Freshly Divorced & Surrounded By the Status Quo

[YAZParticipant 140]

Shortly after my divorce was finalized, I attended a dinner party hosted by some good friends.  Keep in mind that my ex-wife is a flaming f~~~ing carpet muncher that pawned most of my power tools before she decided to move in with her dike lover.  I moved out temporarily until the proverbial dust settled as my neighbors watched horrified as the events unfolded.

The hostess exclaimed, “YAZ, in due time you will find a nice woman to settle down with.  This is all temporary.”

 

Are you f~~~ing kidding me?

 

After ten years of bloody hell with me sacrificing everything from career to family relationships…..my focus shall return to doing it all over again?

 

I lost friends because my ex didn’t like them, for God’s sake.

 

I’m a polite guy and my friend the “hostess” is a sweetheart.  She also happens to be married to a guy that is a good friend that I trust.  I simply nodded and smiled, knowing in my heart that I’ll never put myself in that predicament again.  (Yes….I’d bang that sweet pussy all day if my buddy wasn’t involved).  But keep in mind that she wouldn’t have access to my checking account……EVER.

 

At 51 years of age, there isn’t any “settling down” any more in my future.  Not by USA standards, anyway.  I’ve seen it.  Manginas getting married again real quick after a divorce……are they really  happy?  Are they looking for a partnership?  Really now……how long does it take to clean a f~~~ing toilet?  I don’t need anyone to drive me to the dentist when I have a toothache.  Nor do I feel that compromise is needed regarding tonight’s supper menu.  Or vacation destinations for that matter……

My point is…..we are bombarded daily with what “should be.”

Don’t fall into the trap.  Nod, smile, and be polite around your married friends.  And giggle uncontrollably when you crawl into bed at the end of the night…..knowing that you won’t have to sleep in the wet spot.

 

Whore Magnet

[Anonymous 1]

Roger that.

🙂

[TheLiftingGamerParticipant 3]

lol awesome post man live and love life my man 🙂

[YAZParticipant 140]

I try to keep it humorous while promulgating the important aspects.  The suicide rate is incredibly high with guys my age that have been through similar circumstances.  Bulls~~~.  Do things that make you happy.  Go fishing.  Work out.  Play with the dogs.  F~~~ whores.  Buy that f~~~ing awesome off road vehicle that you always wanted.  Or a motorcycle.  Or guitar.

 

Have another beer.  No one’s there to count anymore, LOL.

 

Mid life crisis my ass, ifya want a f~~~ing sports car/convertible get one.  ‘Cuz you don’t need a pussy anchor.

 

Have fun.

 

Whore Magnet

[Anonymous 5]

YAZ wrote:

The suicide rate is incredibly high with guys my age that have been through similar circumstances

As long as guys cling to the relationship fairy tale ending, they’ll be miserable failures in their own eyes, simply because it’s an unachievable fairy tale.

In the modern Hilton/Kardashian age, women think they’re entitled to it all.
They firmly believe that any negative consequences to their narcissistic behaviour is the result of the Patriarchy and in particular, their partners.
When men are told this often enough they start to believe it.

[YAZParticipant 140]

Anonymous wrote:

YAZ wrote:

The suicide rate is incredibly high with guys my age that have been through similar circumstances

As long as guys cling to the relationship fairy tale ending, they’ll be miserable failures in their own eyes, simply because it’s an unachievable fairy tale. In the modern Hilton/Kardashian age, women think they’re entitled to it all. They firmly believe that any negative consequences to their narcissistic behaviour is the result of the Patriarchy and in particular, their partners. When men are told this often enough they start to believe it.

True. Women are rarely deemed narcissistic, because society and the court systems consider them as victims. Men on the other hand, are considered as perpetrators and villains. Bulls~~~. And men are conditioned to believe that they’re not complete without a vagina owner in the household. More bulls~~~.

Case in point: My friend for 40 years had a wife that went “astray.” Yep. F~~~ed a dude that she met at the bar and divorce followed that action. After their divorce, she proceeded to chastise his ass because he was f~~~ing every whore that would have him. Double standard? I think so.

I’ve always liked her ass though. I’m gonna try to f~~~ her.

