Gentlemen's Vacation

[Napolean-ComplexParticipant 24]

Hello MGTOW Brothers,

Over the years more and more my friends have gotten married and had children. So as that’s happened I’ve had to find new friends that are able to continue to enjoy all the things that I enjoy.

I’m pleased to say that I have managed to find 4 other men that will be joining me on holidays. This is difficult being 36 years old to find 4 other guys around my age group that can take the time off and join me in Cuba.

Of the 4 other people, 3 of them are divorced and only 1 has never been married. I go to great lengths to try and meet other men that need to see the light at the end of the tunnel. The alimony and child support payments that these gentlemen are responsible for is astounding. They need to see that their life is not over, it’s just beginning. You don’t need as much as you think you need, providing your in a different country, to have a good time.

I find most guys have difficulty making new friends. My goal with these gentlemen is to try and create a lifelong bond with people that have similar interests to me. These are people that will never get married again and will never have a long-term relationship with any woman, ever.

November can’t come fast enough!

[Anonymous 25]

Glad you managed to find some guys to vacation with.

I agree, it is hard to find guys to go on vacation with as you get older.

I managed to find a resort where I got friendly with a few of the local guys. Really nice place, really nice people. I will make that my permanent holiday location every year now. I don’t have to put up with annoying women that you usually get with package holidays.

I’m heading there again in a few weeks, can’t wait.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Cuba sounds awesome! Are you familiar with the movies Godfather II, Guys And Dolls, or the somewhat downbeat The Lost City? I doubt if it’s like that anymore, but it could be again.

Honestly, I always thought that embargo on Cuba was a bad idea. Imagine a communist regime having to deal with a million American teenagers with their blue jeans and rock albums!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

i like vacationing alone. i usually rent company wherever I go.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I have the same dilemma. I vacation alone most of the time unless I can get an old friend to join me. I got invited to singles cruise for January with some guys who are still blue pills and it sounds fun but I am already making excuses in my head to avoiding women. So I don’t think it’s gonna happen where I can enjoy the cruise and avoid the pussy.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

My idea of a PERFECT vacation is getting in my car with the clothes on my back, packing nothing but socks, extra jeans, a sweater / jacket, one credit card, phone off in the trunk, no razor, no map, no plan, with nothing but an open road ahead, blasting journey and foreigner.

I haven’t been able to top that yet.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[JuehueParticipant 1316]

My ideal vacation is watching others leave for vacation

[Anonymous 18]

I second KM’s idea of vacation.

I consider my car to be a second home.

There is something very special and invigorating getting in car and just heading out.

More so if the car has a personality of her own. A perfect date.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

More so if the car has a personality of her own. A perfect date.

I consider driving / unplanned road trips one of the great joys of life.

Just “go for a drive”.

My Dad used to do that. We used to just “go for a drive”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Napolean-ComplexParticipant 24]

I love going to different places and learning new languages. Mostly though, Cuba has some awesome looking women. They dress sexy, every where they go.

Not like women in Canada who, it seems, are dressed for a camping emergency.

I suggest any Canadian looking for a safe and easy vacation to try Cuba out. Especially if you have never travelled before. Although the food is s~~~.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Cuba is great, not the most MGTOW destination though. Things might have changed but when i was there some 10 years ago single tourist man was a target for a platoon of desperate woman trying to either get access to hard currency through sex or to sell blue pill dreams with you taking her home in the end game.

And by target i mean aggressive street type of approaches. Women there are PUA and man is one approached on the streets, parks, etc. The game is reversed there if you are tourist. If you are local though it is just a steady doze of red pills down your throat.

So yeah, 3 divorced, 1 never married and 1 MGTOW in Cuba. From what i saw, this looks like a recipe for either a best 2 weeks in life or for disaster, depends on perspective.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[Napolean-ComplexParticipant 24]

Freeman_K wrote:

Cuba is great, not the most MGTOW destination though. Things might have changed but when i was there some 10 years ago single tourist man was a target for a platoon of desperate woman trying to either get access to hard currency through sex or to sell blue pill dreams with you taking her home in the end game.

And by target i mean aggressive street type of approaches. Women there are PUA and man is one approached on the streets, parks, etc. The game is reversed there if you are tourist. If you are local though it is just a steady doze of red pills down your throat.

So yeah, 3 divorced, 1 never married and 1 MGTOW in Cuba. From what i saw, this looks like a recipe for either a best 2 weeks in life or for disaster, depends on perspective.

I have been to Cuba at least 20 times before and have made friends with a family down there. All the bars we go to in Havana I know most of the staff as we tip well and frequent often. Im not going on holidays so much as going home.

The trip might not work out well for the new guys, but for me it will be awesome. I get my Cuban friends to do the baby sitting if its required. Im just there to enjoy myself. Its a pretty good set up.

I like what you said though, hard currency through sex, but they also go for promises. It seems selling someone dreams of a better life is preferable over hard currency in some cases.

[Anonymous 16]

Carefull with your friends.
Women are a bad deal, but dont think our kind is better.
Carefull with bonds.

