F~~~ing S~~~…I Can't Even Come up With a Title For This One…

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

So we had a long talk today about it. She has never been in a relationship (just like me). I thought it was because she was just shy, but according to her she’s been waiting to tell me this for the last 10 years. I truly believe that she has feelings for me. I’ve known my sister for 25 years and she’s a terrible liar.

After much talk, I’ve convinced her that it’s never going to happen and that we shouldn’t see each other anymore for a while. We used to hang out at least once or twice a week. She’s a really cool sister.

She apologized for her behavior, but says that her feelings remain. She will just suppress them like she’s been doing for the last decade. However, she refuses to move on and get a boyfriend just in case I “change my mind.” She will wait for me “forever” if necessary.

It’s disturbing to think that she’s been attracted to me for a decade and successfully hidden that fact from me. On one hand I’m glad I know the truth, but on the other I just wish things could go back to the way they were. I don’t want to deal with this. I love my sister deeply, but it’s totally different than love for a woman. It’s stronger than that, better than that.

It’s made me think about what the difference is between familial love and loving a woman (which I’ve never done before). Is the only difference the fact that you’re having sex with that person?

If she wasn’t my sister, I’d probably be attracted to her. But I’ve spent my whole life trying to AVOID women, sex, and relationships. I wouldn’t even want to go out with a supermodel.

I try to live as simple a life as possible. I don’t need to complicate it with a bunch of s~~~.

When you think about it, when you ask someone out and they reject you, no big deal right? Life goes on. Maybe the same thing will happen with my sister and I. Maybe we’ll be able to put this behind us. Sure, it’ll be awkward at first, but maybe with time we won’t even think about it anymore. In fact, I can imagine us laughing about this when we’re in our 50’s.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Sorry m8, still not buying it. I mean, if you lived in the Ozarks or the Kentucky hills and grew up together in a little shack without neighbors or Internet I could see a decade long incestuous infatuation developing.

Maybe she fell down a well and you saved her or she was nearly kicked by a mule and you calmed it and she developed an early crush on you that bloomed into secret forbidden love… but as someone who knows a little bit about incest, that’s just not the way it usually happens.

Incestuous relationships between cohabitating siblings typically begin as innocent play that turns sexual (e.g. playing House or Doctor) and which goes too far before one or both realize what it is.

Your story sounds like the plot of a sketchy Harlequin novel… way too clearly thought out and articulated but exceptionally unlikely. I stated it earlier and I’ll say it again, I’m calling BS.

But for anyone who finds themselves in a potentially incestuous relationship as an adult, remove yourself from the situation and seek professional guidance immediately. This is one case where you not want to ask the chimpanzees how to handle the gorilla.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

Stargazer wrote:

Sorry m8, still not buying it. I mean, if you lived in the Ozarks or the Kentucky hills and grew up together in a little shack without neighbors or Internet I could see a decade long incestuous infatuation developing.

Maybe she fell down a well and you saved her or she was nearly kicked by a mule and you calmed it and she developed an early crush on you that bloomed into secret forbidden love… but as someone who knows a little bit about incest, that’s just not the way it usually happens.

Incestuous relationships between cohabitating siblings typically begin as innocent play that turns sexual (e.g. playing House or Doctor) and which goes too far before one or both realize what it is.

Your story sounds like the plot of a sketchy Harlequin novel… way too clearly thought out and articulated but exceptionally unlikely. I stated it earlier and I’ll say it again, I’m calling BS.

But for anyone who finds themselves in a potentially incestuous relationship as an adult, remove yourself from the situation and seek professional guidance immediately. This is one case where you not want to ask the chimpanzees how to handle the gorilla.

Frankly I know nothing about relationships and even less about incest. All I can do is relay the facts and what’s happening as it happens. We don’t live in the sticks or anything. We live in one of the biggest cities in the US. However we grew up together in the middle of nowhere on an island with less than 10,000 people. The island consisted of nothing but a grocery store and about 20 different banks.

I moved to another state to the big city in order to find work and I helped her move here too about 7 years ago. I let her stay with me until she found work and could move out on her own. We’ve been very close since birth. It’s just been the last 7 years or so that we’ve been living apart. She’s a year older than me. She’s pretty responsible for a woman. She has no debt, doesn’t spend money on makeup or expensive purses or other s~~~.

Her job sucks ass so she doesn’t have much savings, but she’s been doing okay living alone. She doesn’t have many friends and has always used me as her frequently only friend and companion. She lives only a few miles from me, but in the big city a few miles can be like 1/2 an hour away in traffic. I don’t know.

I don’t visit her apartment very often. She normally comes here because I’ve got all the toys (computers, big screen TV, gaming systems, etc.) and I live in an actual house. Maybe she misses living together. I don’t know. But I like having my own space. I wouldn’t have wanted her moving in with me before, but certainly not now. I don’t know what she was hoping to accomplish with this.

