G’day lads

[SoulArbiterParticipant 8]

Just dropping in to give the respectful greetings.

Apologies if this ends up a bit long winded.

Stumbled upon this site while doing a bit of soul searching over the last few months. Coming up to my 30’s and I’ve always had the family and friends always ask me, “When are you going to find yourself a woman and settle down?” It’s gotten to the point where I like to observe each of their reactions when I reply, “Never. The prospect of having kids and a wife has never been appealing to me. I prefer not to have a ball and chain.” They always give the same sort of expression of, ‘Poor bloke. Something must be wrong with him’. It’s funny all the same though.

I’m not sure when who I am today directly correlates with what it means to be MGTOW. I wouldn’t say there is definitive, epiphany moment when it happened, but rather a processional thing – developed organically – so to speak. At this point in my life, I am completely content with who I am. Meeting different kinds of people, experiencing different things, living in a lot of different places throughout my short-lived life has allowed me to develop an outlook that I don’t think many people get a chance to. I would call this a truly introspective outlook (oxymoron?) of one’s self with the ability to honestly reflect on who you are to arrive a process internally to confront your own insecurities. By achieving this, I found I was able to reconcile my insecurities, focus on myself, to grow as an individual, to embrace a freedom of self-cultivation above all other things that might distract and detract from allowing a man to do so.

I could go on further about all that jazz, but I think I’ll leave it at that. The philosophy I adopted allowed me to fully create a true code of honour and a set of principles that I adhere and strongly hold myself to. I believe it’s quintessential for any man to have; a code of honour and principles. Having a code and principles is what MGTOW strives to achieve. This place and its community gives me a much needed beacon of hope amongst the myriad of manginas and dubious women who would otherwise make you question your code, principles and place in the world by trying to shame you out of your existence.

Cheers lads. Hope you’re all enjoying freedom as much as I am.

"Unus quisque magnas virtutes quae ad tentationem ei non extrahunt, quae habeat negligentes cultum" - One great mistake is to try to extract from each person virtues which he does not possess, neglecting the cultivation of those which he does have. - Hadrian

[Sagaciously SingleParticipant 214]

Welcome Soul and thank you for your introduction narrative.

Enjoy the MGTOW refuge and spread the good word!

SS 🙂

"And this you can know - fear the time when Manself will not suffer and die for a concept, for this one quality is the foundation of Manself, and this one quality is man, distinctive in the universe". - John Steinbeck.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome Brother
You are right, some of us have an epiphany moment usually after being divorce raped, experiencing female hypergamous at work or are just tired of being a second class citizen. I envy you in that you have come to this philosophy by reasonable deduction and before thirty. Jump in. Sounds like you have some valuable insights.

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

Welcome!

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome aboard and glad you have found refuge and so early in life.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Welcome SoulArbiter,

Thanks for the introduction.

A natural code for me and other men I know has always been: “A man is only as good as his word.”

Since our enemy’s don’t follow this code, I have been wondering if it has been used against men by the “Slavers” and other crooks.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

SoulArbiter wrote:

Cheers lads. Hope you’re all enjoying freedom as much as I am.

You bet the vast majority of us are doing just that. I’d wager 99.9 % if not all of us. Anyway welcome, SoulArbiter.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

welcome pal
thanks for sharing your story.
enjoy the forums and the website.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! Congratulations on avoiding the marriage trap.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

Welcome!

[SoulArbiterParticipant 8]

Thanks for the welcome, lads. Look forward to chilling out with the rest of you in the best Gentlemen’s Club that women can’t close down.

Theronius wrote:

Welcome!

Cheers mate. It’s a bit at work, but mainly through meeting different kinds of women led me to the point I’m at now. I don’t hate them, I pity them really.

Ned Trent wrote:

SoulArbiter wrote:

Cheers lads. Hope you’re all enjoying freedom as much as I am.

You bet the vast majority of us are doing just that. I’d wager 99.9 % if not all of us. Anyway welcome, SoulArbiter.

Always good to hear mate!

The Moth Attracted to the Flame wrote:

Welcome!

Too right buddy! Dodged a bloody good bullet there!

"Unus quisque magnas virtutes quae ad tentationem ei non extrahunt, quae habeat negligentes cultum" - One great mistake is to try to extract from each person virtues which he does not possess, neglecting the cultivation of those which he does have. - Hadrian

[mp357Participant 531]

awesome intro! thx for posting, aint this site awesome

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