F~~~ buddy tried to emotional tampon me

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

So, this girl I’ve been talking to and going out with recently has tried to use me as an emotional tampon, oddly enough it’s her time of the month so she’s already crying and being a baby. She says:
“You’re so lucky guys don’t have periods”

I said:
“Oh please, suck it up buttercup! A woman releases one egg during her period, and she cries, bleeds, and won’t shut the f~~~ up about it! A man can ejaculate 100 million sperm (the avg number) and all he needs is a sandwich and 15 minutes and he can do it again!”

Suffice it to say, she wasn’t happy about that, and she stormed off and gave me the silent treatment, aka finally some peace and goddamn quiet, but that got me to thinking. Women try to get away with so much on their periods and they blame it on their hormones, and they “can’t control their emotions” and all that.

Bitch please, you think men don’t have hormones? Guess what, if I can go through my teenage years and puberty without f~~~ing everything that moves then you can tough out 5 days worth of cramps. It seems like an excuse, and I don’t buy it. Learn some self control goddammit, or maybe some accountability. Probably the last time she’ll try that.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[EskimospyParticipant 841]

I think it’s time that whenever a woman tries to use a man as an emotional tampon that he should immediately refer her as a creep. Ask her why she has to be so creepy. After all, they treat us that way, especially while were already down. So why not use this as an opportunity to put that shoe on her foot while she’s down? Let’s see how they feel. Let’s see how they like it. Besides that, what response could anyone, man or woman make after being called a creep without being made to look even creepier?

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22589]

When someone is in pain, you don’t kick them when they are down.

Ignoring them is fine. Being indifferent is fine. But, when a person is pain, it doesn’t matter what type of pain it is, you don’t add to that pain. Doing so just makes you a jerk.

And it sounds like she was just making a casual comment, and was not trying to insult you.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Faust For Science wrote:

When someone is in pain, you don’t kick them when they are down.

Ignoring them is fine. Being indifferent is fine. But, when a person is pain, it doesn’t matter what type of pain it is, you don’t add to that pain. Doing so just makes you a jerk.

Good point, FfS.

[OldBillParticipant]

She’s trying to get you to “pay” more for the pussy she’s been giving you. It’s an age old trick all women play.

Whatever the details of the “f~~~ buddy” relationship you two are in, you’re “paying” in some manner with stuff like drinks, occasional meals, Netflix, your attention and time, etc. She’s beginning to push at the edges of your arrangement because that’s what women do.

She’s trying to get just a little bit more out of you because, as we all know, regular access to pussy “civilizes” men. Because “vagina”, you’ve undoubtedly changed, which means your mind has changed and which means you won’t mind changing the parameters of the relationship.

The camel’s nose is trying to slip under the edge of the tent and the water in which the frog is sitting has warmed another few degrees. Our PUA cousins use the term “frame” and that’s how you need to think about it. You need to maintain your frame and actively resist all of her attempts to “renegotiate” the “terms” of the relationship you two share.

Good luck.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

When someone is in pain, you don’t kick them when they are down.

Ignoring them is fine. Being indifferent is fine. But, when a person is pain, it doesn’t matter what type of pain it is, you don’t add to that pain. Doing so just makes you a jerk.

And it sounds like she was just making a casual comment, and was not trying to insult you.

Let me reiterate, I tried to keep the post short, as I tend to ramble, but sometimes I guess I have to spell it out. When I said….

Silverstone the Second wrote:

oddly enough it’s her time of the month so she’s already crying and being a baby.

This is what I meant
1. I went to get her ice cream, because she wanted some. She wanted triple chocolate, and the store was all out, so I got chocolate caramel. When I got back, she bit my head off because I got the wrong s~~~.
2. I said I would be working late, and she decided to leave half a dozen hateful texts about how selfish I am for putting work ahead of her, and then decided she didn’t want to hang out, and said she wasn’t coming over. Then she was beating down my door at 8pm because she had changed her mind AGAIN and decided she wanted to hang out. She texted me, but I was in the shower
3. She wanted me to cook her food because she was too sore from cramps, and I said I didn’t want to, I was tired from work, and suddenly she got very animated and was screaming and shouting instead of curled up in a ball on the couch about how I had “no idea what it’s like to have a period”

This happened the day before, and the day of the story when I said what I said. I’m not “kicking anyone while they’re down” , I’m calling someone on their bulls~~~, and having some f~~~ing self dignity when someone wants to jump my s~~~ when I try to help them and make life easier on them. I bite my tongue very often, and when I don’t want to sit there being getting bitched at for nothing, then I don’t give a s~~~.

I’ll be sure to spell it out in the future.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22589]

1. That was nice of you.

2. That was a bit uncalled from her. She is an adult.

3. I think you are both in the wrong. Perhaps you both should have ordered in, considering neither of you felt like fixing dinner for the both of you.

[Anonymous 26]

This sounds worse than your average PMS Silverston II….. it sounds like your being manipulated beyond that of the use of an emotional tampon! She’s being radical and psychotically chaotic.

We men may not have an idea of what having a period is like, but brother they way she is behaving with her’s… she’s either being an over the top drama queen (to what ends… only she knows), or she is in serious pain. If it’s that bad…. drag her ass to emergency and see how far she will play it out to bury herself into embarrassment. Maybe the interjection of a female nurse may shake some sense into her.

My gut feeling is that….. she’s being a drama queen to manipulate you in her twisted little mind game.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

OldBill wrote:

She’s trying to get just a little bit more out of you

Anonymous wrote:

she’s being a drama queen to manipulate you in her twisted little mind game

DING DING DING! OldBill & Paul_LeMgtow nailed it.

