First escort experience

[riddleboxParticipant 12]

No sexual stimulation in about 120 days, and my mind was about to explode.

Got on the I-net, and after bailing a million times, I finally had my first escort experience.

Positives:

• had sex a couple of times
• the stimulation was even good just talking to her and joking around.
• feel less wound up; more calm aka less anxiety

Negatives:

• felt a little guilty after I left
• anxious as f~~~ the whole way there!  Thought it would be some type of sting lol
• didn’t really feel like spending the bread, but had to do what I had to do.
• feel paranoid about heath even though I used a condom, and the sex was short as f~~~.

Driving home I felt like I should of just held out, but I wanted to just touch a chick on a more intimate level so bad.; the cravings were insane.  The chick was drunk, and it implied to me that she couldn’t be sober while doing what she was doing.  She probably feels some guilt when that high/drunk wears off.  Plus, I don’t know what goes on in her personal life, she could be struggling hard as f~~~, deep down.  How could I feel sympathy or empathy?  From my own struggle I guess.  I always reflect deeply about my actions, and try to put myself in others shoes.

The fall of an introvert.

If it were really up to me I would just want to be in a relationship with someone, but I know that type of thinking is a relic from the past.

I ask myself, what the f~~~ can I do with my sex drive?  I can’t stay celibate forever, and I get to the point where I want sex so bad it drives me crazy.  I also refuse to masturbate; it makes me feel like s~~~ after I do it, worse than what I just did.

I don’t know brah’s.  I personally feel like I let God down on this one.  Even though I know He forgives me, I wish I had the strength to overcome the burden of wanting female interaction from time to time.  These are my personal beliefs, so I don’t need any hostility thrown my way over them.  I’m just trying to explain how I feel.

Has anyone else here ever tried an escort?  What was your experience like?  Did you feel good about it afterwards?

[RedPillDETOXSpectator 24]

Congrats man!

 

I lost my virginity to a 10/10 Italian escort. I was pretty nervous and didn’t get erect for long, but other than that the experience was amazing! The bitch totally ripped me off though, charged 10 pounds for a f~~~ing condom and I paid it. LOL. She was fun to talk to otherwise and showed me the ropes 😀

[Anonymous 5]

1. God does not exist. The quicker you learn/understand that, the faster your life will improve. It is an outdated man made creation. There is no purpose of life. It is what it is. We are alive, then we die. We all accept this fact. The best we can do is try our best to live as long as we can and be as happy as long as we can.

2. You should not feel guilty/bad about masturbating. It is normal. Everyone does it. Even if you don’t do it, your dreams will force you to have a wet dream/release. This is natual. Please understand this is normal. There is nothing wrong with buying a hooker. Yes, it is illegal depending on where you live in the world, but morally, nothing is wrong with it. Many MGTOW support this because at least the woman understand she is just accepting money for sex….because that is all they are good for really. They are honest.

3. Protect yourself from cops. Always use code words/slang when asking for sex in person/phone call/email/text. A pro hooker will also use slang. She will usually say “A donation is required for spending time with her/massage etc”. If she asks for blantant sex, run away. You only want to SPEND TIME WITH HER/TALK/HANGOUT etc. Ask her to send pics before hand. When you meet up at HER hotel/place(NEVER your place), ask her to PROVE she is NOT a cop. Check the hotel washroom, check the area before hand, check the f~~~ing the entire surrounding neighbourhood an hour before hand.

4. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING YOU CAN DO IS LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF. Learn to be alone. Learn to control your cravings and godsakes….jerk off bro! You don’t NEED another human being to be happy. Whether you are gay or straight….You don’t NEED another person in your life to be happy. Learn to be happy on your own. You are a MAN GOING HIS OWN WAY!!!!

[experiencedParticipant]

There’s EVERYTHING wrong with buying a hooker:

I bought one once, she cost $500,000.00.

“Oh, that’s not a hooker.”   No, you’re correct, it’s the worst type of hooker, i.e. one who costs: The family unit and 500K at court.

Perhaps there’s a scale:

Street whore, bar whore, prostitute, woman of ill repute, lady of the night, call girl, escort.

Please, put the, “80% of divorces are initiated by women” hookers, at the far left of the scale.

 

What’s the difference between a cougar and an old maid?

What’s the difference between a wardrobe malfunction and dressing like a whore?