Whore Magnet

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

When I guy is in his 40’s he should be thinking about saving for retirement not shacking up with some ho who will suck you dry and I don’t mean your semen. It amazes me people are dumb enough to get married over and over again. How many of you married friends are truly happy in their marriage and how many of will be still be married when they are in their 60’s and 70’s. The stats on married people is that about half your friends will eventually divorce and if they don’t there will probably not be happy with their marriage. As you know divorce can be a killer for most guys so sometimes staying married as long as possible maybe the only option.

You lucked out that’s for sure, no alimony or child support. She is too busy sucking c~~~ to thinking about alimony which is a good thing.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

YAZ wrote:

I try to keep it humorous while promulgating the important aspects. The suicide rate is incredibly high with guys my age that have been through similar circumstances. Bulls~~~. Do things that make you happy. Go fishing. Work out. Play with the dogs. F~~~ whores. Buy that f~~~ing awesome off road vehicle that you always wanted. Or a motorcycle. Or guitar. Have another beer. No one’s there to count anymore, LOL. Mid life crisis my ass, ifya want a f~~~ing sports car/convertible get one. ‘Cuz you don’t need a pussy anchor. Have fun.

You just talked me into buying a gift to me from me! Great post

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[RoyDalParticipant]

YAZ wrote:

My point is…..we are bombarded daily with what “should be.”

Yep, the world is full of people who want us to sacrifice ourselves for their cause.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[tony618Participant 38]

Trust me — buy that sports car… I got an ’14 Audi S5 – and it was the best decision I ever made.. Gives me complete pleasure and never nags or complains that I have to give it something back..
Why is it that marriage always has to be about sacrifice for the man? I will never get sucked into mini-van status now as a single guy.

Great post YAZ

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Sounds like you have it all figured out my man! Buy whatever you want, drink whatever you want and do whatever you want, I look forward to this day. Only a few more months now and everything will be finalized, and I can’t wait. I already plan on trading the current car in on a new Mustang GT. The current car that was bought with intentions of having a family in the backseat at some point, yea that isn’t happening now. I traded in my first love for it. She was a beauty, dark blue mustang, I knew her so well, and she knew me too, the only woman that’s treated me right outside of my mom. So it’s time for me to have what I want, and it’ll never have a slut inside of it! Just my two dogs…that’s all I need in life. Oh and blunts!

[Anonymous 9]

No doubt man.

I’m 31 and feel as if I wasted a good portion of my 20s chasing ass; I have nothing to show for that now.

So from here on out it’s about self-improvement, and taking care of my health.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

gllahone84…We all have something that we regret, I put 8 years into a woman, married her, provided her with the opportunity to get her grad school degree, paid for a move to NYC and now I’m about to have nothing to show for it. I’m doing the same, I have been working out for 6 months, 5 days a week and finally quit smoking. I feel so much better about my outcome for life.

[BDParticipant 1146]

YAZ wrote:

I attended a dinner party hosted by some good friends.

I straight up just avoid couples dinner parties, watching neutered men pander to women and talk about their boring lives of hamster slavery is not my idea of a good time. And you’re absolutely right, they all tell you what “should be”

Doing “man” things is what I enjoy, not dinners organized by women, paid for by men, and then listening to the women compare the resources they have recently extracted, no thanks.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Anonymous 9]

Gunslinger wrote:

gllahone84…We all have something that we regret, I put 8 years into a woman, married her, provided her with the opportunity to get her grad school degree, paid for a move to NYC and now I’m about to have nothing to show for it. I’m doing the same, I have been working out for 6 months, 5 days a week and finally quit smoking. I feel so much better about my outcome for life.

I was with someone for around 6 or 7 years, and once she graduated from college and got a new job she completely changed on me.

I’ll never forget sitting in the car with her, and she kept repeating the lyrics to this song…”Wait till I get my money right, laaaaa laaa la la…”

From that moment I had an intuition that something wasn’t right, and there could be trouble in the future. I was right.

She started f~~~ing around with other guys, and once we broke up she ended up pregnant in less than 6 months.

If I would had stayed with her I wouldn’t have gone to grad school, and put myself in position for a career.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

See that’s the thing man, they plan these things way in advance and then execute on it. I should have ran three years ago when we almost separated, but stupid me was in “love”. She changed, but now I have found out it was just to have me pay for everything until we got to “the place of her dreams, nyc” Now after getting settled into our jobs, she’s just not into me anymore??? Nah bitch, you are getting attention and you can’t handle it correctly. I’m from the south, I have a nice thick country accent. I haven’t been hit on more in my life since moving up here, but I would just shrug em off and state I’m taken. She obviously can’t handle that, she wants to see that other green grass…or so I’m guessing.