This girl’s pushing your boundaries – her asking you to get her ice cream or whatever was a s~~~ test. Her wanting you to put up with her bitching about her period was a s~~~ test.

She’ll keep pushing the boundaries, and s~~~ testing you, until you put your foot down. A couple recommendations if you haven’t built this in to your emotional muscle-memory:

First time she pulls this s~~~, sternly say: “You’re an adult. Act like it.” Alternately – “You’re not sick or dying, get your own ice cream. And get me some imported beer while you’re at it.”

Second time she pulls this s~~~, calmly tell her: “You’ll talk to me with respect, or not at all. Leave now and maybe you can return when you’ve grown up.”

In both cases she’ll flip her s~~~, but the 2nd one moreso. Probably start screaming, maybe throw s~~~. Stay calm. Once she leaves, she’ll blow up your phone with calls, txts, email, FB posts, etc. You’re a total asshole, go f~~~ yourself, i don’t need your s~~~ i have a hundred guys that want to warship me blah blah blah.

Don’t respond. Block her # for 72 hours. Put on some classical music & forget about her etc etc.

After 72 hours, she’ll calm down. You can txt her – “If you can act like an adult you can join me for dinner tonight. Wear black stockings.”

[Anonymous 6]

Yeah sounds like a s~~~ test to the effect as “You don’t really care about, or you don’t care how I feel, attitude.”

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25015]

I don’t know much, I’ve just been married twice, lived for over 3 years with 3 women, dated umpteen women and I can safely say it’s time to dump that bitch.

This goes beyond s~~~ testing and into emotional abuse. If you like emotional abuse, your in the right relationship.

If you don’t you dump her yesterday. This is the beginning. It will get worse. She has her hooks in so she thinks she can treat you like s~~~. And it’s working. You haven’t dumped her, she treats you like a plantation slave, not an emotional tampon.

An emotional tampon has to hear about s~~~ that’s emotional to the person saying it but irrelevant to the listener.

She has you doing stuff then telling you it’s not good enough. That’s abuse.

Maybe you like it, I’m not one to judge. But if you don’t, take a cold hard look at this one because she is trying to break you and turn you into her kitchen bitch.

They are not all like that, you can do better.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

MattNYC wrote:

OldBill wrote:

She’s trying to get just a little bit more out of you

Paul_LeMgtow wrote:

she’s being a drama queen to manipulate you in her twisted little mind game

DING DING DING! OldBill & Paul_LeMgtow nailed it.

This girl’s pushing your boundaries – her asking you to get her ice cream or whatever was a s~~~ test. Her wanting you to put up with her bitching about her period was a s~~~ test.

She’ll keep pushing the boundaries, and s~~~ testing you, until you put your foot down. A couple recommendations if you haven’t built this in to your emotional muscle-memory:

First time she pulls this s~~~, sternly say: “You’re an adult. Act like it.” Alternately – “You’re not sick or dying, get your own ice cream. And get me some imported beer while you’re at it.”

Second time she pulls this s~~~, calmly tell her: “You’ll talk to me with respect, or not at all. Leave now and maybe you can return when you’ve grown up.”

In both cases she’ll flip her s~~~, but the 2nd one moreso. Probably start screaming, maybe throw s~~~. Stay calm. Once she leaves, she’ll blow up your phone with calls, txts, email, FB posts, etc. You’re a total asshole, go f~~~ yourself, i don’t need your s~~~ i have a hundred guys that want to warship me blah blah blah.

Don’t respond. Block her # for 72 hours. Put on some classical music & forget about her etc etc.

After 72 hours, she’ll calm down. You can txt her – “If you can act like an adult you can join me for dinner tonight. Wear black stockings.”

Yeah, both are right. She’s not my girlfriend for this exact reason. She thinks she’ll win me over with behavior like this, and it won’t work. Oh well. I’ve had a good policy of keep them all at arms length, even when you’re f~~~ing them. She didn’t get too close to my life to try and drag me through the mud socially, so I can just ignore her for a while, and maybe find another one. Funny thing is, pussy is a dime a dozen.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[The Skank SpankerParticipant 1372]

Women are like dogs, if you feed them at the table, they come back for more.

I strongly agree with MattNYC here. You need to:

1. Set clear boundaries with your girlfriend (although I feel it’s too late for that, since you already let her cross them. Now she knows she can get away with s~~~ tests and will probably keep on giving you worse and worse s~~~-tests).
2. Women thrive on conflict. They will test your boundaries with it. Just like women like soap-series, they will enjoy a good fight and get pleasure from treating you as a puppet and manipulating you + getting away with it.

If this was my girlfriend, I would have told her to f~~~ off and get her own ice-cream. Never, ever take BS. Go into stealth-ice-cold mode and watch her crawl back, let her know YOU ARE IN POWER NOW, not her. And if this didn’t already work: BAIL. Get the f~~~ out.

Women are like dogs, train them, or they will train you.

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

Agree with the majority, if she’s going to treat you like s~~~ and not just deal with it, f~~~ her. She’s assuming men have everything so f~~~ing easy…stfu, you’re not the only woman on the planet and plenty of others just f~~~ing tough it out, POS. Ignore.

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[Anonymous 24]

The Skank Spanker wrote:

Women are like dogs, train them, or they will train you.

Amen.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Women are like dogs, if you feed them at the table, they come back for more.

@THE SKANKSPANKER;
Too funny! It’s funny because it’s true! Thanks for making me laugh this day!

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