[Napolean-ComplexParticipant 24]

Anonymous wrote:

Carefull with your friends.
Women are a bad deal, but dont think our kind is better.
Carefull with bonds.

I know what your saying Heguen, I’m careful with everyone these days. 2 of them are new friends, the other 2 are not. But I have to try don’t I? I have to try and get others into the fold. Im trying to make long lasting friend ships in life. I can go solo, I’m an introvert at heart, but is that really the way to continue on with life?

I don’t think so…I have to try. If it doesn’t work so be it. I still have 2. Its hard to find like minded people.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Road trips. F~~~ing love them. Last weekend I jumped in my car and headed north with the intention of backpacking into a coastal Wilderness Area. Seven hours later, when I entered the town nearest the wilderness, just over the Mackinac Bridge, I stopped in at a small town tavern for food, beer and to find info on accessing the wilderness. A few local guys at the bar were eager to help, and so I set off to park in the area they suggested.

As these things usually turn out, the guys at the pub didn’t know jack about the Wilderness Area, but they got me close. And so, by midnight, I’m bushwhacking through boreal cedar swamp, lit only by my headlight and the Milky Way Galaxy overhead. By two AM I realize there was no way in hell I could make it through that wet, trackless forest and to the shore of Lake Huron before daylight. Since I had to be back at work the following day, I decided to abort and head back to my car. On the drive back home, in the wee hours of the morning, there, on the side of the freeway, I saw my first ever wild mountain lion!

Not far after the lion, I found a Rest Area that was somewhat dark and quiet. I spread out my sleeping bag and slept like a rock in the back of my little SUV for eight hours, and then I drove home.

F~~~ yeah, I love road trips!

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Keymaster wrote:

blasting journey

Doooonnn’t stop, be-leeeeeeeeeevin!

I can’t wait to see KeyMaster rocking out with his air guitar to some old school Journey.

[Anonymous 3]

Freeman_K wrote:

Cuba is great, not the most MGTOW destination though. Things might have changed but when i was there some 10 years ago single tourist man was a target for a platoon of desperate woman trying to either get access to hard currency through sex or to sell blue pill dreams with you taking her home in the end game.

And by target i mean aggressive street type of approaches. Women there are PUA and man is one approached on the streets, parks, etc. The game is reversed there if you are tourist. If you are local though it is just a steady doze of red pills down your throat.

So yeah, 3 divorced, 1 never married and 1 MGTOW in Cuba. From what i saw, this looks like a recipe for either a best 2 weeks in life or for disaster, depends on perspective.

I have to ask: why go to Cuba and feed the Castro’s pockets? I realize it’s cheap and can be great (been three times) but every time I’ve gone, I feel dirty for putting money into Fidel and Raul’s pockets through currency exchange, etc.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Anonymous wrote:

I have to ask: why go to Cuba and feed the Castro’s pockets? I realize it’s cheap and can be great (been three times) but every time I’ve gone, I feel dirty for putting money into Fidel and Raul’s pockets through currency exchange, etc.

Where i live (Europe) we had no travel restrictions and general society sentiment was not so negative towards Cuba. What i saw made me dislike the place as level of individual freedom is non existent there and this is all i need to know.

But i wouldnt feel dirty for putting money into regime pockets, you are really helping locals have a break.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[OldBillParticipant]

“Blue highways”. That’s what they used to be called back when cells and GPS app didn’t exist. Instead you had a big damn Rand McNally atlas with all the back roads marked in blue.

No interstates, no turnpikes, no tollways. Blue highways. Just a two lane blacktop snaking it’s way between towns bypassed by the modern road system.

There was a man who wrote a book about them back in the 80s. He’d lost his job and been divorced by his wife, so he put a camper in the bed of a pickup truck and started driving. He got a bestseller out of that trip, plus a better career and a better wife.

A couple of decades before that near the end of his life, Steinbeck took such a trip. He wrote “Travels with Charley” about it. Charley was a standard poodle and a perfect companion until at Yellowstone he began barking at bears from inside the truck. Steinbeck was dying and didn’t much like the changes he was seeing in America, so the book is melancholy.

I occasionally take the type of trips Key wrote about. Pack a razor, toothbrush, skivvies, change of socks, and just go. I started in New Hampshire’s tiny seacoast once and found myself in Kentucky a couple days later. Another time it was Newfoundland.

On trips like that I usually find myself standing on the side of the road someplace seriously considering whether I should turn around and go back or whether I should just go on and leave my old life behind. Duty and responsibility have always won out. I’m like an old fire horse put out to pasture; ring the bell and I’ll still run.

One of these days, though, I won’t go back.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Napolean-Complex wrote:

I’m pleased to say that I have managed to find 4 other men that will be joining me on holidays. This is difficult being 36 years old to find 4 other guys around my age group that can take the time off and join me in Cuba.

Heading to Hawaii in 7 days with a old friend 30+yrs. This my first no kunts allowed trip. I won’t do road trips I like getting there quick.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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