First Time Poster But Long Time Lurker

[Anonymous 3]

Good Afternoon,

I have been reading this site quite a bit after getting out of a 10 month relationship or s~~~ with this 300lb landwhale I met on Plenty of Fish. (I don’t know if I was a blue-piller before finding out about MGTOW but I definitely made all the blue-pill mistakes such as trying to please women too much. I had never heard of the MGTOW slang until four months ago.) This girl had a nice personality and a pretty face but was over 300lbs when I met her. I am naïve sometimes and thought I could help her lose weight and she would look more attractive. (I really love bodybuilding and know a bit about it.) She would even lift with me pretty regularly but she would eat like it was Armageddon or something.

She also had a heap of student loan, credit card, and medical debt too. My dumbass even paid $4000 to by back the pawned title too her car for her. (To be fair, she had some medical issues that weren’t her fault.)

I stumbled upon this site and MGTOW after searching for answers because I knew my relationship wouldn’t be going anywhere. I knew I didn’t want kids or want to be married because I was well aware of the unfairness a marriage contract brings for a man. I cohabitated with this girl for 10 months and she was ready to marry me pretty soon. (I’d say maybe 2 months after our first date.) The cohabitation with a woman was one of the biggest mistakes I could of ever made.

When it came time to break up with this girl, I left for about a week to give her time to move. (I really just didn’t want to be around her after we broke up and be accused of rape or something malicious.) I gave her $3000 to help her with “moving expenses” even though I knew it wouldn’t cost that much. (My main goal was just to get her out of the house.) I had a locksmith friend of mine rekey the locks as soon as she was gone. The last night she was out of the house I went and hung out with my brother. She called the cops the following morning at like 2:00am to pick up some documents she conveniently left over there. (My car was still there but I was at my brother’s house.) Heaven knows what story she told to the cops but it backfired as I was not there. Long story short, my parents came and let her into the house to pick up her documents. (They live pretty close to me.)

We have been broken up for 4 months now and I can say that I don’t ever want to be in a relationship with a woman long-term ever. I don’t tell anyone this either. I wouldn’t mind participating in the “oil-change” dating once in a while. To be honest, I just wish prostitution was legal so I could pick out what I want once in a while and have her leave.

I don’t want any kids of any kind as I just see them as a burden and nothing more.I have recently got a vasectomy and will get a follow-up appointment in 3 months.

I would like to thank all of the members here for posting new content for reading and all the new stories that helps me reaffirm my thoughts about red pill mindsets. I do realize with the cohabitation and the break-up with this girl, I got extremely lucky that nothing bad has happened yet. I still have this looming fear that she may try to trap me with a “fake pregnancy” or some other bulls~~~. Hopefully she will have a great lift though as I still don’t hate her but know that she wasn’t right for me. I don’t think any woman is right for me in this day in age.

Again, thank you all for pouring your hearts out on this website. I do like reading the Marriage and Divorce topics a lot because it puts things in perspective.

[Writing Desk RavenParticipant 460]

“But how come he gets a cool name, like Handsome Rob?!”

Excellent name, brother. And welcome aboard.

"Almost the main work of life is to come out of our selves, out of the little dark prison we are all born in... The danger is that of coming to love the prison." ~ C.S. Lewis

[Anonymous 3]

Ha ha. I thought the name sounded cool and it’s from “The Italian Job”.

Thank you for the warm welcome Writing Desk Raven.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Welcome home, brother.

You are among friends now. Thanks for sharing your story. We need that as proof that we men with MGTOW mindset were created by the actions of repulsive women and we are not “losers that can’t get a date”.

Let us be your guide from now on. And all of what we do – put together will help others. Especially the sons of single mothers that were completely c~~~ified and often run into trouble without fatherly advice.

Thank you for being here!

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Anonymous 3]

“You are among friends now. Thanks for sharing your story. We need that as proof that we men with MGTOW mindset were created by the actions of repulsive women and we are not “losers that can’t get a date”.”

I think I couldn’t of said that any better.

“Let us be your guide from now on. And all of what we do – put together will help others. Especially the sons of single mothers that were completely c~~~ified and often run into trouble without fatherly advice.”

It has been a privilege and an “eye-opener” to hear all of these men’s stories and situations.

Thank you for being here!

Thank you for having me.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Greetings Rob—I like your avatar!

[Anonymous 3]

Thank you Pistol Pete. I like your avatar also.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, HandsomeRob
All it cost you was 7000 dollars! You got off easy. You are on the right path now. Pull up a chair and join in.

