General chat – off topic area

[Max_TroyParticipant 56]

Hi all me again is there a general off topic are where we can just chat about anything? Im looking for some advice on a few life things…

cheers

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Go ahead and post them.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[bladeParticipant]

I just get a funny fealing every time . Sus

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Max_TroyParticipant 56]

Paranoid forum. Drop it already.

[Max_TroyParticipant 56]

Have you struggled with substance abuse (use)? If so maybe you can offer some useful insight here.

Im having a bit of a hard time with it at the moment. Started again around Christmas and now can’t stop. Hard stuff.

I had to move far away from home to sort it out about a year ago. That was fine. Got really fit and even went back to boxing and did a fight – won. The rental contract expired recently and I bought a property closer to home. Had to stay with family for 6 weeks while the purchase completed.

The problem is that its family thats tempting me back onto the dark path. Bad influence friends you can stay away from and cut loose but when its family thats tempting you… ahh sigh. Im gonna have to move away again.

[Max_TroyParticipant 56]

Its not like its having a negative impact on my life. I am functional. Not having time off work at all. But not sleeping really and spending a lot of $$$’s on it.

[Max_TroyParticipant 56]

This is a genuine problem please don’t slate me for this post.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Duuuuuuuuuuuuude,

I got a buzz on right now. So, it would be hypocritical to tell you to not. But, I too am trying. Or, rather, thinking about trying. I was sober for over a year. I joined MGTOW.com during my sobriety. It truly helped more than the program I was in. Red pilling is a high on it’s own.

All I can suggest is moderation. If you can’t moderate, welcome to the club. Maybe I’ll try harder tomorrow.

Best to you.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

what substance(s)?

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Max_Troy wrote:

This is a genuine problem please don’t slate me for this post.

We won’t. Promise.

If someone can offer help, we will try if we can.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Keymaster wrote:

If someone can offer help, we will try if we can.

Meme: If you see something, say something. “Did”

[Anonymous 42]

You know what you have to do, just do it! Walk away from every addiction and do not return even for just a little.

Abstinence has it’s reward and it’s better than any euphoria or high has to offer. MGTOW the bitch and walk away for good!

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Anonymous wrote:

You know what you have to do, just do it! Walk away from every addiction and do not return even for just a little.

Thanks Tower.

[Anonymous 11]

Max_Troy wrote:

Im gonna have to move away again.

I’ve seen more than one man I know move away and get clean only to move back and start back again. You have to leave them behind forever.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I’ve been drinking steady lately. Nothing bad, also functional. I want to get some ibogaine and try to treat the cravings. This ibogaine stuff really works. It supposedly eliminates seeking behaviors for good 3 month. I really want to try it – kick alcohol and tobacco too.

I’ve used most hard drugs back in the day, but never on the daily, so I never developed real addictions. Sure I would have dreams about scoring drugs years later, and sweaty palms every time I’d remember them, but nothing too serious.
Ibogaine is is way to go for anyone having problems to keep their minds away from addictions

It might even work on pussy addicts!!! ) If that’s so – I should get a supply of it, press real red pills out of it and sell it via mail through the dark web ))))

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[KeymasterKeymaster]

BlacqueJacqueShellacque wrote:

Meme: If you see something, say something. “Did”

lol

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[HitmanParticipant]

addiction is a very good topic.
thumbs up for the op.
back in the day,
i had some bad-ass friends.
drugs,crime,violence..
New York City standards of behavior.
meaning every man for himself,
kill or be killed.
..
found out I was my worst enemy.
had to leave those so called “friends” behind..
i split and moved around the country,
cooking skills ..i got hired easily.
the drugs and stupidity were still all around,
just i was not participating.
i was busy making a living.
paying rent and saving a little here and there..
.
adventure is addictive!
see the world, or as much as you can.
say good-bye to that family bro,
if they make you want to use,
you are in the wrong place.

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

I think drugs are used to Stimulate or dumbdown a feeling.

Its possible you want to feel a certain way or dont and self-medicate.

I think in this instance theres a simple or bigger issue that causes the desire to use drugs.

Identify if its your old crew and peer pressure. You may feel a sense of wellbeing in their company or familiarity.

I’m not sure. Be patient with yourself and consider your wellbeing.

I’m not licensed in any medical practices .Professional help might be an option if its something you cant handle on your own.

At this point you must be comfortable with any consequences in a choice you make. Dont get down on yourself. No bodys perfect.

[Max_TroyParticipant 56]

thanks for the support. appreciate that. its moving back to the old hometown area thats done it. i’ll have to move away i reckon.

[BrujahParticipant 579]

Crabs in a bucket mentality. The people around you can be the most dangerous.

2 years post recovery from an eating disorder, the one thing I’ve learnt about gutting addiction is to change your lifestyle. What lead me down to binge eating was due to my lack of physical activity so I made an effort to be more active. Even a slight change to your everyday life goes far. If it’s people, you got to start being less reliant on their company. If it’s because it’s easy to slip back because you enjoy binge watching tv shows, time to cut back on that too and fill it with something else.

Be wary of old habits. It’s likely what started you off in the first place.

The other is to cut the reliance “reward” mentality. The whole “I’ve been good so I deserve a little”.

At the same time, dropping something completely when you’ve already been so reliant runs the risk of yo-yo’ing back which will strike back twice as hard. Start with gradual cut backs. Took you this long to be abuser of whatever substance you’re abusing. It will take you down a long road to reverse it too.

Just remember it gets easier everyday but you gotta’ start today.

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