Female Profiles on POF

[WolfParticipant 890]

I’ve been using POF lately, and one thing is very obvious for female profiles: if they say anything at all, it’s pretty much the same for all profiles. They highly value family and friends, they love travel and dogs/cats, they’re not looking for a hookup, and they wonder where are all the “good men” are.

Considering that they all seem the same, are they having an annual conference to determine what they will say?

Do they really think that caring about their family and friends makes them unique or special?

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Yup it’s pretty much cookie cutter profiles. This is how lazy most women are. I wouldn’t bother with any online dating sites.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

POF  … really?  Come on man …. dont do that …… it’s not good for your soul.

Promise you’ll give it up ….. before you get a STD or beat up by her husband ☺

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

That not looking for a hookup thing is there to try and hook the Beta providers.   They will still definitely sleep with you on a first date if they think you are exciting enough.

It is full of post wall women with children, no money and a crappy job who think a rich, Brad Pitt lookalike is going to whisk them away from their current life. After all, they have been bought up to believe they deserve it and their current situation is in no way their own fault.

A large percentage of these women divorced their perfectly good husbands to get back on the C~~~ Carousel and have now realised that the grass was in no way greener.  Now they have a mad scramble to try and nab another Beta provider before they resign themselves to being bitter with cats.

I met a woman on POF and we became friends for a while (Early Blue pill mistake, it would never happen now) Who was 39, had not worked for 2 years, lived in a council flat and never had any money.  She was probably a 5 out of 10 and had a couple of friends with benefits who would pop over to see her every couple of weeks.  She was also on the Fab Swingers and Tinder and would often just meet guys for one off sex.  On her POF profile she stated that she wanted to get married and have children.  She really did not understand why she could not find a man who wanted to marry her….

Basically she had spent over 20 years on the C~~~ Carousel and was reduced to sleeping with guys she met on the internet who would only use her for sex.  She was way post wall and her life was a total mess, yet she still thought it was her right for some man to marry her, give her children and provide for her so she could stay at home all day.

Bitches be crazy….

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

@Won’tGetFooledAgain – I personally loved the ones who were late 20’s/early 30’s with kids, who didn’t want any more kids, and were still talking like prince charming with a six figure job was going to come rescue them from the f~~~ed up reality they created for themselves.  It blew my mind.  The only reason I could see myself ever even considering a long term relationship with a woman is to have kids if I decide to go that route in life…so to find one who doesn’t want kids, she has no long term potential for me…and then topping it off with the fact she’s a single mother, its like the old saying two wrongs don’t make a right…they just make a bigger wrong lol.

@Wolfie – If you want to meet women try the website meetup.com instead of trolling dating sites.  Join a hiking group, a biking group, or a co-ed sport league of some sort depending what is available in your area.  The way I look at it…you get to go out and do fun s~~~, and maybe you’ll meet some single women in the process.  If you don’t meet any single women, at least you got to do something fun with your time instead of trolling some s~~~ty dating site.  Plus it has the added benefit that if you are doing active things, you might find a woman who is actually in decent shape, and just the fact that she has weeknights or weekends to go off and enjoy leisure activities means you’ll probably be interacting with a lower percent of single moms then what you see on dating sites.  You probably won’t find a unicorn…but in my opinion this is definitely a better use of your time unless you just want to pump and dump low quality women.

[WolfParticipant 890]

@iliveagain and Beer: you’re right, POF is a cesspool. I used it about six years ago and times seem to have changed a lot. In the past, I had no trouble getting women to engage in conversation on POF, which led to dates and sex. Now, seems like no one chats back and forth. Seems like a waste of time.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Here is a nasty aspect to these.  Sites like that will make up women profiles to get men to sign up.  So, it is possible a lot of them are just patterns that get men to engage in a site.  I recall one site where the woman who is married to the site owner had a profile on there.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[WolfParticipant 890]

And what’s with all the female grammar nazis on POF? If you use “your/you’re” in the wrong context, you’re instantly disqualified…lol

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Most if not all of the women floating around on POF and Okcupid are in the sexual clearance bin.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Beer wrote:

If you want to meet women try the website meetup.com instead of trolling dating sites. Join a hiking group, a biking group, or a co-ed sport league of some sort depending what is available in your area. The way I look at it…you get to go out and do fun s~~~, and maybe you’ll meet some single women in the process. If you don’t meet any single women, at least you got to do something fun with your time instead of trolling some s~~~ty dating site. Plus it has the added benefit that if you are doing active things, you might find a woman who is actually in decent shape, and just the fact that she has weeknights or weekends to go off and enjoy leisure activities means you’ll probably be interacting with a lower percent of single moms then what you see on dating sites. You probably won’t find a unicorn…but in my opinion this is definitely a better use of your time unless you just want to pump and dump low quality women.

