For never married MGTOW's

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

FullMetalExo wrote:

ScarberianMGTOW wrote:

I certainly hate visiting my(somewhat) local amusement park all the time,

Now THAT I want to add to my “To Do” List ! Sounds great, unfortunately I don’t have anything near me like that.

Now, when I say ‘local amusement park’, by ‘local’ I mean it’s an hour and a half by bus from where I live. Sucks but it could be worse.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[DirtBikeManParticipant 535]

I am 51. Never married, no kids, dated off and on for many years. During my college years, I thought that someday I would find a woman, marry, and have kids. It was always someday, some date in the future, lots of time. The years passed and the traditional path became less and less of a reality. My father, a traditional man, said to me, “If you wait to long, you will never marry, you will become to set in your ways” He was right. And as I look around at the world we now live in, I think, thankfully I stayed single. My life is fulfilling, happy and filled with freedom. In fact, my life is all about freedom. I’m no Peter Pan, I am living a responsible life, with a job, a house that is paid off, and a retirement account that is funded and growing, and hopefully will be waiting for me in retirement in 9 years. I’m all about my hobbies, my friends, my family, and my freedom. I do what I want, when I want, with who I want. Life is good riding my dirt-bike with my crew of friends, bass fishing, and camping in the mountains. Am I lonely, No. I sometimes wish I had a kid, but also don’t really want the burden. I learned eventually that parenthood is rarely as fulfilling as it is portrayed, children seldom turn out the way you were hoping. I observe that children are often a disappointment. Yes I know, there are no guarantees in this world. Oh and get a vasectomy, that has been a life changer for me, my early retirement is now secure. So do it, Go Your Own Way.

The most important thing you can do is ask yourself, what do I really want out of life. Really think about it, and always be true to yourself. Then Do it.

[AttonParticipant]

Not an older guy but for me it was a distaste of bigotry, sexism and chauvinism. That and my grand mothers blood allowed for me to develop strong impulse control.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[OldBillParticipant]

What has never marrying meant for me? Everything.

How, when, where I’ve worked. How, when, where, I’ve lived. How, when, where I’ve done anything. All of it would be changed out of recognition if I’d married and changed for the worse.

With a wife, I would have started out as a drone and ended up as a divorced drone. With a wife, I would have got a job at a nuclear plant after the Navy because it was dependable and then among the thousands of men chasing fewer and fewer jobs as the plants shut down. With a wife, I could never wait for a better contract to come along and instead would have to take the first one.

With a wife, I never would have taken 6 months off in ’93 and traveled through Europe. With a wife, I never would have built a power plant in New Guinea, lived in Korea, worked in Portugal, consulted in South Africa, or step foot on every continent except Antarctica.

With a wife, I could never spend a Saturday working as an apprentice to a blacksmith. With a wife, I could never wake up and drive to Cleveland from New England one weekend because I wanted to see the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame. With a wife, I could never spend a week crewing aboard a working windjammer along the coast of Maine.

With a wife, I’d have an ex-wife, ex-kids, ex-house, ex-cars, ex-dog, and ex-life.

With a wife, I either be dead or wish I were.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[K1W1007Participant 19]

I’m 43, never been married. I grew up in a large family where my folks and most of my uncles and aunts were divorced by the time I was a teenager, so I saw first hand what bulls~~~ marriage is. Even though I’m only 43 half my friends from school are already divorced! I tried to settle down a few times but thankfully it never took. There ate a few MGTOW in my family, not many though. Most of my cousins etc are bluepill cucks. My friend from school is getting married again, hes only 44! My kid brother is getting married next year he’s 26, but these guys are so blue pill they don’t even know what they’re doing. Im travelling to Thailand in a month to f~~~ my socks off in Pattaya haha, life is good! MGTOW for life!

[Shrouded MonkParticipant 78]

Vector wrote:

Please discuss your stories and how much you are enjoying life and/or enjoyed your youth making the conscious decision NOT to get married and have kids. Finances, loneliness, societal pressures,

I’m in my late 30’s and got out of a 6-year relationship. For two and a half years I’ve been monk and loving it. I wake up and go to bed when I want. I get to watch whatever I want and eat what I want. I workout and look after myself a lot more.
I discovered MGTOW 6 months ago, and I have gone through many changes. For one, I no longer have the urge to see concerts. Worshipping someone on stage is not what I do anymore. I’ve saved quite a bit of money by no longer depending on some band for my entertainment. I’m also anti-NWO and have stopped watching all TV and movies which program the masses into their agendas.
I’m free of everything. My life is simple, and I am happy and grateful. It’s fun to go out with friends or just stay home and stoned and drunk with no cares in the world. I am never lonely. Being lonely means you still need a controller/handler. When the need for women ceases, loneliness ceases. I get some pressure from friends, family, and coworkers to get back into a relationship but once the MGTOW philosophy sinks in, all of these pressures cease too. If anything I pressure them into going MGTOW.
I live an unapologetic life. MGTOW has taught me to be a man and NEVER cuck or bend to some f~~~in’ woman.

