Four Mistakes a Woman Made That Wrecked Her Marriage.

[lonedragon50Participant 38]

Not very often you hear women, of all creatures, admit to these things. But I figured you’d all like to see this.

https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/4-big-mistakes-this-mom-made-that-led-to-divorce-105360024723.html

[Anonymous 23]

Excellent link, lonedragon. I could only read the top 3 because my browser wouldn’t register me clicking the ‘Read More’ link (I don’t suppose someone could copy paste it here could they?) but personally I can relate to them – They were the EXACT reasons why I left the mother of my child last year. Thank you.

[VileNordParticipant 766]

@Ynys_Manaw

4. I didn’t bother to learn to fight the right way. I know it sounds odd to suggest there is a right way to fight. But there is. I tended to keep the peace in our house by keeping my mouth shut when things were really bothering me. As you can imagine, all the small things that drove me crazy grew into a giant supressed ball of anger that would erupt occassionally in a huge, really frightening fit of Hulk-like rage. And by rage, I mean rage in the clinical, mental-health definition kind of way. After the fact, I’d justify my anger by saying that a woman can only take so much. Looking back, I was one scary b*tch during those episodes.

I write this mea culpa not with the hopes of winning my ex back, or even wanting his forgiveness. I write this because I can’t believe how long I kept my head buried in the sand. I hope other women out there will yank theirs out and take a good look around. And while I’m still hurt that my husband chose to solve our problems in another woman’s bed when some conversation and counseling might have helped, I absolutely know that my behavior was part of what pushed him there.

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Four mistakes that A woman made?

Plenty of millions of western females can tick 4 / 4 of those boxes and you’ll see them at Starbucks happily spending their alimony. It sure as s~~~ isn’t just “one”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 23]

@vilenord

Clearly I haven’t had enough cups of tea today as it took me about 5 minutes of “VileNord is a woman!??!?” before I figured out what you had posted. Cheers mate! 😀

[JimboParticipant 162]

How about listening to the advice of stupid friends, some con-artist magazine, or what the TV said. That is a mistake I see all the time from women.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

That’s why women are repeat failures in their personal lives over and over again. Because they listen to their own stupid advice. Go the market and pick up a woman’s interest magazine, and you will find stupid f~~~ing articles like “10 ways to please your man” or “6 ways to be better in bed than just laying there like a futon”.

Of all the 10 ways to please your man, they ALWAYS forget to mention the most important one.

Ask him what would please him… and when he answers, F~~~ING DO IT.

Solved.

If a woman could see past her nipples, she would see how that is the best f~~~ing relationship advice anywhere. I just saved every woman the $12.95 she would have paid to f~~~ up her personal life. But instead they list all kinds of female unicorn examples and relationship horses~~~… it’s no wonder they need to buy positive pregnancy tests to keep a man around.

Pleasing a man is easier than applying lipstick. It’s even easier than talking. How many guys out there would be pleased if their girlfriend (or wives) did absolutely nothing and just SHUT THE F~~~ UP for 5 minutes when he wants her to. For all the bulls~~~ women expect men to do to please them, any women who aren’t willing to DO NOTHING AND JUST SHUT THE F~~~ UP to please her man are not marriageable or worth getting in to a relationship with in the first place.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Women don’t get it.  Men are actually very Fruckin’ simple.  Generally, WE HAVE THREE BASIC NEEDS we want on a regular f~~~in’ basis:

(1) Piece of Food (Decently cooked meal)

(2) Piece of Pussy (on request, f~~~ a “headache”…)

(3) Peace of Mind (no Nagging, no Bullshiet)

Thus, the “Pussy-Food Mind”.  If a man can’t satisfy his “Pussy-Food-Mind” at home with his wife, he will undoubtedly satisfy it somewhere else usually in some “New-New”.

Let’s break this Bitch down some mo’…

(1) Putting her Rugrats first WAY OVER  her Husband’s desires UNDOUBTLY Frucked up the Husband’s access to Pussy ON DEMAND.  He thinks he’s about to get in the bed and dip his Middle Leg in his wife’s Pink Jacuzzi…and that little midget muthaf~~~a is in the bed sleep after her 344th children story. ‘Don’t you little muthaf~~~a have your own room???’  Shiet!  Fruck!

(2) Failing to set boundaries with her parents definitely Frucked up the Husband’s Peace of Mind.  Every time he looks up, his F~~~in’ In-Laws are there. Goddamit. Who can relax in his own Fruckin’ House with those muthaf~~~as there all of the time unannounced?  Not me. It ain’t happenin. I’m not getting Married. EVER.