I feel for us guys that have been duped into situations such as this, but then again it’s a blessing in disguise. We wake up from these things and come out better and stronger people. Now we know the signs to look for in a girl, even if she is able to hid it well (like my wife).

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Spot on, man! Fool me once, shame on you – fool me again shame on me. Typical western female behavior – dominating, irritating and frustrating. And its spreading worldwide too – the behavior that is. The media has propagated the feminist garbage to areas previously immune – Eastern Europe, Asia. So now most of these ladies are no better.  I am about your age so I understand where you are in life. At this age we have sewn our oats and deserve to reap our harvest. Not have some “spouse” or any “insignificant” other determine our fate. You’ve heard the joke before – “why do men most often die before their wives – because they want to”. My divorce is being filed as I write this and already I feel like the shackles are coming off. I have devoted all my free time to her and her kid from a previous relationship, work 11 or 12 hours a day and on the weekends – and have almost no money for my own hobbies. She drags her ass to every garden shop in the area purchase more plants than a freaking botanical garden. Keep in mind we live in the upper midwest with about a 3 months growing season. An old friend of mine had built a very successful dental practice and was single up until nearly age 40. He got more ass than a public toilet seat, traveled and owned a great piece of property. He fell for a younger “hot” 20 something single mom with a very young daughter. They dated for almost 6 years and he continued resisting marrying her. She threatened to bail and he caved in. Not long after, his beautiful 2600 sq foot colonial home was “too small” for her. So he built another one more than twice the size. She also, of course, got the baby rabies and popped out 3 more. 15 years later, the poor man still works his ass off 6 days a week and dare not even think of divorce because he will loose most of his assets including the home, his medical practice in addition to obscene amounts of vaginamony and child support to supplement her voracious appetite for living high (when they met she lived in a rent subsidized apartment). I can only hope once his kids are grown, he dumps her ass but he will still get scathed with obscene “maintenance” for this princess.  Live and learn my brothers.

[Anonymous 9]

I just logged back on. But I had to +1 your replies on this.

I’m from North Carolina myself.

You’re right about it being a blessing, and it has definitely made me stronger. I also ran into her a few weeks ago while out with my mom. As we were leaving the store going into the parking lot I spotted that bitch from a mile away walking with her kid.

So as she gets near she says hello, but did I speak back?

Hell no.

I kept walking to the car, but my mom stayed and chatted with her.

F~~~ her.

She almost ruined my life.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

My divorce is being filed as I write this and already I feel like the shackles are coming off. I have devoted all my free time to her and her kid from a previous relationship, work 11 or 12 hours a day and on the weekends – and have almost no money for my own hobbies. She drags her ass to every garden shop in the area purchase more plants than a freaking botanical garden. Keep in mind we live in the upper midwest with about a 3 months growing season.

Dude I’m in the same boat, I have nothing when we split. We barely have anything in savings because as soon as we married, we saved to move to GA, for her to go to school. While I made good money down there we were trying to get caught up on debt. Then from there it was saving to come up here. Then we have been paying her’s and my school loans and the debt from moving up here. Now she wants to split and I have nothing to take with me. I’ll barely be able to afford living with roommates up this way. As for hobbies, s~~~ I can barely afford a video game every now and again. But she sure does love her new dresses and Uber every f~~~ing place she goes.

Anonymous wrote:

So as she gets near she says hello, but did i speak back? Hell no. I kept walking to the car, but my mom stayed and chatted with her. F~~~ her. She almost ruined my life.

F~~~ yes bro! That’s the f~~~ing spirit. F~~~ her, and why should you speak to her, you don’t owe her the scum on the bottom of your shoes. Unfortunately if I stay up here, I’ll have to still meet her to see my two dogs. That’s why I keep thinking about either moving back to KY or with my friend to Alabama. Then I’ll only have to see her at most once a year to take the dogs for 6 months. But hey I have lot’s of options and I have plenty of time while she is in Spain for work this next month, to decide where I shall go. If I could just up and just leave like a ghost I would, but these two dogs are the only things right now I care about.

[RoninParticipant 42]

Yaz,

 

When I got divorced, I got a Saleen Mustang, when the funds allowed, that I always wanted. I love that supercharged V-8! No nagging c~~~ <span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>to bitch about how I spend my hard earned money. Get the toy you always wanted and live life for youself man.</span>

 

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