentlemen, time to change the game. – they dont have power over us anymore.

Cheers

LK~

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

LowKey wrote:

Girl (in a wtf voice now): Ok….I didnt even ask that

That remark itself says how predatory they are. Basically what she is saying, and correct me if im wrong but Ive had this happen, is she doesnt care you have a GF and now it’s a shame tactic as she already in her hamster mind thinks you want to f~~~ her. But, if she was your GF she’d be absolutely p~~~ed if you had a “supposed” innocent bite to eat with another girl who “didn’t even ask that.”

Yep, well handled mate, been down that road myself. Oh and I cannot wait to read your future posts here of the backlash and smear campaign coming your way from her. #Winning

P.s.. Personally if it was me when she asked:

“Do you want to grab a bite later?” I would have just looked her squarely in the eye and said calmly “NO” and walked away.

[OldBillParticipant]

Nice riposte. Succinct, terse, and left her looking like the bad guy.

Here’s hoping she doesn’t find out you aren’t dating.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

OldBill wrote:

Here’s hoping she doesn’t find out you aren’t dating.

Actually, that would be the perfect outcome if she is snooping around. You could then label her a creepy stalker and she cannot accept “no” as an answer. Do it around a group of people and flip the script! But, do it calmly!

[OldBillParticipant]

I like the way you think, Deep!

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

OldBill wrote:

I like the way you think, Deep!

I have my moments @oldbill, not often, but I have them!

[NioZenParticipant 856]

edit: on second thoughts…

Squint your eyes, rub your chin, look at the walls and ceiling and appear to contemplate this question from every possible angle for a few minutes, allowing for a nice awkward silence to build. Look her square in the eye and say ‘NO’. Leave very quickly. You will never have to talk to her again.

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I find that flipping the tables and using their scripts back on them is not always the best or smartest thing to say, but it’s a good failsafe choice when you at a loss for words. Afterall, we’re not trying to impress anyone here…
Such simple strategies are battle-tested and proven to work.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

i find that saying, “i’m busy” followed by “i’m always busy” always works for me.

maybe once in a while they will continue with, “busy with what?”

and i just list off some of my hobbies… of which they can never relate to and often cant even understand anyways.

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

нσтησσв wrote:

maybe once in a while they will continue with, “busy with what?”
and i just list off some of my hobbies… of which they can never relate to and often cant even understand anyways.

True. And the good strategy for avoiding chameleon-like behavior in women – is to like things she can never relate to. Nothing shuts them down faster, than some of your interests that she could never pretend to have any knowledge of.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 18]

Hamster, “He is not even that *blank*, what was I thinking”. Yay happy entitled mode restored.

[DethklokParticipant 153]

She was really that ugly/crazy huh?

I was in one of those before. I ended up getting a free meal on her, although it ended pretty awkward. I should have at least taken the BJ. Putting the free meal on the woman, then letting her not get her way just felt so right. Maybe this “equality” thing isn’t so bad after all.

[Anonymous 5]

Dude that was empowering. It’s amazing what’s waiting around the corner for you.

God should have clicked this song in right at this part:

Me: Excuse me, I am a busy guy (smile towards her and walked away)

Thennnnn:

😉

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

Awesome! Way to turn the tables.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Congratulations! Keep up the good work.

There was a time when I envied other men who were pestered for dates — I still feel twinges once in a while. I knew one guy who would lock himself in his apartment and pretend he wasn’t home; he was that attractive to women. He ended up married, but happily so as far as I can tell.

Whatever men like that have going for them, I don’t have it. It may have a lot to do with I made it this far and stayed single and disease free.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You misheard I’m afraid.

She actually said”

‘Can your wallet and I go grab a bite’

It’s a simple misunderstanding on your part ?

I hope I get the change to turn a woman down …. but mostly I avoid them.

Keep up the good work.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

ILiveAgain wrote:

You misheard I’m afraid.
She actually said”
‘Can your wallet and I go grab a bite’
It’s a simple misunderstanding on your part
I hope I get the change to turn a woman down …. but mostly I avoid them.
Keep up the good work.

So saying ‘I’m broke’ is a win either way as you either get a free lunch or your personal space back.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

“Do you want to grab a bite later?”

I’d say; “Don’t have time, I’m busy”, and trying to disengage as soon as possible.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Her- Hey, um… I was wondering if you are up to grab something to eat later?

You- I’ll have my people draw up the contract. I already know you want anal and daily BJs in there. What are your feelings on BDSM? … you know so my lawyers can have everything in writing.

Perhaps your way was better. Well played sir.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

You should have ripped out your video phone and filmed the whole thing then post it on reddit as an example of female “privilege”, especially the part where she throws your girlfriend under the bus.

Make it a teachable moment for skads of guys.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

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