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

Maybe you’re not doing it right. You might not be using sufficient lubricant if it feels worse afterwards.

But seriously – you appear to be hung up on this. The reason females (i.e. “society”) demonise masturbation and homosexuality is because both diminish the power of their pussy cartel. If I’m a car rental company, of course I’m going to dissuade potential customers from walking, taking the bus, &c.

riddlebox wrote:

I also refuse to masturbate; it makes me feel like s~~~ after I do it, worse than what I just did.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Bravo for doing what most men just talk about… you had a need and instead of denying that need or letting it go unmet, you hired a professional (well, more or less) and got it handled like a man.

My most recent experience with this sort of thing went exceptionally well. I selected an attractive young model who came to my house and was sober, sexy and very eager to please. Initially she had given me a quote that I felt was too high by half and when I said so, she reduced it by 75% on the condition we’d spend half the time, but then she stayed the full time anyway.

While I naturally enjoyed the carnal aspects of our time together (she was better than most of the females I have been with) I also enjoyed the pleasure of just being close to her and the touch of her skin. Yeah, I know how that sounds, particularly when speaking of an escort, but she was young and beautiful and full of life and enthusiasm and I just soaked up as much of that as I could in the time I had.

By my reckoning, I paid for what I wanted and I got exactly that and nothing more or less and I would do so again… at four times the price, even.

[MagicStarBunnyParticipant 20]

If it were really up to me I would just want to be in a relationship with someone, but I know that type of thinking is a relic from the past.

Might not be a popular opinion here on the forums, but I’m happily married to a nice Chinese girl (in China). Lots of sex and we are hitting the gym regularly so also hot body. Having a baby next year, so we are also keeping god happy at the same time. Not all women are bad, just 99% of them, you have to travel outside of the city centers… more importantly the western centers to find them.

 

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XNzczOTIxMTUy.html?tpa=dW5pb25faWQ9MjAwMDAxXzEwMDE0M18wMV8wMQ

 

I cannot recommend Asia highly enough. If you were REALLY smart you could hit up Thailand or the phlips and have the best of both worlds till you find a girl you want to settle down with. I would bet that ‘weird feeling’ is due to the fact that this isn’t the way its supposed to be… men shouldn’t have to use escorts when all they want is to meet a decent woman for a fulfilling relationship. A great girl is out there for you and she’s a hell of a lot cheaper than an escort (a plane ticket to Mex from USA is only about $500).

[Anonymous 1]

@magicstarbunny
Well, I have to ask, is your wife with you because of what you are? Or because of what you have? I do wonder because you keep saying that “asian women are not like that” and now and then I see evidence of the opposite.

Case in point:

and this:

And if you think Chinese women don’t have hypergami, here is one more:

“Having a car and having a house is all a women wish…”

Yeah, no hypergami at all.

[Sam FisherParticipant 206]

Sex is one of the most overrated things – and I learned this from staying away from it for a couple of years. I used to try hard to get it, but eventually just realized that the juice ain’t worth the squeeze.

The indifference to sex and romance is fantastic – I’ve never felt more free in my life.

[SyncSoloParticipant 18]

I should probably see a hooker myself as I have always struggled to find sex or relationships, online dating favours women as well. My 30s have been a wasteland and it’s been pretty soul-destroying. But I’d find it even more soul-destroying paying some bitch for sex, who may find me disgusting and just wants my money.

I did nearly see this one earlier this year, she’d put up her minimum charge to £300, condom only for oral, nothing kinky and just straight sex, she marketed herself as “the thinking mans crumpet” well whatever, she was nearing 40 and looked it too.

I’d rather not help her fund her lavish lifestyle, it’s funny that many feminists say prostitutes are exploited and victims, when most choose to do it and get lots of money for little effort. It’s the men who have no other choice [except rape] but to pay for sex are the real victims, the less attractive men, the shy guys, the ones trapped in sexless marriages. But no one cares about men’s suffering or living a low quality of life, it’s all women with their more often than not, less trivial issues getting the most support.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Great story and subject.

riddlebox wrote:

These are my personal beliefs, so I don’t need any hostility thrown my way over them.  I’m just trying to explain how I feel.

Hostility? Man you can’t reform biology. It’s not an “opinion”. You need to nut like you need to take a p~~~. So let me help you out.

