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[All OutParticipant 87]

I thankfully did not have to go through what some people here have, but wish I would have known about this community years ago!
I was in blue pill hell and woke up one Saturday morning next to my fiancé after a terrible dream that I had married her. Two hours later after thinking about this dream I called off the wedding (3 months out so lost all deposits.) I was unable to explain or pin point a reason for doing so other than it did not feel right. She was a religious college educated girl from a good (rich) family so I thought the right thing to do was marry her. Several months later a friend of mine introduced me to this community, and after doing a lot of reading here I realized why I had those feelings that something was not right. Man I dodged a bullet! There were so many red flags I ignored because that sense that this is what I’m expected to do. I can relate to so many stories here and so much stuff makes sense now! I can honestly say I never felt more alone than when I was engaged to get married!

I have been single for almost a year and thanks to advice here I have avoided a lot of bad situations. The red pill was hard to swallow but thanks to advice here I am coming through the rage and depression of today’s reality and feel I should try to repay the favor and try to help others and that’s why I joined this site.
I am truly thankful you all are here and spreading this great knowledge.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Welcome. Damn the fallout must have been brutal. When you call off a wedding that deep in the special snowflakes behave as if you just murdered their baby. Oh wait…

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Welcome to the forums. I have to admit that I’m curious about the cancelled wedding aftermath. And that’s mostly becuase it’s exactly what I should have done, but didn’t have the b~~~~ to do at the time.

Cheers!

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Your head was in the stocks and the guillotine blade was falling; and yet you escaped with your life. Good job brother! Welcome home.

[Anonymous 42]

And another stallion runs!

Welcome to the open range of MGTOW!

I’m glad you decided to escape before the chains of governmental matrimony had a chance enslaved you!

Great introduction!

All Out WELCOME!

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

WELCOME TO THE FOLD BROADENING EDIFYING EDUCATIONAL INSTRUCTIVE CLARIFYING ELUCIDATIVE EXPLANATORY THIS IS THE PLACE TO BE.

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Welcome! Good for you not going through with the marriage. I am sure you would have regretted it. You had enough sense to realize the meaning of the dream. Not all people have your courage to admit their mistake.

[Lone Wolf83Participant 825]

Welcome to freedom, enjoy your stay brother.

If it has tits or tires, you know you're going to have problems.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Welcome to the brotherhood!, a lot of men do not listen to their gut but you did the right thing and took action. I have dated religious chicks before and they are f~~~ed even more than atheist ones. Welcome brother!

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Welcome home, brother. Good call on not getting married, that’s a bullet dodged. Many men walk right into that trap. Glad you dodged it and glad that you found us.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[All OutParticipant 87]

@Hominid the fallout was not pretty! We owned a house together (big mistake) so we still had to live together following the breakup. I saw the true nature of her comeout which was all about her getting what she “deserves.” Meaning she could not aford a place on her own so I had to support her till she could make arrangements which she sure dragged her feet on making. While refinancing the house which ain’t cheap in a s~~~ty market. Our families were not happy either. I avoided contact at all costs. Though my father supported my decision. I think he understands but would never verbalize it.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

All Out wrote:

I can honestly say I never felt more alone than when I was engaged to get married!

This is a recurring theme around here, and one that certainly was true for me in any relationship I’ve been in.

Glad you were able to keep your house.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Mr. Man wrote:

This is a recurring theme around here, and one that certainly was true for me in any relationship I’ve been in.

Yep, in the last two relations~~~s I had this was the case.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[JVBParticipant]

Welcome brother. Your instincts were 100%

Peace is > piece.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Welcome brother.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[SimpleLifeParticipant 439]

Whew! Close call!

Welcome to the forums and congrats.

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

I was on a flight with my best friend, before i got married, and i said, “should i marry her” “it does not feel right”, he said, “yes marry her”, “she is perfect for you”, s~~~, i married her. I knew it was a mistake. But the blue pill convinced me. Good on your mate. Well done.

Let the good times roll

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Mr. Man wrote:

Welcome to the forums. I have to admit that I’m curious about the cancelled wedding aftermath. And that’s mostly becuase it’s exactly what I should have done, but didn’t have the b~~~~ to do at the time.

Cheers!

Ain’t that the truth. I fantasized about calling it off, right up until I said “I Do”.

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