For unmarried men –

[~BSParticipant 3266]

Have married men/men with kids told you that you’re smart/lucky/fortunate for never getting married or having kids?

For me personally, the topic seems to come up when meeting and talking to “the guys”. Usually the married men tell me I’m lucky I never got married. Regarding kids, it’s always “I love my kids, but….”

I actually find it to be a very good sign that other men are willing to share their feelings honestly about the subject, and not push others into the same boat. Misery loves company kinda deal.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[Anonymous 18]

May be the guys are your true friends.

In my experience most men want me to partake in their miserable experience.

No thanks.

Misery loves company though.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

~BS wrote:

Usually the married men tell me I’m lucky I never got married. Regarding kids, it’s always “I love my kids, but….”

Just remember that this comes from the 50% of men who are not divorced. It really makes you wonder just what percentage of men that walk down the isle end up happily married.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 42]

~BS wrote:

Have married men/men with kids told you that you’re smart/lucky/fortunate for never getting married or having kids?

Hey ~BS, for as long as I can remember I’ve heard it directly or muddled, every place I ever worked the married guys told me how free and lucky I was to be able to do whatever the f~~~ I want. I took heed to their advice, the honesty and suffering could be heard in their voices and seen on their faces. Marriage always spooked me since Sunny and Chair got divorced, HOLLYWOOD TRIGGERED ME!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

Marriage always spooked me since Sunny and Chair got divorced, HOLLYWOOD TRIGGERED ME!

One verse of “I got you babe” and my dick shrivels to an acorn.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 42]

FrostByte wrote:

MGTOW wrote:

Marriage always spooked me since Sunny and Chair got divorced, HOLLYWOOD TRIGGERED ME!

One verse of “I got you babe” and my dick shrivels to an acorn.

ME TOO!

[~BSParticipant 3266]

Anonymous wrote:

May be the guys are your true friends.

In my experience most men want me to partake in their miserable experience.

No thanks.

Misery loves company though.

Damn… I guess everyone’s situation is different, but even men that I’m only acquainted with tell me the same. Of course this is assuming they’re nowhere near their wife, kids, or others that might tattle on him. If around these people, they will either deflect or give the politically correct answer

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[Honorable_Juice_BoxParticipant 591]

In the past when I worked retail I remember numerous male customers telling me to never get married. Come to think of it, most of these occurrences happened when I was at the paint desk (I worked mostly hardware stores), with the couple arguing over colors or the man returning a paint color that the wife was not happy with.

[Anonymous 3]

Married women have told me not to get married because marriage is slavery. They told me only get married if I have a kid.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Misery loves company, so married people will always be trying to convince unmarried people to get married. People are bought up to think that you need to be married with 2.4 children and a mortgage to be happy, so are shocked when they get there and realise they have been lied to. People also want their life choices validated by others, so unmarried people scare them as it makes them think they made the wrong choices in life.

I am divorced with two children and met a married couple for the first time who didn’t know this. The wife was a complete baby pusher and handed the kid to the girl I was with saying “So when are you two going to get married and have some?”. Because the girl I was with has no experience of children, the kid struggled so I took him, placed him in my arm and just carried on the conversation.

The wife of the couple was shocked so I explained I had two of my own. At that point you could tell she knew I knew exactly how s~~~ being married and having kids is, which was completely the opposite of what she hoped would happen. Far from giving her some validation I was actually confirming her fears that having children and being married sucks big time.

No unmarried man listens as he always thinks “She’s different, she loves me” but honestly stay single, build assets and money and never let a woman live with you let along marry one.

Honestly, you have a 50% chance of being divorced raped and a 50% chance of living with a woman who makes every day a living hell. There is no happiness and although it is incredibly expensive a few years after your divorce you will realise that was the lesser of two evils.

Seriously, no not do it.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Anonymous 54]

NEVER GET MARRIED

HEED MY WARNING

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

Those who do get married end up remorseful but they always excuse it with the phrase ‘that’s just life’ which is so full of s~~~. I don’t plan on getting married as it will interfere with my sex life and resources. I don’t need marriage to raise a family there’s always surrogacy for that but it’s up to me to decide in the long run if it’s even worth raising a new born in this f~~~ed up world especially when we’re living in troubled times.

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[TwistParticipant]

Don’t get married

Next

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

Don’t get married unless you have much to lose.

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[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

The wife of the couple was shocked so I explained I had two of my own. At that point you could tell she knew I knew exactly how s~~~ being married and having kids is, which was completely the opposite of what she hoped would happen. Far from giving her some validation I was actually confirming her fears that having children and being married sucks big time.

I experienced this not too long ago.

I was chatting with a couple of the older hen’s at work. Of course, they believed that it was their prerogative to pry into my private life. They asked me if I am married and had children; as I am a good catch. I replied “no”. (In reality I am divorced without children.)

They then proceed to tell me how great marriage and children are. I let them prattle on for a time and then I stated “I was married once, for a very short time, and never will again.” You should have seen the deflated look on their collective faces. The closest analogy I can think of is when you try and perpetuate the myth of Santa to a small child, only to have the child exclaim “I don’t believe in Santa.” They quickly changed the subject, made excuses, and departed. Biggest scam going. Men tend to be more honest, women want you on the plantation – either theirs or another as you can’t have the slaves talking.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[experiencedParticipant]

Manginas/blue pill: Get yourself a Duesenberg, they’re a great car!

MGTOW: The Duesenberg era was over a long time ago.

Who do you listen too?

“a Duesenberg…” = married, it’s a great life!

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

Joey Alfio wrote:

Don’t get married unless you haven’t much to lose.

I think that’s what you meant.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 0]

I’ll never get married or let one live with me. Never having childeren either. Seems all very counter productive to me. Besides, as twisted and vile as women are, there is no force on earth that could make me want to have my life so heavily involved with such a wrech of a creature.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Was working with a different group of guys at work today I don’t usually work with, and they started sharing their divorce stories. It was sickening how much money it cost them. One dude hate the ex so much his divorce took three years to finalize and he was happy in the end they literally p~~~ed everything away on lawyers because it was the only way he could get away without having to give her anything…just give it all to the lawyers instead. She remarried a week after the divorce was finalized lol. Another lost half of his military pension, the house, and half his 401k. Lucky for him in his 40s he landed a job on the civilian side probably making 4x what he was in the military and his ex can’t touch it.

The best though was the guy who said his wife has been going out of her way to be a nasty c~~~ and constantly holding the threat of divorce over his head for the last two years, and he finally went to the lawyer and filed for the divorce himself. She threw a fit about it, and he said he told her wtf do you want me to do, live my life listening to you blame all your problems on me and say you want a divorce while I keep saving for retirement for us while you don’t contributing anything just so you can divorce me 5-10 years down the road and take half? I’d rather just cut my losses now…half is going to be less than it will be in the future, and I’ll have more time to rebuild.

Guys like this don’t have to tell you to never get married…just listening to their stories convinces you not to long before they utter the words.

[WallyParticipant]

This discussion seems to reaffirm my theory that the divorce rate is higher that 50%. Don’t get married everyone regrets it!

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

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