F~~~ the term "Real man"

[CrypticParticipant 45]

Random rant after surfing the facebewks.  The term “real man” gets thrown around a lot by people these days in meme’s, posts and blogs and it s~~~s me to tears.  A real man is a human that has the xy combination of the 23rd chromosomes and has gone through puberty.  Anything else is based off ideals and social perceptions.  I mention this after seeing a post that said “Real men don’t kill wolves, they live with them”.  Now that p~~~es me off, even though I’m of a mind not to kill wolves (wolves rock and share a kindred spirit with humans, the whole pack mentality, territorial inclinations, the hunter killer instinct fostered by eons of evolution).  It p~~~es me off because they are using guilt as a means to push an agenda onto men, and you can bet it was a meme created by a feminist vegan.   It’s a statement that strips away the human ability of free will, suggesting that all men have to ascribe to some social perception in order to be considered a man in the first place, leaving anyone who doesn’t meet that standard in some unclassified limbo without sex or gender.

 

My idea of being an MGTOW kind of dude, centres largely around the casting off of social perceptions as to how I should feel, think and behave simply because I have a c~~~.  Whether those perceptions come from females or males.  I am what I am and be f~~~ed if I will change that to suite someones ideals based of their personal preference and a furthering of their own agendas.  Eat a dick I say, eat a big smelly dick.

[TYEParticipant 291]

I almost made a Meme my main photo that read “Real Men don’t care what a woman thinks a real man is” or something like that, but I decided to leave the whole thing alone. The trend among women has become extremely popular, its another shaming tactic they use to get their way every single time.  They know men depend on our Masculinity, but yet they attack it every chance they get, its amazing to me how any man can think women care about him.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Yes we have the definition of “a real man” on our glossary page

http://mgtow.com/glossary

….. as a great big “lol & f~~~ you” middle finger straight up the c~~~ of anyone who ever attempted to use the term in a sentence.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[IggyThundersParticipant 246]

<span style=”font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px;”>”It p~~~es me off because they are using guilt as a means to push an agenda onto men, and you can bet it was a meme created by a feminist vegan. “</span>

Thats the late 20th and early 21st century in a nutshell, and something that ALL special interest groups use like a nuclear weapon. GUILT! More importantly, UNEARNED GUILT! Sadly, this crap works on tons of people. Especially white people. We know that this crap works on about 100% of the female population. I call it the “Awwww factor”. Logic goes completely out the window and emotions are the prime guiding factor. Then you have a huge swath of manginas (again mostly white) and an increasingly huge demographic of men under 30 who were weaned on a pantheon of special interest Demi-Gods as well as the feminine creed of “reason through emotion” who just dont know any better. There has always been and always will be people who bitch, moan and complain about one thing or the other. The only difference is that now these neurotic lunatics are actually listened too and taken seriously! That can be blamed on many things, but the internet is a huge one. Think about it? Before the net, if some whiny p~~~ed off woman or mangina had some kind of stupid beef about some stupid non-issue they would have to hit the streets and do tons of footwork to get their message out and gather followers. Now all it takes is a Facebook page, a twitter account and a stupid meme to get the train rolling. After a few thousand  mouth breathers “Like” you, you can then start a petition drive. Get enough E- signatures and the United States government has to actually take you seriously and give a response!!

[CrypticParticipant 45]

Yup, the interwebz is a large part of the blame for such bollocks, and the problem is the loudest are often the most bigoted and bat s~~~ crazy of the world.  They love a public forum that can’t be shut down and feel like they accomplish something and validate their opinions simply because they garnish a bunch of likes which amount to nothing more than pseudo support, while the rational thinkers can’t be f~~~ed responding.  Women are bad for it on facebook and it’s why I have deleted so many people.  There is nothing more annoying than finding some chick airing dirty laundry in some half cryptic way just to rack up likes and sycophantic comments from other women who know nothing about the situation.  If you want to bitch about someone on facebook, do it in a pm and have some class, my timeline is there for gig updates, jokes and funny videos, not your fishing for verification of your vanity while trying to publicly shame whoever it was who didn’t like the dress you were wearing etc.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

No one asks if there are any “real women” left.  Typical female unaccountability.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

I hate that term “be a real man”. I am not a real man by society’s definition of one because I do not fit all the tropes, but I can care less. The irony is when feminists tell a man to be a real man they are doing the exact thing they claim to be fighting against. Forcing an old way of thinking how a gender should act.

[MendokusaiParticipant 256]

I don’t know,maybe I’m too old school but a man shouldn’t worry what ANYBODY thinks cause most of the time they don’t. Live your life & make your own decisions & anybody that doesn’t like it can go f~~~ themselves.

I had to laugh the other day when on a Harley forum buddy asks what he should wear while riding and no I’m not talking protective gear.

If you care what other people think,you shouldn’t be on one.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

The only definition I’ve ever used for “real man” is a man who can take care of himself and fulfill the obligations that he willingly takes upon himself.

A female once used the phrase in my presence so I asked her what being a “real woman” meant. As you might expect, she didn’t have an answer so I said “If you can’t even define your own values, what gives you the right to think you can define mine?”

