Females Bragging About Catching Men

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I’m sitting here in a coffee shop right now listening to a table of four superficially attractive young females as they talk about how they roped in their current boyfriends.

Common themes include female family members pushing the guy to pair up, existing boyfriends who were “no good” when the new guy came along, things “just happening”, guys not being worthy of talking to until it’s revealed that they’ve “gotten big” or got a good job or gotten out of the military with a pension… and how they now live with the guy and, of course, refer to him as “my boyfriend” rather than by name (a peeve of mine) and how now that they’ve got everything going how they want, they’re looking to get out and meet some new people and find some meaning in their lives, usually at the hilt of another man’s dick.

They didn’t say that last part, I added it in myself.

Here’s the bottom line for any of you who haven’t figured it out already:

Men desire females for what they are… when they are young, beautiful and healthy we desire them because it is in our nature to seek out this type of female for reproduction.

Females desire men for what they can do… when we are wealthy, powerful and important they desire us because it is in their nature to find a man who can provide for and protect them.

If you have any illusion that a female desires you for YOU and not for what you can do for her, let go of it now. It’s fine for us to chase after the sexy ones and them to chase after the successful ones, just don’t be fooled that there’s anything more than that going on. If you don’t believe me, just ask a female what she would do with her afternoons if all her bills were paid and she never had to think about money again. I’ve asked this question and I always get blank stares. They simply can’t imagine a situation where they have enough or what they would do with themselves after that.

This is where we win. Men can survive without attractive females to reproduce with but females can not survive without successfull men to mooch off of. I imagine if you out this table of females together again 30 years from now and ask them how they did, their only standard of success would be how much money they managed to extract from the men in their lives and how much more they stand to get from that point forward.

What would really be shocking for me would be to hear one of these females say “I always dated the coolest, richest guys I could find… I worked hard to be ‘hot’ so I could have that power… because I really didn’t know what to do with myself if I didn’t have a strong, wealthy man taking care of me. To be honest, I really don’t want to do anything… I don’t even want to be hot any more. But I met a guy recently who is really smart and ambitious. He’ll never make the kind of money I’m used to and he’s kind of average looking, but I love him because he takes care of himself and really seems to care about me as a person. I haven’t given up on caring for my looks and body, that would be selfish and lazy… but I’ve stopped tarting myself up and stopped flirting around trying to find someone ‘better’ because this guy is the best man I’ve ever met. I’m going to dedicate the rest of my life to supporting him and his vision and I will love him to the best of my ability so long as he is willing to keep loving me.”

Not gonna happen.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

When I was much younger, I used to believe that there might be a suitable woman for me, out there somewhere.  I also believed that she would like me for who I am, just like I would be fond of her because of who she was.  Maybe such women existed when I was in my late teens 40 years ago, but I began having serious doubts about that in the mid-1980s.

 

Since then, I’ve become convinced that the number of such women is asympotitically approaching zero.

 

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

I thought this topic would be referencing women who would post those f~~~ing pictures of themselves having tied up their mangina fiancee, wielding a gun in the picture while holding up a sign saying “The hunt is over.”

Oops! Gave away the secret! Yeah, those pictures make me want to throw up.

[RennieParticipant]

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When I was much younger, I used to believe that there might be a suitable woman for me, out there somewhere. I also believed that she would like me for who I am, just like I would be fond of her because of who she was. Maybe such women existed when I was in my late teens 40 years ago, but I began having serious doubts about that in the mid-1980s. Since then, I’ve become convinced that the number of such women is asympotitically approaching zero.

Yeah I used to believe that too. I realized that was a dead dream around grade 8-9 and it dawned on me that I would probably never get married. The prophecy has held true to this day.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Their comparing stories, who has the best “The Notebook,” real life chick flick. Probably promoting jealousy among their girl buddies.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

Great point doc.  I had a similar thought the other day.

refer to him as “my boyfriend” rather than by name (a peeve of mine)

When girls talk like that, it is always a dead give away they view him as an object meant to fulfill a function.

It is also a dead give away that the position is irreplaceable but the person behind it is replaceable.

It also points out that the girl might like the “idea” of having a boyfriend rather than actually having a boyfriend.  Girls like these usually have self esteem issues and “having” a boyfriend gives them value in thier own eyes and that of their friends.  If she doesn’t value herself she probably doesn’t value her “boyfriend” either.  One could assume the relationship is possessive rather than mutual.  Her “bragging” is a futile attempt of trying to gain self value through the acknowledgement of others.

Not acknowledging their “boyfriend” by name also means they are distancing themselves from him either intentionally or unintentionally.  When girl talk like this they are exposing a distance, between the two people, in the relationship.  One can assume, when she talks like this, that either she had no previous partners (and is afraid of losing the current) or had multiple partners before him.  The second is usually the case for “hot” chicks.  The first circumstance implies that she is/will be a “crazy” chick.

[ngghowParticipant 6]

You’re right on the money on that one, it’s not going to happen. Women who have any kind of looks at all do not need to settle, she can just wait for a “prince” as she sees it (princes = s~~~ ton of money, btw) or just continue looking for a better deal whilst she’s with someone. The only difference in how she’s treated is qualitative – one of them can afford expensive gifts and the other cant. As soon as she starts feeling she’s worth more she’ll start looking you can guarantee it – it’s just the way they see it, one man is better and worth more than another and it is measurable.

 

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