[Anonymous 3]

Thank you for the welcome M52. Yeah I definitely got off easy compared to the many other men. It makes me so mad sometimes because that $7000 could have been used to build up my home gym some more. It was an expensive lesson but one that was well learned. It was also nothing compared to what could have happened.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

So Mr. Handsome, I seem to see exactly how you feel and what you have experienced. I had some landwhale encounters as well and all them lied to me about very important things. Things that I would not have kept secret.

You meet a package like this – maybe online – and you have your best loving and caring intentions – and what do you get: A package full of lies, untold stories, hidden debt, bad friends or chads, antisocial aggressive parents, compulsive disorders or just a swinger club whore…

And they tell you 100 Kg and then they are heavier than lead… “As heavy as a Chevy”.

Or you drive 2 x 1000 km to meet your special snowflake and find out that her intelligent and loving emails came from her well educated sister and that she is married without intention of leaving. And she tells you this after you give her a nice 4 day weekend and 10 minutes before you drive home… And you feel f~~~ed up all the way…

Money spent, which wouldn’t matter but these lying women cause heartache more than money can fix. And if that happens “often enough”, men like me finally “sign off” and unc~~~ their lives for good.

Life is beautiful without tyranny and without the demons’s eye over you watching every breath you take. No c~~~ bitching… No c~~~ running up debt and blaming you for it…

I know you are traumatized – at least by seeing how long these events linger in your mind.
I remember: Waking up at night, full of sweat and dreaming of her problems that she turned into your problems… And you then realize it’s over and feel so good in your bed “alone”… I know. And you never want to change that back…

We are all “damaged goods”.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Nice job UNC~~~ING.

We should be called:

MUCTL “Men Un-C~~~ing Their Lives”

Because “Going Our Own Way” is what we did since birth. Or do we have someone to carry us around?

We do not “Go Our Own Way” we “Unc~~~ Our Own Way”

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Anonymous 3]

You meet a package like this – maybe online – and you have your best loving and caring intentions – and what do you get: A package full of lies, untold stories, hidden debt, bad friends or chads, antisocial aggressive parents, compulsive disorders or just a swinger club whore…

Yeah she had emotional problems because of hating her Dad, had more debt than I could shake a stick at, and it seemed like I had to handle all her financial issues. The finance issues didn’t start out initially but kept escalating until I could see that I couldn’t realistically sustain her and myself. It made me mad because I’m a saver with money and I am still going to be screwed when fixing her problems.

And they tell you 100 Kg and then they are heavier than lead… “As heavy as a Chevy”.

This girl was really pretty once but she let her weight go to hell. (I knew later that some of that was medical but a lot of it could of been prevented.) I was fooled with the high angle shot on POF.

I know you are traumatized – at least by seeing how long these events linger in your mind.
I remember: Waking up at night, full of sweat and dreaming of her problems that she turned into your problems… And you then realize it’s over and feel so good in your bed “alone”… I know. And you never want to change that back…

As much as I don’t wish misery on anyone, it is kind of nice to know that others have experienced similar things with women that I have. I have been on this website pretty regularly.

[Anonymous 3]

Nice job UNC~~~ING.

Welcome

Thank you NFG.

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

FIRST THING THAT CAME TO MY MIND

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[Anonymous 3]

FIRST THING THAT CAME TO MY MIND

Ha ha. I like that movie! “Shallow Hal wants a gal.”

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Welcome aboard, HR 84.

Anonymous wrote:

but she would eat like it was Armageddon or something.

Thanks. I spit root beer all over my keyboard.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 3]

Welcome aboard, HR 84

Thank you for the welcome. My apologies about the keyboard but that was the best analogy I could come up with.

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome.
They blame the dad …they never mention mother do they? …just saying. .
Anyway welcome!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome to the forum.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Anonymous wrote:

She also had a heap of student loan, credit card, and medical debt too.

Anonymous wrote:

We have been broken up for 4 months now and I can say that I don’t ever want to be in a relationship with a woman long-term ever.

Welcome brother….You are home now…I pointed out the two comments that I found the most telling in the whole story you shared….Thank you for sharing by the way sir, I know how tough it is in a new place to be open….You took on her s~~~ credit and MOUNTAIN of debt…Now here you are with us…Well, it matters not what you were yesterday, blue, red, green, pill, today you are red pill understanding, and that is ALL that matters now….Once you go down this road, only the fool hearty go back…So take a DEEP breathe brother…Sigh out in comfort, and know you are now amongst friends and like minded men who not only care, but are GLAD you are here…

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

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