When you use a urinal…. do you feel guilty afterwards?
Do you feel some need take it out to brunch and talk to it?
Do you call your urinal the next day to just say how F~~~ING AWESOME it was?
Do you develop a connection and personal relationship to it?

NO.

So keep it in perspective.

I’ve needed to go to the bathroom so badly a few times, I was SINGING when I finally got to relieve myself. No matter how awesome it was, I was never compelled to text it the next day. You don’t feel guilty for using a urinal for your need, so why are you putting all this thought into it and driving yourself crazy? You paid to use a toilet. When i really need to go, I would hand over my wallet too. That’s how strong the desire is. But there is NO GENUINE DESIRE to get into a relationship… or date your toilet. That’s just the way you’ve been socialized.

You don’t need that s~~~ at all. OK so you need to get off … BADLY!! Everyone here understands that and NOBODY will be hostile towards you for that. How can they be? You can’t reform biology. But you CAN (and should) deprogram yourself from how you;ve been socialized so that none of this is a big deal. Dump the load. Relax. Stop thinking about it.

Man you don’t go running to a forum to talk about how much you like Pizza when you feel like bingeing on some ZA, right? You don’t QUESTION why you like pizza. You just f~~~ing order it the way you want it, get your craving taken care of, and go on to bigger and more important things.

Same s~~~ here.

ENJOY. And don’t give it another thought. Like sex, it’s not worth letting all this s~~~ live in your head rent-free.

EVERYBODY knows how you feel. That’s why you’re here.
Nobody will crucify you for these little struggles.

All you need to do… is keep them in check and their proper perspective.

Get laid. Be safe. Have fun. And don’t even think about a ‘relationship” until you’ve met a chick you WANT to get into a relationship with. Wishing for a “relationship” is what women do. They don’t even care if there is no guy around and she has no prospects.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

@ riddlebox

You seem to have these feelings toward professional girls as being less than. Are you better than them that you can judge them?

Then you speak of letting god down. If you are a christian, as I am, a catholoic, you know very well what the rules are and what they are not and which ones you should be ashamed of and which ones not to be. It’s spelled out in the bible. Do you believe in the bible? Are you sure? Or just the feminist bible.

The feminist bible is not the bible. The King James Bible was written around 1600. The American Standard library was published in 1900, post stage I feminist revolution.

Let’s see, you had carnal feelings. Never read anything in the bible against having those. Pretty natural to me.

Next you went to see a woman who’s job it is to do massages…even 5 inches below the belt line…scandalous.

Well, it seems like Jesus didn’t have any problem with keeping company with a working woman. Maybe your better than he was.

Feminism and only feminism made prostitution illegal. Not god.

Prostitution was legal in the US until women got the vote around the 1900’s. It’s only been 100 years that all male activites were criminalized. Prostitution, brothels, gambling houses, and prohibition are what our ladies bring in when they are in power and it takes hundreds of years to undo.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution

Prostitution was made illegal in the US in Originally, prostitution was widely legal in the United States. Prostitution was made illegal in almost all states between 1910 and 1915 largely due to the influence of the Woman’s Christian Temperance Union. On the other hand, prostitution generated much national revenue in South Korea, hence military government encouraged the Prostitution for the U.S. military.[66][67]

In 1956, the United Kingdom introduced the Sexual Offences Act 1956, which was partly repealed, and altered, by the Sexual Offences Act 2003 and the Policing and Crime Act 2009. While this law did not criminalise the act of prostitution in the United Kingdom itself, it prohibited such activities as running a brothel and soliciting.

Beginning in the late 1980s, many states in the US increased the penalties for prostitution in cases where the prostitute is knowingly HIV-positive. Penalties for felony prostitution vary, with maximum sentences of typically 10 to 15 years in prison.

The real issue is the feminist overlords taking the lead from Sweden are making it illegal to purchase prostitution services but not illegal to sell them by the girls.

It’s meant to be a stake in the heart of prostitution so that our women will have total control of the wimpiest mangina men ever raised by a an out of control group of sex withholding disgusting harridan lardasses the world has ever seen.

The complete boycott of all Ameriskank women is the only possible response.

I’m not a lawyer but let’s do a quick internet search in NY state:

Prostitution is a class B misdemeanor, punishable by up to three months in jail and a fine of up to $500. Prostitution in a school zone is a class A misdemeanor, punishable by up to one year in jail and a fine of up to $1,000.

