Find Better – or Invest?

[BushidoParticipant 637]

I just finished another round of our latest forum topics and got to thinking:

In relations~~~s (for the MGTOW who indulge in them), at what point in time do you accept a certain standard of woman and invest in it – not to compromise for lower quality OR to look for better quality?

Apps and smartphones and modern technology all allow for an easy way to find an improvement – humanity is at your fingertips. If you want better, all you gotta do is spice up your profile enough and send out enough messages to get noticed. Finding someone “better” couldn’t be easier.

Contrast today to decades past in which hand-writing a letter was the only way you could talk to someone across the country – conversations would last for months; you ask how one thing is going and it turns out that thing was done and through a week prior with something new taking its place. Suffice to say, anyone who has written a genuine letter invests quite a bit of time just to say hello. Dumping your “pen pal” for another becomes more of a choice and less a simple triviality.

An example of my own. I’m an exceptionally tolerant human being to the point it becomes a character flaw. However, I have a fairly rigid limit of “s~~~ tests” that I will tolerate. Naturally, each personality a different woman has (assuming we’re not talking about the multiple personalities of ONE woman here) has different degrees of s~~~ tests; more likely to pull a pregnancy scare, less likely to be jealous, just as likely to bring family into personal issues, etc. I could go on and on.

Operating under the assumption that a woman’s “s~~~ tests” don’t break your personal limits and become less severe in time, at what point in time do you reject monkey branching as a personal option?

Logic guides your actions, emotion guides your morals. Only you may decide how you use them.

[BoarParticipant]

Bushido wrote:

Operating under the assumption that a woman’s “s~~~ tests” don’t break your personal limits and become less severe in time, at what point in time do you reject monkey branching as a personal option?

I still don’t understand how you got to that assumption.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Bushido wrote:

An example of my own. I’m an exceptionally tolerant human being to the point it becomes a character flaw.

This trait bought my brother two marriages.

Bushido wrote:

However, I have a fairly rigid limit of “s~~~ tests” that I will tolerate.

They shouldn’t be tolerated to any degree. A slow starter can pick up steam and over power your tolerance level. Hence divorce or false allegations.

Bushido wrote:

Operating under the assumption that a woman’s “s~~~ tests” don’t break your personal limits and become less severe in time,

Again the personal limit should be zero tolerance. Also, I have to ask, when was the last time you experienced or observed that the s~~~ testing becomes “less severe in time”?

Bushido wrote:

Apps and smartphones and modern technology all allow for an easy way to find an improvement

Or they make it easier for some parasite to pretend to be a NAWALT before finally latching on to your jugular and drain the life out of you.

Bushido wrote:

at what point in time do you accept a certain standard of woman and invest in it

The split second you have a 100 percent surety that you won’t get raped in the end. Last I heard, only 16 percent of marriages are considered to be fulfilling after ten years. 1 chance in 8. That is a statistic that should give everyone pause. Given that you are probably close to the age of 30. Give or take. How many women your age don’t have children and no husband? They’re are already f~~~ ups for either getting in bed with a bad boy, chad, or just all around douche bag OR he was a decent man and she ‘thought she could do better’.

A woman about that age that hasn’t been married sees a man as another box to be ticked off on her checklist.

Husband? Check. That done I can stop trying.
Kids? Check. Time to stay home and give you all the responsibility of taking care of the family financially.
Car? Check.
House? Check.
Pool Boy? Check.

My friend, I believe that you are looking for validation because you want to take a shot at having another woman.

Can you really afford to trust the pussy?

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[ghostParticipant]

From my personal experience, virginity is very important in selecting a woman. This is probably the single biggest mistake I made in my past. Women cannot pair bond with men the same way so this cannot be taken lightly.

Secondly, her family background and upbringing are also very important, as well as her social circle. You should meet her parents and friends to get an idea of the kind of person you are dealing with.

If you are comfortable with these two things with someone you are currently with, I don’t see why you wouldn’t continue on. I think you should take things slow and not rush into anything.

Personally, I am no longer in pursuit but each man should make that decision for himself based on his experiences.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

Two things.

1. Your assumption that s~~~ tests get less severe over time is unfounded.

2. Straight men do not monkeybranch. Women and gays monkeybranch. Monkeybranching is all about security of leaving the current wallet/resource for the future “better” wallet/resource.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 6]

Hold high standards and make her meet them. She doesn’t meet them, then good riddance. If she meets them, continue with her. The same way women give men little s~~~ tests, you can do the same thing back to her and f~~~ with her mind.

If she tells you to do something, or you won’t get sex, just say “OK”. And don’t do what she wanted you to do. That’s gonna f~~~ her up more than anything cuz she will realize she isn’t f~~~ing with a dumbass. All her life she’s been told, pussy rules everything…NOT ANYMORE!

Relationships should not be difficult. Pick the right chicks to be around. Look at her family. Look at her mother. Have a candid conversation with her father about his marriage and if he is happy. These are simple things to do that don’t require much effort.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

Bushido wrote:

An example of my own. I’m an exceptionally tolerant human being to the point it becomes a character flaw.

This trait bought my brother two marriages.

Bushido wrote:

However, I have a fairly rigid limit of “s~~~ tests” that I will tolerate.

They shouldn’t be tolerated to any degree. A slow starter can pick up steam and over power your tolerance level. Hence divorce or false allegations.

Bushido wrote:

Operating under the assumption that a woman’s “s~~~ tests” don’t break your personal limits and become less severe in time,

Again the personal limit should be zero tolerance. Also, I have to ask, when was the last time you experienced or observed that the s~~~ testing becomes “less severe in time”?

Bushido wrote:

Apps and smartphones and modern technology all allow for an easy way to find an improvement

Or they make it easier for some parasite to pretend to be a NAWALT before finally latching on to your jugular and drain the life out of you.

Bushido wrote:

at what point in time do you accept a certain standard of woman and invest in it

The split second you have a 100 percent surety that you won’t get raped in the end. Last I heard, only 16 percent of marriages are considered to be fulfilling after ten years. 1 chance in 8. That is a statistic that should give everyone pause. Given that you are probably close to the age of 30. Give or take. How many women your age don’t have children and no husband? They’re are already f~~~ ups for either getting in bed with a bad boy, chad, or just all around douche bag OR he was a decent man and she ‘thought she could do better’.

A woman about that age that hasn’t been married sees a man as another box to be ticked off on her checklist.

Husband? Check. That done I can stop trying.
Kids? Check. Time to stay home and give you all the responsibility of taking care of the family financially.
Car? Check.
House? Check.
Pool Boy? Check.

My friend, I believe that you are looking for validation because you want to take a shot at having another woman.

Can you really afford to trust the pussy?

Thnoa I had never seen them figures before but they strike me as I would believe , women do the ‘Shopping list ‘ I look back at mine and it was a process.

[BushidoParticipant 637]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

My friend, I believe that you are looking for validation because you want to take a shot at having another woman.

Painfully true, brother.

My woes that originally brought me to the MGTOW philosophy are continually suppressed with false hopes and bitter optimism. Somehow, my new perspective brings a new hope that somehow, someway, “things will be different this time”.

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

1. Your assumption that s~~~ tests get less severe over time is unfounded.

I’m starting to think I’ve been Going My Own Way long enough to forget some of the stupidity I left behind. It would seem that I have some masochistic tendencies that need attending to.

Forgive my naïveté, gents. Ignorance comes with inexperience, i.e. the young and “invulnerable” like myself!

Logic guides your actions, emotion guides your morals. Only you may decide how you use them.

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