Get in touch with your feminine side.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

More psychobabble. What the hell does “feminine side” specifically mean or refer to with regard to men? How many of you men have ever told a woman she needed to get in touch with her “masculine side?”

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

EVERYONE has a feminine side. The problem is, guys lose that as they grow up because life beats it out of them. But little girls and women are protected from the realities of life so they can continue to have a “feminine” side. Then they bitch about us not having a feminine side like it’s our f~~~ing fault. NO, we made it so you COULD have a feminine side you ungrateful bitch!

[Anonymous 5]

Let me try that for one secound.. “getting in touch with c~~~ery” . Wait for some reason gods voice came out of nowhere and said “no duke, man dose not need to affirm himself he needs to follow his heart and his brothers”. Haha! I remeber hearing that s~~~ when it was drowned into my ears. Than I thought : f~~~ that. I was 7 years old. That was the frist thing that came to mind.

[StentorianParticipant 1690]

I don’t believe that men have a feminine side.

We may have a nurturing side. Compassionate. Caring. But that is very far from what I would call feminine.

Women are cold blooded reptiles.

If I was to get in touch with my feminine side, it is as the OP listed. It would be the most ruthless, self-absorbed, narcissistic, and selfish aspects within my personality spectrum.

That is what I see women really in touch with. In this modern age, especially here in the West.

Being kind, being compassionate, caring. Giving a s~~~ about having integrity. These are male traits. And men who have these traits, are exhibiting the polar opposite of what is feminine.

Too weak or soft. Too kind, can leave a person open to being used or trampled over. But that is more to do with keeping things in balance.

“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

DarkRyu wrote:

EVERYONE has a feminine side.

I feel my warm, nurturing and compassionate side is not feminine but human and very masculine. My idea of nurturing is not like a womens. I won’t coddle. I have kicked butt, I attended every wresting match and violin recital my kids had. Supported them through good and bad times. I did this like a man not a woman. I have held crying children when they had the right to cry (like when their mother left them) and made them stand up and stop crying because they didn’t get what they wanted and need to learn toaccept loss or defeat. We are men, we have all the emotions a woman has, we just use them wisely and with purpose, not for personal gain. We don’t let them rule us (if we do we need to grow more).

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 2]

When people talk around me about ” men should get in touch with their feminine side ” , I always said I don’t have a feminine side. I am a man with a gentle and caring side if it need it, but no feminine side. And if somebody start to arguing about it I just said take it or leave it, full stop.

[Anonymous 3]

Compassion, love, nurture, mercy, these are all classical masculine traits.

In East Asian philosophy, this is represented in Yin Yang.

Yang is the masculine force, and means openness, positiveness, goodness, righteousness, etc.

Yin is the feminine force, means darkness, evilness, shadiness, treachery, passiveness, etc.

I think some of you have a warped view of what masculinity and femininity are.

So looking at the above, no you don’t want to get in touch with your feminine side. As a matter of fact, if anything, strive to be as masculine as possible. Don’t believe in the modern, twisted narrative of what masculinity and femininity are. To be the masculine force essentially is to be good.

The new age thought is just hijacking classical masculine traits and assigning them to femininity to make women look better. Look into historical and philosophical texts instead.

[StentorianParticipant 1690]

FrostByte wrote:

I feel my warm, nurturing and compassionate side is not feminine but human and very masculine

I hear you Forstbyte. A man’s capacity to care for and support. To be loyal. This is in very stark contrast to what it means to be feminine.

FrostByte wrote:

(like when their mother left them)

My point exactly. This is what women do best. Serving themselves. And when all that can be taken is taken. Then they exit, without a 2nd thought. Have had this happen to me, countless times.

F~~~ing women.

Convenient, in many ways. But ultimately self-destructive and poisonous.

Anonymous wrote:

And if somebody start to arguing about it I just said take it or leave it, full stop.

Best way to live.

“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Guys, you are given great advice. You should get in touch with your feminine side.

= Get in touch with your feminine side.

= Thanks for your great advice, I am learning how to cook and do housekeeping, so I don’t need a woman.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

I see it as another female shaming tactic. Why aren’t women likewise advised “to get in touch with their masculine side?”

[HitmanParticipant]

i’m with Old Sage ,
women should get in touch with their feminine side.
wish i could plus you 1000 Old Sage.
spot f~~~ing on !!!!!

[Darth SinParticipant 576]

Get in touch with one’s feminine side = Be a hypergamous person who manipulates the opposite sex to get what they want.

I’ve got news for you cupcakes – I am already doing that and believe me, it is genuinely fun being a working man with a good salary rejecting women left,right and center while fooling around with them and going my own way.

[Anonymous 24]

I get in touch now and then with my feminine side, it’s called my right hand.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

^LOL….same here, when I shave & go for that smooth feel on my face.

[AttonParticipant]

If I did I would be in jail for hate speech.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

“Get in touch with your feminine side” has always been funny to me. Women think they have a monopoly on emotions. Women think they are the only ones that can have feelings. Truth be told, I’ve experienced more kindness and compassion from men than I have women. Men know how it is, they know s~~~ sucks and so you get more kindness.

So far as women? They think being some loud ass domineering c~~~ is a masculine trait but I see more landwhales acting this way than I do men. It’s all part of the same narrative where feminine qualities are good and masculine are bad. The same bulls~~~. Sounds like women need to get in touch with their masculine side, where they use logic and reason which is a masculine trait because I have yet to see a woman who wasn’t ruled by her emotions over all else.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[President CamachoParticipant 941]

Men are better at being feminine than women are, this has been proven many times throughout history. Feminism as an idea also originated with men (just like almost all ideas).

A Western marriage that survives in the current year is an act of mercy and compassion by the woman.

[Shadow1275Participant 1178]

DarkRyu wrote:

EVERYONE has a feminine side. The problem is, guys lose that as they grow up because life beats it out of them. But little girls and women are protected from the realities of life so they can continue to have a “feminine” side. Then they bitch about us not having a feminine side like it’s our f~~~ing fault. NO, we made it so you COULD have a feminine side you ungrateful bitch!

I always hate when ppl make the argument that “love and affection” is a strictly feminine thing.

What made men seek out families instead of simply praying and spraying if lust is exclusive to masculinity?

What made men die for their countries and families?

What made men go out into the disease infested outdoors and hunt dangerous killer animals well the women stayed at home?

How is it in every patriarchal society it is always one man and one woman instead of 4 women to one man like in every feminized society?

I really despise this feminist bull. The truth is that men understand love instinctually women do not. Men were expected to make the ultimate sacrifice for their families but also for complete strangers. That is why only men understand unconditional love. Women were expected to simply survive and mate. It’s no wonder that in feminized society marriage is in shambles. Find a strong guy and mate with him, then find the next strong guy.

So tell me again is love exclusively feminine or is it really exclusively male?

He who is Brave is Free - Seneca

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Translation: Ignore her flaws.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Since women are seldom chastised “to get in touch with their masculine side,” I see this as more of the coded language pointed out by Esther Vilar in The Manipulated Man. This might not be exact, but here is an attempt to decode it. Keymaster might be better at the exact decoding.

CODE:
You (man) need to get in touch with your feminine side.
DECODED:
He is not doing what I want so I need to try to change his behavior to suit me.

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