Totally agree with this, POF is basically only any use if you want to pump and dump low quality women.  The problem is, unless you go into it with this attitude you are going to spend a lot of money on dates with women who are really not worth your time,effort or money.  Also, once these low quality women realise that you are a pretty good catch and you ignore them afterwards you will not be able to get rid of them.  Actually, POF was a pretty good education and taught me a lot about how women think.  At the start, I was totally Blue pill and thought I wanted to get back into a relationship.  I was a bit clingy and put women on a pedestal and they ran a mile.  The more dates I went on and the more women I slept with the less and less of a f~~~ I gave and the more they wanted to be with me.   I eventually learned that if you ignore messages and cancel on women at the last minute they absolutely love it and will want to see you even more.   This was totally against all of my Blue pill thinking, but made me realise my wife had an affair because I did everything for her and treated her too well.  This was when the Red Pill realisation happened and made me rethink all the Blue pill behavior I had been let to believe.

I eventually got to the stage where I had 2 or 3 women at a time who I knew I could spend at evening with and f~~~ when I was bored and generally ignore the rest of the time.  These would drift away one by one but there was always someone new to replace them.  The more women you date, the more you will realise they are all the same, a total pain in the arse and realise it is not really worth the effort for some sex.  At least this way you are getting the sex with as little of the pain in the arse day to day bulls~~~ as possible.

The trick is to never lead them to believe that you are going to have a real relationship with them.  Do not fix their car, do not do DIY for them, do not go shopping with them and for god sake never meet their kids.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Wolf wrote:

And what’s with all the female grammar nazis on POF? If you use “your/you’re” in the wrong context, you’re instantly disqualified…lol

Its a pathetic attempt to try to come off as intelligent and educated.  Notice how most of the ones that act like that don’t have a college degree and either have a s~~~ty job, or put something stupid for their occupation, like “ASK ME.”  I can understand being annoyed when people’s spelling and grammar is so bad or so full of slang you don’t even understand wtf they are trying to say, but OMG you typed your instead of you’re in a quick message on some s~~~ty web site…clearly you must be a dumbass.

[WolfParticipant 890]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Totally agree with this, POF is basically only any use if you want to pump and dump low quality women. The problem is, unless you go into it with this attitude you are going to spend a lot of money on dates with women who are really not worth your time,effort or money. Also, once these low quality women realise that you are a pretty good catch and you ignore them afterwards you will not be able to get rid of them. Actually, POF was a pretty good education and taught me a lot about how women think. At the start, I was totally Blue pill and thought I wanted to get back into a relationship. I was a bit clingy and put women on a pedestal and they ran a mile. The more dates I went on and the more women I slept with the less and less of a f~~~ I gave and the more they wanted to be with me. I eventually learned that if you ignore messages and cancel on women at the last minute they absolutely love it and will want to see you even more. This was totally against all of my Blue pill thinking, but made me realise my wife had an affair because I did everything for her and treated her too well. This was when the Red Pill realisation happened and made me rethink all the Blue pill behavior I had been let to believe.

I eventually got to the stage where I had 2 or 3 women at a time who I knew I could spend at evening with and f~~~ when I was bored and generally ignore the rest of the time. These would drift away one by one but there was always someone new to replace them. The more women you date, the more you will realise they are all the same, a total pain in the arse and realise it is not really worth the effort for some sex. At least this way you are getting the sex with as little of the pain in the arse day to day bulls~~~ as possible.

The trick is to never lead them to believe that you are going to have a real relationship with them. Do not fix their car, do not do DIY for them, do not go shopping with them and for god sake never meet their kids.

This is an excellent post. Thanks for it. My intent with online dating is to do what you described.

Beer wrote:

Its a pathetic attempt to try to come off as intelligent and educated. Notice how most of the ones that act like that don’t have a college degree and either have a s~~~ty job, or put something stupid for their occupation, like “ASK ME.” I can understand being annoyed when people’s spelling and grammar is so bad or so full of slang you don’t even understand wtf they are trying to say, but OMG you typed your instead of you’re in a quick message on some s~~~ty web site…clearly you must be a dumbass.

That sums it up well. Yes, I have noticed that many of these grammar nazis are uneducated and/or have a s~~~ty ass job, if one at all. I’ve always wondered this: if you’re so f~~~ing smart and know it all, then why don’t you go out into the world and sell your skill in return for a high pay cheque (i.e. a good job). Likely short answer: because they want a man to do it.

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