FIrst thread of the NEW YEAR! HAPPY NEW YEARS EV#RYONE!

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

I would like to thank ALL of you. Every single one of you that made MGTOW and ME who I am today.

This may be the First year I am doing it Completely sober. And for the most part, Really happy about the future!

I would like to Bid Farewell to our Members and Friends and Cohorts who are no longer with us today. May their memory live long in our hearts and minds.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[AutoliteParticipant]

iMickey503 wrote:

I would like to Bid Farewell to our Members and Friends and Cohorts who are no longer with us today. May their memory live long in our hearts and minds.

And how about a moment of silence in remembrance of the men who got married in 2019… 🙁

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

And a happy new year to you. May this year be the start of something special for each of us. Be grateful you are not one of these guys….

Autolite wrote:

A moment of silence in remembrance of the men who got married in 2019

…poor bastards.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[SOLI2DEParticipant 745]

For my New Year I said NO! Ex dumped me on Xmas eve so I indulged her and supported her decision. At a few minutes to midnight on NYE she asked me to go to the roof with her to see fireworks. I said NO, she pleaded again while up there and I again declined. She texted afterwards “This is us, our relationship is over. We should be friends.” Silence. I had to finally stand up and put my self respect first. Walking into 2020 with my head held high and not looking back!

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

[GrumpyParticipant]

SOLI2DE wrote:

“This is us, our relationship is over. We should be friends.

You should have repeated your first answer on this comment.

How utterly inconsiderate of any person to end a “relationship” and then a week later suggest getting together or being friends.
An ex is an ex for a reason.
In this particular instance she already received her “gift” prior to the beak up, now expects you to provide future “gifts” as an orbiter?
Good on you for leaving her alone on the roof.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Branched offParticipant 10924]

Happy new year gents.

This morning I decided to read the riot act to the last remaining woman in my life. I explained that I was just not feeling enough reward in taking care of someone dissatisfied who did not bring anything to the table but sex and cooking (which simply did not nearly repay the time and money invested in her welfare). I said that I knew she was not finding life too easy at the moment (they seldom do, I must observe) and that I was prepared to be patient with her because of the near decade that we have been lovers, because of our child and because I do actually like her (in spite of her gender). I said I am prepared to try to work through it but that I wanted to check that she was still actually enjoying being my woman and wanted to work towards bringing something to the table beyond being the not terribly happy mother of one of my children who will cook for me and sleep with me when I ask because otherwise I wanted to terminate things as being too much work for not enough pay back.

She paused and said “So would you really be happy being on your own at your age (mid 40’s)?” I tried to make my answer a diplomatic one “I don’t much like the idea of being lonely but I would be happier to be lonely than to be sad and stressed”. She paused a while before giving the usual reassurances. We have always been civil and I can’t recall the last time either of us raised a voice to the other but I am sorry to say she was hurt. We will see.

Is there a better branch out there in easy reach I wonder? I think her reply tells me that being alone post wall is her big fear, not losing me. She is still an attractive woman in her mid 40’s so there must be other branches in reach if she wants to risk the jump.

Oh freedom, imagine that! If I paid a good quality whore once a week and ate out, I would have plenty of change in my pocket (I have too many things I want to do with my money to pay even a cheap a whore anyway but I am just making the comparison). I could also do whatever the hell I liked with my spare time instead of going over to see someone unsatisfied most of the time. Its when you add up the costs that you see that pussy is simply not worth the cost unless it comes with a positive helpmate, who is prepared to be satisfied with her lot and who will lift you up in sprit and financially too if possible.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

SOLI2DE wrote:

For my New Year I said NO! Ex dumped me on Xmas eve so I indulged her and supported her decision. At a few minutes to midnight on NYE she asked me to go to the roof with her to see fireworks. I said NO, she pleaded again while up there and I again declined. She texted afterwards “This is us, our relationship is over. We should be friends.” Silence. I had to finally stand up and put my self respect first. Walking into 2020 with my head held high and not looking back!

Way to (literally) go, SOLI2DE!
Up on that roof, she would have given you the opportunity to beg her to take you back and maybe surprise you with a pregnancy immediately after, since she had a whole week to console herself with strange c~~~s.

Never, ever go back.
It won’t be the same, and it certainly wouldn’t get better.

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

Branched off wrote:

This morning I decided to read the riot act to the last remaining woman in my life. I explained that I was just not feeling enough reward in taking care of someone dissatisfied who did not bring anything to the table but sex and cooking (which simply did not nearly repay the time and money invested in her welfare). I said that I knew she was not finding life too easy at the moment (they seldom do, I must observe) and that I was prepared to be patient with her because of the near decade that we have been lovers, because of our child and because I do actually like her (in spite of her gender). I said I am prepared to try to work through it but that I wanted to check that she was still actually enjoying being my woman and wanted to work towards bringing something to the table beyond being the not terribly happy mother of one of my children who will cook for me and sleep with me when I ask because otherwise I wanted to terminate things as being too much work for not enough pay back.

As much as it might hurt to finally sever ties with someone growing “unhappy”, you will be much better off now, than you would if you wait until it gets worse.

Your children will suffer, I won’t lie, but they will suffer in an unhappy household, too.
If things get worse between the two of you, and they probably will, the children will suffer even more.
Hopefully, the relationship can end amicably enough that she doesn’t decide to turn them against you.

I’ve been where you are and I recommend making a break as clean and fast as possible.

Do not give in to her stalling, delaying or “going back” behaviors.
It will only weaken your resolve and give her more time to resent you, which leads to a much uglier break-up down the road.
Believe me. I know.

And being “all alone” in your 40’s and beyond is way better than having someone living in your home, holding you back and making you feel bad for being you.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22506]

Autolite wrote:

iMickey503 wrote:

I would like to Bid Farewell to our Members and Friends and Cohorts who are no longer with us today. May their memory live long in our hearts and minds.

And how about a moment of silence in remembrance of the men who got married in 2019… 🙁

And a moment for all the million+ men divorce raped in “family” court in 2019…

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Grumpy wrote:

How utterly inconsiderate of any person to end a “relationship” and then a week later suggest getting together or being friends.

They are not really hoping to remain friends. They’re just trying to make you look the bad guy for rejecting the proposition…

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

happy new year!

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Branched off wrote:

This morning I decided to read the riot act to the last remaining woman in my life. I

This deserves its own thread.

SOLI2DE wrote:

For my New Year I said NO! Ex dumped me on Xmas eve so I indulged her and supported her decision. At a few minutes to midnight on NYE she asked me to go to the roof with her to see fireworks. I said NO, she pleaded again while up there and I again declined. She texted afterwards “This is us, our relationship is over. We should be friends.” Silence. I had to finally stand up and put my self respect first. Walking into 2020 with my head held high and not looking back!

This one too!

Again, CONGRATS Gentleman on your Freedom. And your new & better life awaits you.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

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