Gearing Up for Court…I Could Use Some Luck

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

not married, children with two different women. although #1 severely f~~~ed me over, we now have an amicable relationship and i have my son about half the time. c~~~ #2 absconded away out of the county with my daughter, knowing that i was committed to being in this area because of the other child. it was a full on campaign of isolation and parental alienation on her part. i don’t need to win in the sense that i am more than will to share. and i would like to have both children accessible enough that i can be able to participate in their lives as much as possible without it being some undue burden.

consulted with a lawyer several months ago who says i’m almost guaranteed custody and the real fight will be over the distribution of time. now i’ve got my money together, it’s the right time and i’ve basically had enough of this child c~~~’s behavior. not sure how i’ll come out on the other end but this is my last option of recourse unfortunately. hopefully some of you can send some good thoughts and prayers lol? it might help.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

I can offer you nothing but luck, so good luck!

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Good luck bro! Hope it works out for you and your daughter. As long as she know you love her and are doing everything possible to spend time with her, she’ll grow up right.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

I wish I could offer you more than just luck sir. Nevertheless, Good Luck Balthazar!

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Anonymous 6]

Hope you get the best result as possible, good luck Balthazar.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

Hope you can stay strong through your divorce-rape brother and that you have have good friends to support you. You have many comrades here fighting similar battles in the relations~~~ trenches.
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#ManOut

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

hey thanks everyone so far, i really appreciate it. as long as i can get more time than i have now and am not crippled by the ensuing financial orders that’s something to strive for. i’m definitely worried knowing that i’m throwing myself into the meat grinder but this c~~~ is trying to steal my right to a family life that i deserve.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

[JVBParticipant]

Much luck to you bro. May you see your daughter soon and have them both by your side always.

Peace is > piece.

[dwh35Participant 54]

Hang in there mate.

Things look good for you. If things go not quitre as expected..Remember you have thie great men on this site.

I have three kids to two exes. I have spent thousands and thousands but now have my 11 and 9 yr old full time (mum gets them every second weekend). Her weakness for criminal bikies and meth got the better of her lol!

And the other ex tries to hand my 5 yr old off at every available convenience despite me working full time as a teacher and her not working awhile living off her new man’s money. T

Every situation is different but women are creatures of habit. They want their free time to shop, hunt for Chad’s, spend their mangina’s $$ etc. Having kids hanging on to them whilst they go on these selfish trists are not conducive to their selfish, narcissistic needs.

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

thank you to everyone that has responded and thank you to everyone who participates in both sustaining and creating this amazing resource for men everywhere. i figured i would give an update.

consulted with and retained lawyer today that i had originally consulted with about 3 months ago. in their opinion, custody is guaranteed, 50/50 possible. i might still get tagged with child support even at half time here in good old NY state. i’m petitioning for joint custody as the primary custodian. It’s not likely to work but aiming high and going after this c~~~ aggressively might be the edge i need to actually get shared time. we’re going to make the case that she’s shown a consistent pattern of behavior in trying to alienate the baby from me. i’m looking at the first appearance in about a month.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

update for you bros.

unfortunately a couple different circumstances have occurred that have left me waiting that much longer. the recent election saw so many new judges being instated in the court that it has backed everything up. my lawyer also told me that 3/4 of the court clerks have been out of work for the last couple of weeks which has back logged everything.

i signed my petition which was received by the court almost a month ago and it wasn’t until just yesterday that c~~~ received her summons. c~~~ threatened to not let me see the kid until our court date, which unfortunately is more than a month away. but i managed to talk dumb c~~~ out of it citing that she would only be playing into the exact manner in which i’m trying to portray her by doing so. a minor victory.

i have made every offer and concession up to this point and continue to do so, telling dumb c~~~ that i just want to work together and that she will make everyone’s life easier if she just goes along and settles before trial.

but dumb c~~~ claims that she’s willing to fight through to the end. but all she can ever see or plan for is the short term because she’s a dumb c~~~. my will is by far more powerful and my resolve is hardened to diamond density. i’m digging in for the long game, figuring out how to tighten my belt and getting prepared for a short term f~~~ing for the ultimate long term gain.

my child will have the guiding hand of the man who actively chose to bring her into this world, there is no other way than this.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

[AttonParticipant]

Don’t ever stop fighting.

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