Former bluepilled single dad. Finally going my own way.

[RobParticipant 80]

Hello, and a Happy Thanksgiving to you all.

My name is Rob, and I am a 30 something single father, working in the STEM field.

Like many on here, I used to be quite bluepilled. Did the whole chasing chicks through college, eventually settled down and got married. From the get go, my ex was your typical hypergamous woman, clearly only after me for my money since I work in a fairly stable job. Made me pay upwards of 60k for the wedding (i know. Thinking about it still hurts).

Once we were married a couple years, she gave birth to our daughter. Things were ok, I worked hard every day while she stayed at home caring for our kid. Or so I thought. I slowly came to realize she was chasing guys behind my back, bringing them back to my house while I was at work. She’d do all this while our daughter was right there at home with them. I was so clueless for so many years.

Finally found out because lets face it, women like that are always careless. Promptly served her the divorce papers, got full custody of my daughter (she was determined an unfit mother for many reasons I won’t get into here).

I spiraled for a few years, thinking it was all my fault. Got into alcohol, barely kept my job, everything was going wrong. Wondered what I did wrong to make her want to leave me. Finally found the MGTOW community on Reddit that slowly opened my eyes. Was never my fault in the first place.

I guess that really helped me to take the red pill, and my life has not been the same since.

Joined this community because I have learned so much, and looking forward to learning more. Finally after so many years, I am going my own way and leaving women for good. They bring nothing but misery.

Still getting a feel for this site, very excited to be part of this proud brotherhood!

Sorry for making this so long. Ill end this now and keep on reading all these posts. If anyone has any tips or suggestions, feel free to message. Still on my MGTOW journey so any help would be appreciated. Im sure you guys all know how hard it can be, after being bluepilled for so many years.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hello and good evening Rob! Thank you for writing, joining and making an intro. Not too long at all. Very easy to read. A pleasure to welcome you. Please join in whenever you’re inspired.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 7]

Hello and welcome home.
You are home BTW.

I have not gone through your pain but others have.
Rejoice and be happy.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome bro !!!

[ShineParticipant 1696]

Welcome Rob.

As a 40 something never been married or had kids, it’s the never ending stories like your one from good men who got screwed over time and time again. Reminds me the grass isn’t greener and to stay away from the rigged dating game.

I’ve been GMOW for about 7 years, but this lifestyle was already well ingrained in me.

Enjoy your visits here, post up your thoughts and live life to the fullest!

"Society is to blame" Denton

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2145]

Welcome home.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome bro . Lol

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[MasterShakeParticipant 184]

Welcome brother!

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Great story! Fantastic work getting custody of your daughter. Fathers should always be default custodians, but sadly our system works on the opposite principle. Also, nice job being the one to give her the boot. Most manginas would continue trying to “make it work” after that, either because they’re too cucked, or because they’re under the delusion that it’s in the “best interests of the child” to remain in a two-parent household, even when the wife is openly cheating and setting a terrible example to the kid.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Hello Rob,

Appreciate your Introduction.

Your Red Pills and lessons learned are too familiar.

It is good to read how you eventually landed on your feet and ended up as a free man on the MGTOW Road.

Rob wrote:

..Sorry for making this so long…………

You can write as much as you want in your Introduction.

A good Introduction includes descriptions of Red Pills, lessons learned, and something about your actions as a free men. The goal is for the newcomer to establish his Bonafides as a free man, MGTOW.

Nevertheless, there are actions that men do that set us apart from women, especially what we do in our “Free Time.”

Whenever I travel the USA, I will find likeminded men at the local Hardware, Auto Parts, and Firearms stores. Today, these masculine men proudly show pictures on their phones that describes the progress of their latest projects.

Here is an example of what you can see in my phone these days:

Rob wrote:

…….any help would be appreciated…..

Without giving away specifics where others can identify you, kindly provide some niceties about what you are doing with your freedom.

Hobbies?

What kind of fun things do you do?

General description of any other Training?

Work/ Living Situation?

Parts of the world you have lived (continents)?

Any future projects/ goals?

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Dark Ninja DaveParticipant 273]

Hey man, welcome!

Thanks for the intro – I can relate a lot to your history, I also am a divorced single dad. There’s a few of us that have arrived here after making a few costly mistakes along the way. Gotta learn from those mistakes and not keep making them.

Striking the first blow with the divorce was a wise move, congratulations on that! They never expect this, they’ll be strategically planning to hit you at the time where maximum profit is on offer, so you can get in first…

What you read here, takes all the chaotic nonsense we experience and clearly establishes the patterns: that women are out to ruin as much as possible.