End of conversation. If I’d have been Tom Leykis she’d have hung up… and I’d have taken her out “old school” anyhow. Ka-BOOM!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

A female once used the phrase in my presence so I asked her what being a “real woman” meant. As you might expect, she didn’t have an answer

+10

And BOOM there you go. With all the falling over themselves women do to define a “real man” like goddam authorities…. they have completely forgotten how to define themselves. When a woman dares use that term in my presence, she gets a response she will never forget:

“What would you know about being a man? You’re a western female. What would you even know about being …. HUMAN.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Women use “real man” like politicians use “cooperate.” They mean “obey and pay.”

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I had read in a book (“the Manipulated Man” ?) where it’s explained…..

A (real) man to a woman is a term she will use to describe something USEFUL TO HER – like a utility.

If you are not useful to her you are not a “real man”.

She will even artificially compliment you if you carry something heavy for her. Or squash a spider. Or hook up her DVD player. Or hammer a nail so she can hang a picture. Or describe an obligation to pay ……. all as something a “real man” does. If you don’t make yourself useful to her in these ways. You are not a real man. And likewise if you DO these things for her, it’s “my boyfriend is a real man and he would NEVER say anything so disrespectful to women like you”.

Where it gets funny, is when he goes out with another girl.
Suddenly the same guy is “not a real man” anymore.

Convenient.

I fell back in my chair and reflected on all the times that was true. In every compliment from “Gosh it’s great to have a real man around”… to shaming and insults “where are all the real men?”, the above is true 100 f~~~ing percent of the time.

Then the book mentions why women are all GA-GA over “men in uniforms”. Every “man in uniform” is a disposable utility. Refuse to play that part and you’re not a “real man”. BE that guy and you are automatically a real man the second you walk into the room.

It’s mind-blowing, really.

“useful to her”… is ALL it means.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Yep, it’s in The Manipulated Man. In fact, he hammers the idea.

Useful to her equals “masculine”
Not useful to her equals “effeminate”

Back in my dating days, a wise mentor told me a truth. If she doesn’t ask you to help her move her furniture, then she is not interested in you at all. Ditto helping with her homework. This happened to me with some chick I was hot on at the time. It was a valuable life’s lesson, not to mention all the time and money I saved by dropping my Beta Male orbiting.

Anyway, that’s what they have moving companies for.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Yep, it’s in The Manipulated Man. In fact, he hammers the idea.

Sit down before you fall down. The author was a SHE.

(Yeah I know. I couldn’t believe it myself.)

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TYEParticipant 291]

Sat down, and my head still almost exploded from being delivered such shocking information…all hope may not be lost for the Female after all.

[Insidious_SidParticipant 21]

According to women:

Real man = does what the woman wants, ignores her insanity, and tries to be a manly attractive man for her while not doing too many annoying manly things (?!)

Mature man = same as real man.

Good man = same as real man.

Misogynist = anyone who is not a real man(tm)*, mature man(tm)* or good man(tm)*, or any male (or female) who questions any aspect of feminism, especially 3rd wave.

MRA = same as misogynist

MGTOW = same as misogynist

Nice guy = social death sentence (Good guy who’s not attractive or wealthy enough and should have known better than to approach an overweight “3” in the library.)

Tune in next week where we define creepy and rapey!

*Registered Trademark of Matriarchy Incorporated.

 

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Other Terms I hate that Ex-Botches…oops I meant Ex-Bitches used on me:

(1) “Man-Up”

(2) “You Need to Handle your Responsibilities”

Both meaning: Do what the F~~~ she says. Give her what she wants even if it’s absolutely ridiculous for her to have it.  Satisfy her F~~~in’ Stupid Whims.

If you don’t, You are F~~~SHIET to her.  You Must Not Know ’bout Her,  You Must Not Know ’bout Her,  She can have ANOTHER YOU in a Minute. Matter of Fact, HE’LL be here in a Minute.  She’ll have ANOTHER YOU by TOMORROW…DON’T YOU EVER for a Second get to thinking that YOU’RE IRREPLACEABLE.

Hypergamic Botches.

[RoyDalParticipant]

KeyMaster wrote:

Sit down before you fall down. The author was a SHE.
(Yeah I know. I couldn’t believe it myself.)

A friend told me I was one of the MGTOW and recommended I read a book by a woman author: Men on Strike by Dr. Helen Smith. (He was right, but I had never heard the term before then. This was about a year ago.) The book is an excellent read for anyone who wants MGTOW explained, that is provided they are open to rational thought.

Here is Dr. Smith’s interview on Fox TV. Notice how they keep throwing “man up” at her. That’s what reminded me of this video.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Insidious_SidParticipant 21]

My personal favorite thing about feminist women is when they leave the corporate world as turkey-necked cougars covered in age spots and after banging every alpha on the block, they’re out looking for Mr. Beta Buck$. Yep, NOW they want to marry and secure more income,  resources and property for their kidlets after a few hundred spins on the old carousel.  And suddenly they realize that 40 is NOT the new 30 or 20 or whatever those ridiculous magazines claimed – they are out in droves whining, en masse:

“Oh, but where have all the good men gone?!”

Find me more delicious irony than that!

[In Which We ServeParticipant 111]

Yes. ‘Man Up’ is really annoying. It’s used in the liberal media with articles like ‘men should Man Up and change nappies’ etc.

There’s no equivalent ‘woman up’, as in, ‘women should “woman up” and stop drinking so much that they pass out in public’.

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