Women. Parasitic trophies. Nothing more. Walk alone and walk proud. A wolverine always on the move, looking for more.

[IntellectualSaviorParticipant 1238]

Since I’m 20, I can’t say much but I could never accept the fact of any woman coming up to me when I have success and acting like she loves me dearly no matter what even though it was me who fought for the dreams and success.

I’m not willing to share what I’ve earnt through hard work and dedication. Every night that I dedicated to success was a failure at becoming the “fun guy” the “party guy” the guy to hang around with. So if they don’t care about the dedication but only want the success that comes with it, no thanks, I’m happy with the way I live, every time I go to gym and start banging weights I’m a newborn man. Need no woman to cook or do my laundry, I already do it better than them anyways.

When I have a pen in my hands, it's lethal.

[freedomParticipant 5129]

Vector wrote:

Guys, this post is for the never married MGTOW’s without kids. Please discuss your stories and how much you are enjoying life and/or enjoyed your youth making the conscious decision NOT to get married and have kids. Finances, loneliness, societal pressures, living alone and the liberation that it brings, regret, happiness, stress or not, health etc. I’m 36 years old, employed, living alone and enjoying it very much. I’ll only do friends with benefits or f~~~ buddy type of thing, no relationships. I’m curious to hear the perspectives of older MGTOW’s and how their emotional state of well being and overall happiness and health has resulted from unplugging from the Matrix.

Hi Bro,

I am 31, living alone and I was never close to proposing to a woman.
I do have to admit that I have wasted many resources for getting women to like me and maybe one day want to live with me.

First – my parents used to have 2 apartments, one next to the other and I used to live in one of them, in order to save some money so I would be able to afford my own house quickly.
Living there was not much of a problem for me, it was separated from my folks, I saved ton of money and was basically happy with life.

Then, at the age of 28, came the blue pill madness, I wanted to meet my other half and I was super obsessed over it. I eventually decided that living near my parents and not having my own rent payed place makes women mock me and not wanting to be with me.

well, of course, I was right, I then moved to a 2.5 bedrooms apartment, which cost me a 1/4 my salary which kinda sucks, considering it all went to my bank account before. Women started to show real interest in me, one in particular but then decided to go to her ex because he is an Engineer at google and I was an Engineer at a small company.

I got filled with rage and later on had few other women messing my mind until I’ve taken the red pill few months ago and realized that things are not as bad as I make them.
I have my freedom to do whatever I want, I earn an honest living, so why would I jepordized half my stuff for marriage with some selfish woman ?

For 5 years I was working my ass off, so why would I have someone else enjoying my hard working money, I am the one who needs to enjoy it and my family. Anyway, lately I am very focused in my career, in finding hobbies and reading, I even got dumped by some c~~~ who got mad that I don’t spend time on the phone with her because I’ve decided to my job first, putting myself first.

I don’t hate women, I have nieces and sisters, mom who I love dearly, but I believe only a few percentage of the female population is raised the way women in my family are raised, to work hard, for education and being a decent person.
I’m not saying it because they are my family, but it’s true, my sister is a big shot executive and pretty and she is married to a guy who earns 5,000$ less than her, but where you can you find a woman like that? even when you do, you can’t be sure if there isn’t an hidden agenda.

So I decided to not take risks anymore, and enjoy life without having to prove myself to some c~~~ who barely graduated from high school, I’m an intelligent person who speaks more than one language fluently and scored nearly 90/100 college, so who needs to dumb bimbo grabing all the spoils from my life endeavor?

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

My life is so much easier and less stressful. If only I could unc~~~ from the bitches at work.

[VectorParticipant 178]

Excellent replies. I read every one in detail. Appreciate the honesty, men.

Agreed.

[Anonymous 12]

Pics are better than Words
what was a decrepit room – stuffed full of old memories and things i could not let go of, about 30 plastic bags worth of bulls~~~…
has been cleared, & is slowly but surely turning into my favorite spot in the apartment.

Living room = XXL bedroom with balcony
Sleeping room = beginning of Gaming room.

Hardware and Software in Picture… about 3000 Yuros.

With a woman and Kids…?
never.

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Pics are better than Words
what was a decrepit room – stuffed full of old memories and things i could not let go of, about 30 plastic bags worth of bulls~~~…
has been cleared, & is slowly but surely turning into my favorite spot in the apartment.

Living room = XXL bedroom with balcony
Sleeping room = beginning of Gaming room.

Hardware and Software in Picture… about 3000 Yuros.

With a woman and Kids…?
never.

I Love it. Right now I want to get my finances more secure so that I can easily get a house of my liking. Once that happens, I’m turning at least one particular room into my project. A computer set up is a must, and I’ll probably do something similar to what you’ve done. Marriage is off the table for me, so I can do just about anything else.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

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