Cheers

[DocParticipant]

Welcome Rob.
Good move regards Avatar. 👍

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[ATLANTISParticipant 119]

G’day mate!

Remember, don’t say sorry when you’ve done nothin’ wrong (your post wasn’t long but if it were who the f~~~ cares).

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome Rob, I’m pretty sure that you will fit in no problem. Good intro.

Rob wrote:

Joined this community because I have learned so much, and looking forward to learning more. Finally after so many years, I am going my own way and leaving women for good. They bring nothing but misery.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[RobParticipant 80]

Thanks all for the welcome. Realized I shouldn’t have apologized for the length of my intro. Spent way to many years apologizing to the woman for everything. Anything I did that she didnt like meant hours of nagging. Still a habit I need to break. Thanks for pointing that out.

The Manipulated Man wrote:

Without giving away specifics where others can identify you, kindly provide some niceties about what you are doing with your freedom.

Hobbies?

What kind of fun things do you do?

General description of any other Training?

Work/ Living Situation?

Parts of the world you have lived (continents)?

Any future projects/ goals?

I spend most of my time outdoors. Hiking, jogging, recently got into climbing. Used to do cross country way back in high school so always found spending a few hours in the woods really clears my head.

I live close to the Appalachians and spent a week this past summer backpacking there with a couple college buddies. Let me tell you, the feeling you get all alone out there, just you and nature, nothing but the sky above you. Nothing comes close to that. Hoping that next summer I can take a month or so off work and see how far up the range I can get.

Also really into kayaking and boating. A great workout, and nothing beats taking the boat out crack of dawn to fish.

As for other training, I’ve gotten into lifting this past year. Not nearly regular enough, since I work 10 hrs a day, but slowly seeing some progress. I was a real scrawny kid growing up, and really struggled because of it (sure many of you are familiar with that). Good work friends been giving me help in that regard, and the results i tell you have ben addicting. Nothing like living your whole life thinking you’re stuck a certain way only to finally realize that Yes, I can actually be that person I never thought was attainable. The ex always made me feel that my body size was just who i am and that it was an inherent character flaw. Now I get to prove to her and more importantly to myself that she was wrong. Only wish I had realized sooner.

Work/living situation- I work at a mid size engineering company. That’s all Ill say with regard to that don’t want to give away too much. Live in the same town I grew up in, small condo just me and the kid. Close to my parents and brother so were always around if anyone needs.

Haven’t been outside the continental US, but hope that with more money saved up, I can start traveling. Maybe in a couple years. A bit hard with a kid, but this upcoming Spring, Im planning on taking her to Disney World with my brother and his family. I’d love to see the world some day. Maybe go on a hike in the Alps. Or Patagonia. Best thing about GMOW is that these are all actually possible now.

[Anonymous 3]

Great intro! Thank you for posting & I hope you continue to participate.
MGTOW is the future
And the future is NOW

[AttonParticipant]

Sounds like thing went rather well in the end.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Rob…

Nothing to apologize for, and good intro btw.

Your story of how you came here is all too similar. Thank heavens you kicked that treacherous whoooore out of your life.

You have come to the right place. In time, you will realize that women serve no purpose in your life. You will not rely on them, compromise yourself for them, basically give ZERO fks about them.

I promise you one thing… if you stay on the path you have started and this this thru to the end, you will feel an inner peace unlike any other. I have felt it for well over 6 months now.

I look forward to hearing more from you.

[Tim941Participant 68]

Welcome, Rob. Thanks for sharing your story. It’s revealing and introduces a good number of subjects worth expanding on. Your wife was f~~~ing other guys in your home with your daughter there while you were at work earning the money to pay for her private brothel? We need that report to be running in the news cycle these days with this annoying drone of “inappropriate sexual behavior in the workplace.” Here’s something inappropriate in the workplace: high-heeled shoes. The heel is phallic. Period. The click and clack of heels in the workplace is the sound of “come f~~~ me.” And look at female workplace dress and how often it is sexually provocative. Notice how when a female reporter has to wear a head scarf when in an Islamic area and how the head scarf takes away from the female allure. Hmm.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Rob wrote:

I spiraled for a few years, thinking it was all my fault. Got into alcohol, barely kept my job, everything was going wrong. Wondered what I did wrong to make her want to leave me. Finally found the MGTOW community on Reddit that slowly opened my eyes. Was never my fault in the first place.

My first wife pulled the same s~~~.
Bringing guys over to the home right in front of the kids while I was working. Taking the blame for her behavior is programming they put on you from the get go. If she is not happy or misbehaving they (society and woman) are quick to tell you it’s the man’s fault. MGTOW calls bulls~~~ on that.
Welcome Brother.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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