"For the record"

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Workhard wrote:

She still lives at home with her parents.

And a ray of truth emerges from the shadows. What if: Her folks want her out of the house and the new chad doesn’t want to take her in? That would explain her “falling back” on old reliable. Just a theory.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Women are lily pad jumpers, a man is a job to a women its their biggest source or revenue, sure they could work sure they can get equal pay ?

But why would they do that ? for a few years if they earn big money it puts them in the bigger money league when searching for a “Job = Man ” her day job is putting herself on show, her job is landing a man .. he needs enough so when she jumps ship she gets a letter win.

Employment advice says ‘Do not leave one job until you have another” Thats why women never leave a man unless they have another, we need food and housing ever day.

Men are jobs to women no more no less.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Your answer should be:
“I’m CONFUSED, who is this again? You must have the wrong number.”

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Stargazer wrote:

Avoid her like she was a 300lb stage diver… simply step aside and let her go splat.

Laughed out loud man, good one

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Workhard wrote:

I wonder why she sent that text and nothing else. I almost assumed she would send a follow up, like “are you seeing anyone”,

That was her way of asking for an “in” back with you. She won’t come out and say it outright, because women are incapable of handling rejection. But she was hoping you’d ask to see her again, or to talk to her etc.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Time to really start Going Your Own Way……

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

I hear all of you men, I’ve pretty much been going my own way my whole life, sure I succumbed to a lot of her wishes during the dating years, but I never could bring myself to the commitment of marriage, something in me always just knew it would be a disastrous mistake.
@ Redpillbible, haha no bro, I just got tied up yesterday evening, I haven’t been talking to her, I have more important s~~~ to do. Thanks for all the suggestions guys, relationships are a game I’m just no longer willing to play.

[narwhalParticipant]

Workhard wrote:

“for the record I wanted to apologize for being such a harsh bitch a couple month’s ago (when she left me for Mr. better). I kinda went wild and crazy and was confused and just needed a fresh start and something new to be happy about since I had been unhappy for so long.”

That’s not an apology. An apology more then just words. She’s not displaying any regret for her behavior. She’s not proposing any restitution for the damage done. She’s not making a commitment to never repeat the behavior. All that is doing is trying to justify her own behavior as acceptable, to ease her own guilt.

It’s a common ploy these days. Make a half-hearted apology when you’re feeling guilty. If accepted, then you have no reason to feel guilty anymore If the apology is rejected, then you can then claim victim because you’re the mean guy who won’t forgive….even though she isn’t really apologizing. Either way, she doesn’t have to deal with guilt anymore.

I used to just ignore ‘apologies’ like this. Lately, I ask them to be more specific. What exactly are you apologizing for? You want me to forgive you for what reason? Are you saying you would have handled it differently? What do you wish you had done instead? Are you planning on making it up to me or is this apology supposed to make us even? They just get p~~~ed off and never want to speak to me again. They are probably convinced I’m an asshole, but what the hell do I care? I get to verify that the apology is fake and further reinforce my outlook on these situations.

Ok. Then do it.

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