Former Mangina

[ylab14Participant 15]

Got a divorce from a narcissistic woman. A few years ago I found my voice and pushed back against her narcissistic personality and guess what she was not happy anymore. Married for 17 years and I would say for 14 of those years I was a yes man with no back bone. I played the feminist role. I stayed home with kids for 8 of those years (I would never take those years back as I love my kids very much).

I finally got sick and tired of always having to do everything her way or she would get upset (i.e. walk on eggshells). I pushed back and found my voice again and started doing things for my self again. Well yeah she did not like that as she had to control everything I did and who I talked to. I got an awesome job and I think that made her very scared (oh my god he has a life outside of me me me me). She is a doctor and also has the whole God complex that she does nothing wrong. How I hate doctors and their god like attitudes.

Well low behold my supposed friend became to friendly and she decided to have affair with him because I was not “meeting her needs”. What a asshole friend and wife. Yep, my loyalty to my wife and friend got best of me because I never saw it coming.

I am moving on and feel the best I have in a long time. No more nagging, no more answering questions, no more cowtowing.

This is a great site!

[EntropyParticipant 902]

Thank YOU for joining US!

Cheers!

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Oh man, I felt a shiver up my spine. Some friend you had there…
Well, f~~~ ’em both and Welcome!

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[MyselfParticipant 353]

Welcome @ylab14!

Former mangina here too. Freed myself almost ten years ago. Been learning how to go my own way since, and will continue to learn for the rest of my life. I can tell you, day by day, it gets better and better. You know how to say NO to her. Now starts a lifetime of learning how to say YES to yourself. It’s an epic journey my friend.

Cheers!

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

ylab14, my story is similar to yours, after I found my voice with my xw. It made my head spin at how fast she turned on me. To rechime it though…

John Woods 13 wrote:

I felt a shiver up my spine

ylab14 wrote:

No more nagging, no more answering questions, no more cowtowing.

Myself wrote:

Now starts a lifetime of learning how to say YES to yourself. It’s an epic journey my friend.

Welcome to the party man!

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Glad.you got.off that hell being.a mgtow.is that real.life

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome, and I’m glad you made it! I’ve never been married, but I have had very similar experiences. I think all men who get into relationships do.

ylab14 wrote:

A few years ago I found my voice and pushed back against her narcissistic personality and guess what she was not happy anymore.

My LTRs and STRs were the same way. If I did things their way, they were never pleased. If I didn’t, they went off on me. I decided I preferred the latter, and I got unpopular really fast.

ylab14 wrote:

She is a doctor and also has the whole God complex that she does nothing wrong. How I hate doctors and their god like attitudes.

I am convinced they teach god complex in the first year of medical school.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Welcome to MGTOW brother.

ylab14 wrote:

Well low behold my supposed friend became to friendly and she decided to have affair with him because I was not “meeting her needs”. What a asshole friend and wife. Yep, my loyalty to my wife and friend got best of me because I never saw it coming.

ylab14, you will come to realize just how much your life will become whole now that she is out of your life.

Questionable friends aside, how frequent is it that a woman/wife cheats with a family friend?

It’s almost as though they are saying “You didn’t kowtow to me the way I wanted. You should have. I am a desirable commodity. Here, watch me humiliate you with our family friend that doesn’t have enough dignity and self worth to not succumb to my pussy. Neener, neener, neener.”

It is absolutely amazing how a woman will behave in the most childish ways, and do it with their pussies.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Former Mangina here as well, so welcome to a place where you can get over this horrible horrible disease. Even though I have not completely eradicated it from my system yet, it’s on it’s way out, so come here whenever you need some treatments, the red pill IV feels so nice going in.

Your story mirrored mine in some ways, just not the length of time, or kids. More of the fact that no matter what they want from you, it never stays that way for forever. Mine wanted a hard ass in the beginning (it was a put on my part, I was always a mangina but I wanted to f~~~ her at the time, so I made myself that way), and I turned soft after some time, because she couldn’t handle the opposition from me. I made the mistake of thinking I was the selfish one. Give them what they want and they turn around and want the previous version. But I’m glad you found yourself in the end, and stood up to her s~~~, and got out with your pride. I’m sorry that she did that with a best friend of yours, that’s a very hard pill to swallow, at least you know the truth. I’ve asked my wife countless times to tell me about her little emotional affair with a friend of hers, but she’s too chicken s~~~ to let me know. The only reason I get for her wanting a divorce is, “well you just gave up on your ambitions for mine, and that’s why I’m just not attracted to you anymore”…if I’d actually chased my dreams, she would have never came along with me, goes back to their flip flopping ways. So without them to mess up our dreams and wants, you, me and all the other men here can do whatever the hell we want, when we want, and however we want.

Anyway, I hope to see you around the forums, and please share whatever stories you feel comfortable sharing. It will not only help yourself, but other men here as well. Good luck brother!

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

Nice to meet you, ylab14. I’m quite new to the site myself. My guess is that many (if not most) men start out as eager-to-please manginas until they get beaten over and over until reaching the breaking point. Good to see that you hit your breaking point before it was too late. Keep going strong.

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

ylab14 wrote:

Well low behold my supposed friend became to friendly and she decided to have affair with him because I was not “meeting her needs”.

Welcome Ylab14,
I’ve known too many friendships spoiled by tapping a wife or girlfriend. I’m glad you found your voice, found a job and have your life back to yourself.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Now your friend has to deal with a controlling c~~~, can you say, unhappily ever after? So you stop listening to her and she had affair? What a baby.
not listening to her…….
late 30s, 40 year olds, hate that s~~~.
20 year olds, love it.

Never understood the fascination and the importance of controlling men.

These c~~~s need to realize……..

Love or Power, but you can’t have both.

Welcome to mgtow!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[ylab14Participant 15]

Thanks for the great a welcome. Yes she was a controlling c~~~ in early’s 40’s. I am done with women and their bulls~~~. I am also teaching my 2 daughters not to be like their mother and they are doing great. Plus I do not want any f~~~ing women to f~~~ up the sweet settlement I got for the next 15 years. By then I will be ready to retire with all the money she will have paid me.

[Anonymous 29]

ylab14 wrote:

. She is a doctor

A doctor eh ? I hope she didn’t take you to the cleaner’s. She should be earning enough on her own.

Glad you made it here. Welcome.

[Tex41Participant 45]

Welcome ylab14!

You have found a truly great place full of wisdom. Soak it up, let it absorb, and find your peace.

So, did I read that right? Your ex is a doctor and you got custody of both daughters and the ex is paying you?? That’s very much a blessing.

Welcome to the brotherhood, my friend.

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