Patronizing prostitution is also a class B misdemeanor.

Class A misdemeanor:

Class B misdemeanors in NY:
Prostitution is a class B Misdemeanor.

S 230.02 Patronizing a prostitute; definitions.
1. A person patronizes a prostitute when:
(a) Pursuant to a prior understanding, he pays a fee to another person
as compensation for such person or a third person having engaged in
sexual conduct with him; or
(b) He pays or agrees to pay a fee to another person pursuant to an
understanding that in return therefore such person or a third person will
engage in sexual conduct with him; or
(c) He solicits or requests another person to engage in sexual conduct
with him in return for a fee.
2. As used in this article, “person who is patronized” means the
person with whom the defendant engaged in sexual conduct or was to have
engaged in sexual conduct pursuant to the understanding, or the person
who was solicited or requested by the defendant to engage in sexual
conduct.

Other class B misdemeaners:

Class B

Issuing a bad check
Fortune-telling
Prostitution
Unlawful assemble

Penalty for class B misdemeaner:

Sentence Range for Each Level

Each category of misdemeanor offense in New York has a maximum possible penalty associated with it. Unless otherwise specified by law, courts can sentence someone convicted of a misdemeanor offense to pay a fine, serve jail time, or both.

Class A misdemeanor: not more than one year in jail and not more than $1,000 in fines
Class B misdemeanor: not more than three months in jail and not more than $500 in fines

Penalty for looking at your wife crooked: Loss of your children. A permanent DV conviction on your record. Loss of all your goods. Up to 100’s of thousands of dollars if you chose to try and see your kids.

New York also criminalizes stalking, which occurs when an aggressor intentionally and for no legitimate purpose engages in a course of conduct directed at the victim while knowing that his or her conduct is likely to cause or does cause material harm to the victim’s mental or emotional health; a reasonable fear of material harm to the victim’s physical health, safety or property or that of the victim’s immediately family; or a reasonable fear that the victim’s employment, business or career is threatened.

Menacing is another prohibited crime. An aggressor engages in menacing when he or she intentionally places – or attempts to place – another person in reasonable fear of physical injury or death by displaying a deadly weapon or dangerous instrument; or repeatedly follows the victim, engages in a course of conduct, or commits acts over a period of time that are intended to place the victim in reasonable fear of physical injury or death.

– See more at: http://statelaws.findlaw.com/new-york-law/new-york-domestic-violence-laws.html#sthash.O3HoL7tl.dpuf

Translation: All she has to do is say she’s afraid of you and needs to prove nothing. At this point your soon to be ex-wife hates you. If all she has to say is she’s afraid then you go to jail, she get’s the house and kids. All her family and her attorney are putting major pressure on her to do this and is open war with you.

Her incentives are all to dump you and turn you into a slave for 18 years while you get to see your kids turned against you and hate you or their mom will withhold love from them.

The prostitute wants a repeat customer so is nice to you.

And loss of your kids, did I mention that?

I am not an attorney and the above info is not legal advice, just some facts to put things in perspective.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Look at HR doing his research like that. I didn’t even think about religious over legal implications. An excellent point from HR.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Last tid bit about prostitution as a crime.

Here are some crime statistics from US Department of Justice:

For arrests 2010

Total DV, Class A misdemeaner : 111,060 men: 83K, women 23K
Prostitution: Class B misdemeaner: 60217 men: 19,480, women: 43,190.
Total Crime: 13,122,110 total crimes

http://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/aus9010.pdf

So each year 83K men are convicted of a grade A misdemeaner for being married and about 20K to avoid the 4 times increase risk from that woman at home versus the woman giving you the best sex you’ve had in a while.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I notice that this law specifically refers to ‘He’ and ‘him’ in the definition of patronizing a prostitute. Interesting that in the law defining prostitution, the words ‘she’ and ‘her’ do not appear…
Q: If we are all equal under law, how is it that any law specifically refers to one gender?
A: For all the machinations of feminists about equality, when they get the ability to influence laws, you occasionally see them slip and give themselves away like this. (Not that we didn’t already know who the target was).