(3) Emasculating her Husband definitely send ‘Priority Mail Express’ into some New Pussy…whether it is initially some Porn, Strip Club Pussy, a SideHoe/Mistress/Jump-Off, Prostitute or someone his wife knows. Dude will start working late…, meeting his jump-off at a local restaurant and off to do some Stress Relief F~~~in’.

(4) Not “fighting the right way” by doing the proverbial “I’m not Mad” bit and then blowing the F~~~ Up later.  There will be no Pussy and no Peace of Mind.  And who in the hell wants to eat at home. The local pub with those fine ass thicky booty blonde bartenders sounds like the perfect escape hatch.  Free Willy.

 

[MacOisdealbhParticipant 14]

The list goes on; don’t use sex as a bargaining chip, don’t arbitrarily stop having sex,  don’t alienate his friends, don’t alienate his family, don’t threaten him with violence, don’t alienate his children, DON’T PRETEND THAT YOU VIEW HIM AS ANYTHING OTHER THAN A SOURCE OF MONEY AND STATUS.

[Anonymous 5]

How about just showing him some respect? Just some little things would make men the happiest in the world. They don’t even require any effort.

God out of all the women I have dated, none of them would even give ME a simple goddamn compliment! How about boosting my ego once in a while? Or a simple “I am so proud of you”. Make me feel like I actually did something good. It’s like women are just incapable of simple sentences like “Thank you”.

[RoninParticipant 42]

It is extremely rare for a woman to have this level of “awareness” and ability to see her the responsibility in the failure of her marriage.  I would dare say that during her marriage her ex-husband brought up these 4 factors at one time or another as corrosive and destructive to their marriage, but since he was an “oppressive man” who doesn’t know s~~~, his thoughts, comments, viewpoints and ideas were automatically dismissed out of hand.  However, this “4 mistakes” realization probably came through seeing the same situation, with time, with her mother, sister, friends, women’s magazine, psychologist, or with a new flame or whatever.  The one person she was supposed to love and listen to was the person who was automatically dismissed; why should she care he had been relegated to nothing more than a walking, living ATM.

In my own marriage, it sickens me as to how my ex only cared for the money I earned.  My life, family, friends, ideas and opinions mattered to nothing.

[Andypaton505Participant 4]

To Please a man keep his belly full and beer plenty and his b~~~~ empty… wife tick two of these , at the moment sex is on the back burner , mother in law keeps invading our room uninvited at random times Hate my mother in law with great passion , they are also a big cause of divorces . Always interfering in everything .  I have lost count of the times i have told her to f~~~ off and chase her our room.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

to women lurkers:
pay attention to that simple post above. Respect a man enough to provide his very simple needs: full stomach, full beer cooler, empty b~~~~. How much more obvious can we make it for you? You can’t pretend not to ‘understand us’. A retarded jellyfish could understand that. If, like the woman in this article, you are not providing these simple things, then it’s because you don’t respect men enough to do so. And if that’s the case, then like the woman in this article, you do not deserve, and will probably not have any man at all.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[AussieBlokeParticipant 144]

BP – your assuming women are even interested in keeping their man happy, in my experience it was more a case of actively trying to keep me off my guard using the following:

1. Never say sorry (9 f~~~ing years she never once said it) regardless of how badly behaved or what s~~~ty thing she did.

2. Never complimented me on anything EVE.

3. Never thanked me NOT ONCE -I brought flowers, did her chores, babysat so she could go out.

4. Blaming me for the s~~~ SHE did wrong.

I could go on and on and on, but here’s why they do this, if their man is “Off-Guard” he’s constantly on the back foot and she feels like she’s in control and has the power.

The harder the fight the sweeter the victory

[KeymasterKeymaster]

AussieBloke wrote:

assuming women are even interested in keeping their man happy

Key phrase right there.

It occurred to me not long ago – if you LISTEN to how women speak about “relationships” (GOD I hate that word) she is always talking about it as a SINGULAR.

• “A” … relationship.
• MY….. relationship.
• I want … A relationship.
• MY….. wedding.
• MY …. ring.

But there isn’t just ONE relationship going on.
There are TWO relationships going on.

Her relationship to you.
And your relationship to her.
That’s TWO relationships. Not ONE.

It’s Newton’s law: For every action.. there is an equal and opposite reaction.
Between everything, there are two relationships going on.

However , women think as long as SHE is happy in HER relationship, everything is fine! She doesn’t give a F~~~ about how happy you are in YOUR relationship to her. It doesn’t matter. As far as she is concerned, you are in A relationship – namely hers. She is not in yours. Your relationship is irrelevant. The happier you make her relationship, the more miserable and unfulfilled you will be in yours. The dynamic is totally ass backwards, and women approach it all wrong. They are complete f~~~ing failures at it.