EDIT: As for “playing doctor,” that sort of happened when I was 7 and she was 8. But we didn’t call it “playing doctor.” I don’t remember much about it. But I do remember that she initiated it. I remember it was mostly about her curiosity and I didn’t really care to touch her. She wanted me to touch her chest and I did but seeing as she wasn’t developed I really didn’t care. I remember thinking “WTF is the big deal about this?”

I don’t think any feelings developed over that one incident. I’m 25 and she’s 26 now, so for her 10 years ago she was 16, not 8. We were just kids messing around. I can’t imagine any real feelings could develop from an encounter like that.

[OldBillParticipant]

Go troll somewhere else.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[EntropyParticipant 902]

i think the username: “SisterFister” is still open…

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[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

Well so far it’s turned out better than I expected it to. She called me today and “took back” everything she said. She claimed it was “stress” and confusion about her (non-existent) love life. Whatever. I don’t believe her. I still think she has feelings for me. But at least now I think we can put this all behind us. However, I am going to try to avoid her from now on and I’m not going to spend any more time with her unless I have no other option (family events, etc.). I’ll consider being more at ease if she ever gets a boyfriend. I don’t think my relationship with her is ever going to be the same, but perhaps over time things will return to a resemblance of normal.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

DarkRyu wrote:

I really have nowhere else to turn here, and I’m hoping you guys can help me with this one. A little background about me. I’ve never been in a relationship or on a date or anything. I’ve done everything in my power to avoid women at all costs. The exception being my family. I’ve always felt fine being around my female family members….until now.

So my sister drops this bombshell on me today. She uh…f~~~ I don’t even know how to say it so I’ll just say it. She came over to my house today. Everything was normal, we hung out together, played some games, watched some movies, whatever. Then she comes out with this confession that she’s always wanted to f~~~ me and starts going on about how I’m not like any other guys she’s ever met and all this other s~~~. At first I think it’s some sort of sick joke, but she wasn’t laughing.

When I realize she’s serious I star talking about how she’s my sister and we can’t do stuff like that. Inside I’m really angry, but I’m kind of shell shocked here and it doesn’t come across like that. She somehow got the idea from my body language or whatever that I was okay with the idea or something and she starts making moves on me. I want to protest, but I’m still in shock. Unable to find the words, I just haul off and slap her face.

She starts crying and screaming like some deranged bitch. Her screaming at me snaps me out of the shock I’m in and we have this big ass fight about it. She’s screaming about how much she loves me and all this s~~~.

Now she knows I’m not gay. I’ve never spoken to her about MGTOW, but she knows that I don’t want to get in any sort of relationship EVER.

My question is, what the f~~~ is up with her? Is she trying to “help” her virgin brother? Is she trying to get something from me? God forbid, a child? We can’t marry so she can’t be after my wallet like that. She wasn’t drunk. Or has she just completely lost her mind? What the F~~~ am I supposed to do now? I value the relationship I have with my sister. I really do. She’s the most “normal” and level headed woman I’ve ever met. I just don’t understand why she’d do something like this.

Could she really have feelings for me? Has she been hiding these feelings for years? If so, what am I supposed to do? When a strange woman shows interest in me, I get rid of her as quickly as possible, regardless of how rude it is. But that’s not so easy to do when the woman is your sister. Am I supposed to “let her down easy” or some s~~~? I’m a guy with absolutely ZERO experience with this kind of stuff.

What I do NOT want to happen is I don’t want her to go ape s~~~ crazy and trash my house or something out of rage. And I want to salvage my relationship with her if possible. We grew up with each other and were always there for each other. I don’t want to throw away the last 25 years for one stupid mistake. F~~~ I hate women.

EDIT: This happened earlier today and I’m still trying to sort it out. After our big fight, I threw her out and went to the park to clear my head. I spent all day out. I even went to Walmart (I f~~~ing hate that place) because everything else was closed. I returned a few hours ago to an empty house (just how I like it), but it just seems so empty now and I hate the silence. It’s like 4:30am here right now and I can’t sleep. I really wasn’t even going to make this topic, but I can’t think of a better place to get advice. And boy do I need advise.

She hasn’t tried to contact me since. I have no idea what she’s doing. She’s either cried herself to sleep or is thinking “S~~~, my plan failed” (whatever that plan might be – this is what I need you guys’ help with). Still, she had to have expected this reaction, right? F~~~ me, I’m off to bed. Thank GOD it’s a holiday tomorrow (or technically today). I’ll be able to sleep in.

This isn’t a troll.
Your sister have had traumatic relationships, or, more likely, traumatic rejections.
She need your help.
She’s your blood.
You have to help her WITHOUT HAVING SEX with her.
She need a psychologist.
You have to talk about that with your mother.

I have had a similar problem with my nephew, 18 yo, who had a “shocking” relationship with her former boyfriend: he didn’t wish have sex with her.
My nephew didn’t actually tried to have sex with me, but she was becoming “too close” to me. Very close. I can recognise an awkward courtship by a 18 yo girl, I have see so much such things, so my alarm started screaming.
I talked with my sister.
My sister talked with my nephew.
You should do the same.
All will end good, don’t worry.
Now my nephew have a new boyfriend.

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