Fighting the little mangina inside of you.

[eastugerParticipant 15]

Hey fellow MGTOW,

I’m new to these forums and have been reading a lot of topics. The more I read the more i’m convinced this is the only path and interacting with woman has become more and more of an annoyance. Seeing them manipulate you with every question they ask and every story they tell makes my blood boil and disappointed at the same time.

I think deep inside I still hope there is someone who isn’t like that. while knowing that it isn’t even worth the effort and time finding out… It’s like there is a little mangina in me fighting my MGTOW ways. Trying to regurgitate that red pill which I’ve held in my hand for so long, before finally swallowing. Yes that liberating feeling I had when first accepting the truth is wearing of and i’m left here angry, disappointed and overall confused.

So how did you guys experience your first weeks as a MGTOW and how did you fought your little mangina, trying to drag you back to the darkside?

[Anonymous 42]

@eastuger, that was long ago for me, I can tell you, like a drug, I was addicted to women, every time I want back to a woman, I was tortured and burned and tortured again! I found the women have been modified by society to be not caring about man and what men needed from a woman “loyalty” my friends would die for me, a woman doesn’t understand “loyalty” they have the attention span of a bird (hen). It’s tough to resist your urges, I know! Considerate on your self and what “you” want, “your” needs,and “your” future, the odds are stacked terribly against you, if you desire a long term relationship. I have friends for decades, women only last a couple of months, a year was the most for me ever. They blow away in the wind, on the slightest breeze. I hope this helps you, Cheers

[JadedParticipant 27]

This advice might not be helpful, but it is already too late for you. You know too much. The more you see and experience, the more the idea will continue to blossom in your mind until it becomes second nature. You won’t really necessarily even notice it until a situation comes up where you find yourself reacting in a way you would not have before. Or made a choice that you would not have made before. And you know it is the right choice because it will be made with your own best interest in mind and not because you are afraid you might upset somebody that only cares about themselves.

[Anonymous 11]

Every time I ever stood my ground to a woman, that damn little mangina on my shoulder was there to torment me along with her relentless carping.  Eventually, you just come to realize what they, for the most part, really are and the little mangina on your shoulder just goes poof.

The female related event that pushed me over the line was incredibly minor.  It was a minor left jab just after taking the female equivalent of an unexpected right uppercut to the chin.  I hold no bitterness as I practice radical acceptance and find that the writings of Paul keep me at inner peace.  Modern women are pretty much generally all gynocentists/feminists/narcissists so there’s not much you can do about it except control what only you can control.  This actually is something men tend to be really well at whenever they free themselves to do it.

Good question though.

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

I read your mention of the writings of Paul. That guy’s my Hero

[RoyDalParticipant]

I believe our inner mangina is programmed into our brains. This behavior is the result of thousands of generations of evolution. The same goes for the corresponding female behavior.

That’s why the urge to cater to females is so intense and why it doesn’t go away just for us wishing it so.

It can be mastered as many MGTOW have proven.

MGTOW Mindset

Sandman makes a valid point, and I believe it supports my genetic behavior belief. Our male brains shut down everything except blue pill behavior when we seek women. In order to be creative, we must be focused elsewhere.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

RoyDal wrote:

… Our male brains shut down everything except blue pill behavior when we seek women. In order to be creative, we must be focused elsewhere.

Tooo right, RoyDal and that is exactly what I am currently up to…

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[icering87Participant 11]

i use to do hypnosis so i learned to set my own anchors.  that means i manually create triggers in my mind to fire off certain emotions under certain conditions.  so if i start to slip into a mangina though my subconcious mind immediately asks ‘how much will this cost me’  and my conscious mind will start running scenarios that immediately kill the behavior.

[Anonymous 42]

@icering87, nice post, I relate to the mind reprogramming, I do the same thing, rewire the old noodle! It has worked out well for me. It’s all about having trust in yourself, and following your natural instincts. It’s like rewiring your instincts to alarm your conscience of dangers. The upper levels of consciousness are not aware of these dangers. This “mind bridge” is absolutely necessary to maintain control over your situations at all times. (self defense mecinasim).

[eastugerParticipant 15]

That was a great watch @roydal. I really like sandman’s videos there really helpful. Think I will up my daily dose of red-pills.

That is a coincidence, seeing my ex today triggered my mangina and I fought that with some mind reprogramming of my own. My mangina really wanted to talk to her and told me how much he misses her and that she looked unhappy, feeling bad for her.

Understanding those feelings and knowing they are just instinct helped me eliminate them. Consciously thinking that she isn’t worth my time and that she would just manipulate me. Made me turn my head and I kept going my own way. Felt like a little victory. Altough my mangina kept nagging trough out the evening like the little bitch he is. Probably the reason i’m posting this at 1 am. The struggle is real. It’s a great tip @icering87 and I will continue my reprogramming until I can make that little sucker shut up instantly.

Have a good night fellow MGTOW, let’s keep the good fight alive

 

 

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

Every now and then i do think about rejoining the dating game, but the moment i think about their personalities i am absolutely disgusted and turned right off.

The best advice i can give, is take the time to observe women, notice the truths about them, the reality, get past the delusions caused by your libido, and come to an acceptance of the reality.

You need to remember, that when you are becoming a full fledged MGTOW, you are going through the 5 stages of grief, as you are throwing away your old hopes, dreams, and delusions.

1. Denial – The Mangina Phase
2. Anger – The start of the MGTOW Path
3. Bargaining – Trying to come to an understanding; trying to put everything together
4. Depression – Understanding the reality
5. Acceptance – Accepting the reality, accepting that women are who they are and moving on with your life as a MGTOW.

My Goal: To Leave Society.

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