Im kinda bored so I decided to share a story from yesterday… I ll make it as short as possible.
2.5 years ago very attractive girl got my number (from one of my friends girlfriend who was a friend of hers) and started texting me on daily basis
At that time I was 25, pretty inexperienced with girls (never had a serious relationship before, because I was busy, picky not confident and just didn’t make an effort), many girls showed interest but you know how it is – the one who likes you, you usually don’t find attractive. However this time was different. A very hot girl (22) showed a lot of interest in me, initiated everything and soon we went on couple of dates.
Things went well on dates, having fun, making out, holding hands…. etc, until one day everything stopped and she went all cold on me.
I already caught feelings and I went full beta or should i say I went full retard… asking her whats wrong, whats happening… until I figured out she was out of 4 years relationship with a guy who treated her like a dirt because he found out he was a rebound and she used him when she was getting over her 1st bf. So when they start dating she was cheating on him with her first bf but things didn’t work out and they stayed together with this guy who slowly turned from rebound to the real bf. So she saw him when we were together partying and im pretty sure she knew he was going to be there… after that she acted towards me like im a Hitler and she is a Jew…
I made it very clear that I do not want any more contact from her as long as she is still pinning after her ex, I called her out on her BS, told her that she used me, and that you do not threat someone like that. She got angry telling me how she didn’t fall in love with me, how you cant force love and that if I was better then her ex who was neglecting her (reasons they broke up) she would forget about him. She basically told me I was not good enough! Reality was that I was too f~~~ing good. i was devastated, even blaming myself for some mistakes that i made. i thought i f~~~ed up my chances with a very hot gf who was so into me just a day before! I also had some other problems in my life that time and I felt like s~~~ for couple of weeks because of her and everything else.
So fast forward, after that she still didn’t leave me alone, sending me messages on FB, going out with my group of friends (since she was a friend of my fiends gf) and continue to be in my circle of friends even though she had no desire to be with me, and was never part of the group before we started dating. Things like that continue and I was completely ignoring her, but was hurting inside.
When she was drunk she was texting me on phone, FB etc… didn’t want anything to do with me but wanted to have my attention I guess. I told her i m not going to be her ego buster and blocked her on FB and deleted her number. Till this day she is the first and so far the only person I blocked on FB because s~~~ like that never ended.
So that was 2.5 years ago. Now I see her like 2, 3 times a year, and we never even say HI to each other. NC for the whole time!
Recently I found out (from a mutual friend) that she is dating her ex bf (again) – the one who was better then me, for the last year or so…
So yesterday I got a message on my phone. The number was unknown. It said something like that: ‘ Hi, today I saw you after quite a while. 🙂 How are you?’ I was thinking hard who saw me that day and after a while I remembered that she drove past my home when I just went out and saw me… my mind was blown. What the f~~~ was all I was thinking… She saw me afternoon and texted me at 11 pm. What was the purpose of this? To see if im steel crazy about her? Wanted validation? Broke up with her ex again and thought of me to take advantage of me again? maybe she found out Im single again? Mind is blown…
All I did was delete the text and the number. NC! She can go f~~~ herself for all I care. Fool me once – shame on you, fool me twice shame one me… Stupid c~~~.
treznik87 4 years, 3 months ago.
