Let’s begin in December, 1964 when my mother intentionally got pregnant with me in order to coerce my father in to marrying her. Fast forward through the typical American gynocentric brainwashing to young adulthood. I watched my mother treat my Dad like a servant slave, while I focused on getting an education. Thankfully, both parents were on the same page about us getting educated and college degrees.
I didn’t date much during HS or college because I didn’t make it a priority. Getting the degree took the overwhelming majority of my energies. I did, however, watch my friends date and get dumped by girls. The girls jumped from one branch to another [typically higher on the tree]. This was my first introduction to hypergamy. I see it now, only in hindsight. They left good, honest young men for cheats or drop-outs, and I wondered why.
Upon finishing the undergraduate degree, it was time to leave the nest. I moved out to the West Coast for graduate school, and started dating more. I figured West Coast women might be more honest than the ones in the South. Southern women would lie to your face with a smile on theirs, if they thought they were protecting your “feelings”. I was wrong. Women, everywhere are skilled and prolific liars.
One of the more interesting things I noticed was that women would go ape s~~~ if you refused to f~~~ them. Bear in mind that simply getting laid was not my focus. I still believed in the sanctity of marriage, and foolishly thought females believed the same. I broadened my horizons by dating Asian, Indian [dot not feather], Middle Eastern, black, and latin girls. This was my first introduction to AWALT. I see it now, only in hindsight. I was still watching friends and associates get in/out of relations~~~s, and by a large majority, the girls were the ones to leave them, and I wondered why.
After graduate school, I started to learn my career. 25 years old and thinking that I wanted the American dream of a faithful wife, 2.3 children and a dog [still brainwashed by estrogen]. I made the mistake of dating some of the women at the hospital, where I worked. Dating in the workplace is playing with thermonuclear weapons, gentlemen. When it’s good, it’s very good. When it, inevitably goes in the crapper, it’s a train wreck. I dated 2 [eventual] lesbians, and a load of nut cases. I wasted 3 – 4 years dating a South African woman, who eventually got me fired. She was the type that would break up, and start dating someone else, then call me on Valentines MGTOW day from his bed, telling me how much she missed me, etc. I finally grew a pair and tired of this behavior. As she detected my fatigue, her efforts to manipulate escalated. One day, after lunch, she came to my desk and started giving me s~~~ about something or the other. I said, “When I need the opinion of a dishonest, ungrateful, self-absorbed c~~~, I will call you.” She struck me in the face. 6 days later I was fired for using the “C” word. Never mind that she assaulted me in the workplace, they fired the male. This was my first introduction to the gynocentric s~~~ pile America has become, and it was one of the best things to ever happen to me. I see it now, in hindsight.
After 15 years on the West Coast, I moved back home [TN], and continued thinking that I would get married and start a family. By this time many of my friends and acquaintances were getting divorced and corn holed by their ex-wives. They were getting denied custody, and paying out staggering sums of monies so their former spouses could ride the dick-go-round at the man’s expense, and I wondered why. By this time my mother had given up any pretense of treating my father well. She continued to shame, and berate him in public. One day I asked him why he tolerated that kind of nonsense. “Don’t talk about your mother that way, son.” was his response.
I continued to date a variety of women [same age, younger, older, with/without children, wealthy, poor, in between] and more light was shed on the AWALT phenomenon. As an aside: NEVER get involved with a female attorney unless she’s defending you against a false rape claim. That’s a story for another time. Meanwhile, I was developing a private practice and killing it. I needed to hire some clerical employees. Females were the only applicants for these type jobs, so I had to hire them. This was my first introduction to women’s work ethic [and I use the terms “work” and “ethic” in the loosest possible way]. They expect to be paid to update their F~~book page or watch Youtube videos, with regular cost-of-living raises, etc. This was my awakening to the female entitlement complex, and I wondered why.
Having never married, I discovered MGTOW through a random video on the FoxNews web site, and ghosted the forums for nearly a year before becoming a member. I learned ground breaking concepts supporting my life’s observations and the hypotheses I had formed based on the observations. The similarities between my experiences and yours [aka Snake’s echo chamber] are too many to ignore. The resources available and the articles found by The Patriarchy are pure gold. You young members should listen very carefully to the elder statesmen. We have a wealth of life’s experience to share. Know that nearly EVERYTHING about a woman is temporary — her looks, affection, anger, fidelity, honesty, figure, — all temporary. Her only consistency is to put herself first, and foremost.
I am very grateful for you all and though I don’t know any of you personally, I would give up my space in the lifeboat for each and every one of you.
When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.
Solo MAN’S Wisdom 3 years, 7 months ago.
