First Divorce Anniversary

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

My divorce was final on this day last year March 26, 2017. As I type this, the pen that signed the marital dissolution agreement is in my shirt pocket. It takes an ink refill so I can use it on and on, and cherish it forever.

It took over two years to get the divorce done. She wanted everything we had and for me to pay spousal support. I made offer after offer she rejected. Finally settled it, with her getting the debt free house, and most of our investment account. I got 100% of my 401k and a check for 15k. My retirement is all I wanted, I’ve gone minimalist.

My life gets better each day, my mental health improves, the anger subsides a little, her criticism and shaming grow a little fainter in my ear. And I can do whatever the hell I want to when I want to. This old plow horse has escaped the plantation and is a stallion again.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Two Time Winner wrote:

She wanted everything we had and for me to pay spousal support. I made offer after offer she rejected.

Damn, isn’t it fun negotiating with a spoiled toddler? I am SO glad to have that part behind me. 9 more payments and the alimony is done. That’s gonna be a great day putting that last check in the mail.

Two Time Winner wrote:

My life gets better each day, my mental health improves, the anger subsides a little, her criticism and shaming grow a little fainter in my ear. And I can do whatever the hell I want to when I want to. This old plow horse has escaped the plantation and is a stallion again.

Amen TTW, amen.

Order the good wine

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Two Time Winner wrote:

My life gets better each day, my mental health improves, the anger subsides a little, her criticism and shaming grow a little fainter in my ear. And I can do whatever the hell I want to when I want to. This old plow horse has escaped the plantation and is a stallion again.

How Content and Joyous One Must Be to Have Regained HIS FREEDOM !!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[UntamedParticipant]

Two Time Winner wrote:

My divorce was final on this day last year March 26, 2017

This day last year was March 26, 2018! Or did we skip a year and ended up in the twilight zone…? Which wouldn’t surprise me one damn bit.

Anyway, congratulation on your divorce, whatever year that was…

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

You keep on truckin’ TTW, it only gets better as time goes by.
I lost a lot as well but you put it all in the rear view and march on.
I have no regrets, but I cannot deny the divorce had a significant impact on MY LIFE.

Yes, MY LIFE dammit. I put EVERYONE before myself and got S~~~ on in the outcome. Now, it is about ME. The world teaches you there is little compassion in others without cost. Make the investment in “self,” and don’t look back !

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

Untamed wrote:

Two Time Winner wrote:

My divorce was final on this day last year March 26, 2017

This day last year was March 26, 2018! Or did we skip a year and ended up in the twilight zone…? Which wouldn’t surprise me one damn bit.
Anyway, congratulation on your divorce, whatever year that was…

Damn your are correct, it just seems more distant, what a great feeling to be free. In my defense I’m doing about ten or more 2018 tax returns seven days a week, so last year does seem like 2017.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

I’m sitting here trying to decide which steak house to go to for dinner. Sipping a glass of good wine, smoked about a 1/2 a bowl of weed thirty minutes ago. I’ve got a bottle of champagne chilling in the the fridge. I am King of my little efficiency apartment castle, and there ain’t no woman bitching about anything.

Nor will there ever be again, women don’t have anything I want. That is one of the good things about growing old, pussy loses whatever value it had. Which looking back, it never had much value at all, compared to freedom.

Haven’t felt this good since I drove my first car home. The one I paid 100% of because I had to.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Congrats, TTW! I’m still attached to the ball & Chain, but have a postnuptial agreement, am permanently separated, own my place in my name only, and will make the last payment at the end of the year to complete my buyout and solely own my health care savings account.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

happy anniversary

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Coming up to 15 years next month , like others have a nice apartment , a motorbike I wanted when married but never bought as I could not justify it , I do what I want when I want … Never been so good ,

[HermitParticipant]

Congratulations! I celebrated my 7th divorce anniversary this month. It was on the 12th. Looking forward to continued peace and freedom.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I had my first divorce anniversary last October. I’m not sure what I did; I don’t think I gave enough of a f~~~ anymore to even remember it was a one-year anniversary of divorce.

I shall look it up…

I don’t think I remembered the anniversary that day: I played a few computer games, made soup mostly out of ingredients harvested from the garden, purchased a blood pressure checker/cuff, inventoried the 7.62×51 ammo, worked a little on the home improvement project I had going on in the kitchen at the time.

Literally I didn’t give a crap I’d been divorced a year; I had more important things to do.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

It might be odd, but I do not remember either divorce dates. I would have to dig through paperwork which I am not going to do. Totally wiped it from my memory, both were in the summer I think,..or spring. Remember events, like being served papers at work. Don’t even remember the lawyers name. Can not even tell the exact number of years I have been divorced. Guess it is my way of dealing with it.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Two Time Winner wrote:

I made offer after offer she rejected. Finally settled it, with her getting the debt free house, and most of our investment account.

She will burn her way through all of this, and then be scratching around for someone else to latch onto. Overall prognosis poor.

I got 100% of my 401k and a check for 15k. My retirement is all I wanted …

You have something to look forward to. Prognosis good.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Congratulations brother, it will be the fourth anniversary of my Decree Absolute on the 6th July. It’s five and a half years since we originally separated, and as you say the anger subsides and mental health increases every single day.

Have to say, I am now at a place where I am no longer angry and I don’t check into this site that often anymore as none of the s~~~ that goes hand in hand with women affects me anymore.

My ex wife remarried and when I see the s~~~ he has to go through I think how lucky I am to be free and have someone else suffer the misery every day instead of me. What makes me laugh is that when we originally split and she was excited to get back on the carousel I had dark thoughts and thought of doing something stupid. I now have my own house, a years salary in cash and I try and avoid any situations which could potentially cause me stress. I am happy while me ex-wife is still as grumpy and obsessed with spending money as possible. No piece of pussy is worth the expense and damage to your mental health.

As a married man, the daily s~~~ you have to go through in a vain attempt to keep her happy and the years or paying for her pussy after you divorce is just not worth it.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Congrats TTW
Like many others I dont’t remember the exact dates of either of my divorces now.
First one was in 1987. Then 10 years later I put myself in chains again, that one was finalized sometime in 2001 (started in ’99).
Funny how the Pinocchio song still sticks in my head though.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Freedom Not SlaveryParticipant 508]

Regaining your freedom is priceless, being happy and not having a c~~~ nag you is paradise.

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