Do you have any idea how easy it is for a woman to make a man crawl through s~~~ for her? I know the secret, but I won’t reveal it here. It’s REALLY VERY EASY because men are infinitely easier to please. If she concentrated on just those very basics, he will climb f~~~ing mountains for her. He will enjoy coming home. But women are totally unaware of this. Ask them! Ask women how to GET AND KEEP a man, and all of them think all they need to do is feed a f~~~ him…… but that’s false. Men leave women like that all the time! The key is something so much simpler than that. It takes less effort than preparing a meal. It takes less effort than a blowjob. And that man will love her until death. But women don’t know what that is. They destroy it. They deliberately set out to destroy it.

If any of you know (or think you know) what I am talking about, keep it to yourselves.
The modern female doesn’t deserve to know. She has totally f~~~ed it up for herself.
Her grandmother knew. Most women about 70 years ago knew. But it has all been permanently destroyed.

Even if a woman gave me a million dollars I wouldn’t tell her. Its the easiest thing in the world. I am totally amazed where the question “where are all the good men” comes from. I marvel at the great lengths they go through to waste energy in the wrong places, the fake body parts they buy, the outfits, the makeup, the false eye lashes, the painted nails. All the energy in the WRONG place. She must already know this herself before she can be in “a relationship” at all. Else it will fail – every time.

They have NO clue.

They have become so greedy, toxic, selfish and self-centered, I will enjoy seeing them packed into nursing homes by the millions (don’t worry it’s coming) where NOBODY will come and visit them because they so shamelessly divorced their husbands and aborted their young.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Gone SurfingParticipant 216]

Great answer KeyMaster.

I would like to know what you mean about the one thing that they need to know to make a relationship work. I appreciate that you don’t want to post it here so if you have time could you send me an email with the answer and i would be very grateful.

 

 

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Ha ha ha nice one, KeyMaster. Sure enough I know exactly what you are driving at in terms of how to keep a man in a relationship or rather in relationships (plural!!!) and no I certainly won’t put the secret out to any possible women lurker herein either. But we all have to bear in mind that despite the fact that it is indeed so darn simple to please a man it plainly is in a woman’s nature to disobey these trivial rules as they seem to be literally too trivial for them, because (here’s my theory on this one): women do like challenges so much so that they deliberately sabotage their relationships (again plural!) more often than not (most subconsciously!) to an extend, as in “point of no return”, that they can no longer reverse it as in having put their own challenge up too high to do so and yet secretly(!) hoping (which is the most insane thing really) that their male spouses would never ever let it come to that level whilst (again subconsciously!) ignoring their very basic and (too) easy to fulfill like needs at an ever increasing level all along until final disaster. “Well, congrats, c~~~s…! There you go…”

You know, I have just come to a final conclusion regarding the nature of women and facing MGTOW and our alleged hatred of women, bear with me:

“The level of soberness of every individual MGTOW’s attitude in conjunction with his realization & acceptance of the female nature itself as a genuinely given, that one cannot change is anchored directly opposite to the level of alleged misogyny that MGTOWs are being confronted with from anybody and from any direction outside the Manosphere …”

Like it or not but that’s most probably the way it is. Maybe we could or should work with that…

 

Ned T.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[AussieBlokeParticipant 144]

KeyMaster, I can’t say with absolute certainty that what you and I think is the way “women can most easily please a man” is the same.

What I can say (without revealing it) is that I count myself as a fairly average guy and when talking to other guys, I know many of them complain of the lack of the it from their partners.

What motivates us to greatness is also the thing that pleases us most, given that I feel it, I can define it and articulate it, I’m fairly confident that we are speaking of the same thing.

But here is a (probably too obvious) clue, ironically a very famous woman wrote a song about it…..LOL

The harder the fight the sweeter the victory

[Anonymous 42]

Ned Trent wrote:

”You know, I have just come to a final conclusion regarding the nature of women and facing MGTOW and our alleged hatred of women”

May insert my favorite word; “misogynist”
“MGTOW and our alleged hatred of women”, no, not having it!
MGTOW and our misogynist hatred of women, yes, better!

Hey Ned, are you interested in a position as being our backup Cat Chipper? Nice TEETH!

[Zoby TwoParticipant 83]

AussieBloke wrote:

BP – your assuming women are even interested in keeping their man happy, in my experience it was more a case of actively trying to keep me off my guard using the following: 1. Never say sorry (9 f~~~ing years she never once said it) regardless of how badly behaved or what s~~~ty thing she did. 2. Never complimented me on anything EVE. 3. Never thanked me NOT ONCE -I brought flowers, did her chores, babysat so she could go out. 4. Blaming me for the s~~~ SHE did wrong. I could go on and on and on, but here’s why they do this, if their man is “Off-Guard” he’s constantly on the back foot and she feels like she’s in control and has the power.

Man, it seems I married your wife …

 

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