Flagrant c~~~s are amusing.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Well I’ve given a great deal of thought to this. When I worked for the DoD one of the things I used to do was teach management courses, and I used to tell managers you get the behavior that you reward. And this is true of everyone to some degree.

So in your case it is clear that somehow/someway the behavior of this woman has been rewarded in the past. She must get something out of it. I don’t buy into the “it was a blue-pill trap to get you interested in her”. No I think something far more malevolent is going on.

The nature of evil is to derive pleasure from the pain and suffering of others. Its entirely possible that the “utility” or reward she has gained in the past from this kind of behavior is joy derived from inflicting emotional suffering on others. It could really be that simple. You of course denied her that reward and you had the temerity to challenge her “authority” to inflict suffering.

I suspect and anticipate a counter-attack; but something stealthy and anonymous, and of course supported by a lie. She will need to enlist others to do her dirty work–apartment managers, police, other minor officials may be inundated with streams of wild complaints.

I would never under any circumstances be alone with her. (I handled a case years ago at a VA where a woman claimed a guy assaulted her. He of course id not, but there were no witness’s and when she had him alone she actually tore open her own clothing and began screaming for help. the poor guy is just standing there watching. Of course he was arrested and railroaded out of his job and fired. I got this case because he appealed to the MSPB—and as the Agency rep I deliberately declined to answer, in essence forfeiting the case so the guy won and got his job back and guess who filed an EEO against me for “losing” the case on purpose? Yup the crazy woman.)

Food for thought. Glad you like machinations.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

PistolPete wrote:

So in your case it is clear that somehow/someway the behavior of this woman has been rewarded in the past. She must get something out of it. I don’t buy into the “it was a blue-pill trap to get you interested in her”. No I think something far more malevolent is going on.

Agree. ( She has used it before. )

TBA for sure. Thanks very much.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Just act like you don’t recognize or remember them. It utterly infuriates them and they have no way of dealing with it.

: “AVOIDING ME ARE YOU? I SAW THAT??”
: “Excuse me, do I know you?”

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

KM for your own safety and freedom I do hope you actually avoid her (like the plague she is) in the future.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[KeymasterKeymaster]

sidecar wrote:

“Excuse me, do I know you?”

^ That would work great here.

….. or perhaps even “Do you know who I am?”

She has never once greeted me by name. So I can’t help but wonder: Why CARE at all if I cross the street to avoid her?… and why project her insecurities across the street at 8AM to a person whos’ NAME she can’t even remember?

I mentioned this all to a close friend yesterday. He thinks she was attempting to “flirt” and just sucked at it. He recommended asking her directly “what do you want from me?”.

I told him I don’t give a s~~~ what she wants.
Have ZERO tolerance for bitches.

Back in Black wrote:

KM for your own safety and freedom I do hope you actually avoid her (like the plague she is) in the future.

And satisfy her, so she can say “AHA!!! I KNEW IT!! YOU’RE AVOIDING ME!!!”

Nah. I am the drop of soap, and she is the greasy dishwater. She can avoid me if she knows what’s good for her. She is merely invisible now.

I also have a voice recording app ready on my phone that will be on next time she is in my vicinity. You know, to “ensure quality customer service”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Keymaster wrote:

I also have a voice recording app ready on my phone that will be on next time she is in my vicinity. You know, to “ensure quality customer service”.

My blessings are with you KM.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Keymaster wrote:

^ That would work great here.

It works on a number of levels. First it shows her she’s made zero impression on you, which spanks her ego. Second it lets her know you have no space for her even in your own head, zero f~~~s given, which cuts right to the heart of her innate fear of abandonment. Third it forces her to dredge up her past misbehavior if she at all wants a chance at reminding you of who she is.

Whatever reward she was hoping for from being a bitch if pulled right out from under her leaving her unhappy and with no way of dealing with it. That unresolvable negative conditioning should teach her to avoid you (assuming she has the wits for even pavlovian conditioning).

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