But reading the definition closely:

“he pays a fee to another person
as compensation for such person or a third person having engaged in
sexual conduct with him…”

So the bar tender, the waiter and the box office attendant that I paid compensation to in order that the third person (female) I’m on a date with will have sex with me …makes her a prostitute. And if I marry her and in the divorce, she leaves with even 1 cent more than she arrived with in the divorce settlement, and we had sex even one time during the marriage, then she is likewise also a prostitute.

“He pays or agrees to pay a fee to another person pursuant to an
understanding that in return therefore such person or a third person will
engage in sexual conduct with him”

By this definition, if I marry someone in a community property state who has less or earns less than me, and we have sex one time, she is a prostitute because in community property states, half of my earnings became hers as soon as I earned them. If she does not earn exactly as much as I do, and give half of her earnings to me, then she has a net profit from the marriage and is therefore a prostitute under this definition.

To me it seems that prostitution was made illegal by feminists 100 years ago because they wanted to be sure that sex in exchange for the higher prices paid in the context of marriage was the only sex available, and these prices would be impossible if prostitutes could sell it in a free market for what it was actually worth… After a hundred years of unchecked feminism, the price of ‘legal’ sex in marriage must continue to be paid long after the sex has ceased to occur.

It appears to me that feminism was never about equal pay for equal work. It was just about ensuring the highest possible prices for the legal prostitution (marriage) that all women aspire to engage in. The whole premise of the feminist strategy is that if marriage could be made the minimum available price is for sex, all men could be counted on to continue paying it.

It appears that they failed to anticipate mgtow…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Anonymous 42]

Good one sir Brainpower; It’s not so much the cost of the exchange, but the absolute tyranny the justice system has dolled out to satisfy the beast of feminism, a beast that feeds on the happiness of men, and promotes the misery of women. Therefore the whore, the pig, the slut, and the infidel is found in the powers of a tyrannical justice system. True law and order have been sacrificed at the alter of feminism.

The logical man has no “reason” to enter into such a dastardly contract of self destruction. Let the manginas  suffer their fate, let the White Knights defend this dishonor. Eventually all things are exposed, It’s just a matter of time before MGTOW is a commonly used option to avoid the shaming and enslavement that has become the arrangement of marriage.

I in the law’s eyes, “Governmental matrimony” you marry the STATE you so despise, she rules you to self destruction…….

[Solid SnakeParticipant 255]

I find it odd thats its criminalised, the state I live in Australia its legal. The girls here need to be clean of diseases and undergo regular testing if they work in that industry.

Legalise and regulate the industry, don’t see why it needs to be criminalised.

[rorickParticipant 682]

@Cipher Highwind you are right.. Women don’t want to lose their pussy power and don’t want men to find any other alternatives, that’s why they despise porn and masturbation.

In my country 99% of men get married for the following reasons, and not for love.

1. Believing they will get sex 24×7
2. Afraid of being alone.
3. Social pressure.
4. Because of religion aka fear of God
5. Someone there for you to cook, clean etc.

My friends and family always point out the above reasons to me to get married. But i reply to them that i can find better alternatives to all the above mentioned things.
For sex -> i can masturbate and i know how to please myself better.
Being alone -> I love being alone, no nagging, no drama etc, I’m the king.
Social pressure -> F**k the society, in fact what i have seen is that most of the society or those who are married are really envious about MGTOW.
For religion or God -> I don’t believe in any of that, so F**K them.
And for household chores -> I love doing it myself or if needed i can hire a maid, again no complain, no drama..

 

 

 

[Anonymous 2]

I just… can’t. I can’t bring myself to pay a hooker for sex. In my opinion the product is not worth the price, ever, because sex has no monetary value to begin with. I always have better alternatives to spend that money. Beer and video games come to mind.

For the price of 100 euro I can get 60 minutes of sex or 2 new launch titles for my Xbox and a sixpack. I’ll rub one out and pick the 300+ hours of gameplay over less then an hour of robotic, meaningless sex with a slut that needs to get paid for sex order to enjoy it.

Also I am way to aware I have a f~~~ing hot body so having sex with me is quite the treat. Women should pay me to have sex with them!

 

[cdotParticipant 20]

I do not “need to pay”. But in all my years of being a successful player, the emotional, psychological and financial toll of dealing with women was just too high. I also have an extremely high sex drive, so I came to the conclusion that doing it this was was best. I also want sex on MY TERMS. Latina providers here in between trips to DR and Colombia gets the job done.

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