Female friends

[Mr LogicParticipant 625]

So I just dumped a female friend of mine. She was actually an ex from about 4 years ago who dumped me because I wasn’t legally divorced yet. She knew I had nothing to do with my wife at the time. It was a lie. She dumped me because I couldn’t give her a baby and a house in the FIVE months I was with her.

Today I just said f~~~ it. She’s not a bad girl or anything but what’s the point? The only time we talk is over stupid memes or whatever. Once I told her that she lied back then and wish she would admit it, she accused me of being bitter. I told her look…as a friend go f~~~ yourself. You burned me for bulls~~~ reasons. I don’t care if it’s 4 years ago. It sucked and I was friend zoned. Admit it or we are not buds. Besides, if you’re not over here blowing me once a week, what’s the point?

I just don’t give a f~~~. Friends admit when they did something s~~~ty. Take accountability (impossible for women) and say they were wrong. Men do it all the time.

You think that one girl gets it, will acknowledge it and move on. But nope. You get nothing. So f~~~ it.

Too harsh? What do you guys think? Pretty stupid keeping female friends around?

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

I just wouldn’t have bothered interacting with her, and just GHOST on by.

NO POINT to conversing with her about ancient history, or really anything else.

It doesn’t matter anyways, just Ghost her and be done.

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[Mr LogicParticipant 625]

Awakened wrote:

I just wouldn’t have bothered interacting with her, and just GHOST on by.

NO POINT to conversing with her about ancient history, or really anything else.

It doesn’t matter anyways, just Ghost her and be done.

I totally hear you. Maybe I’m just getting deeper into the rabbit hole and understanding keeping women I dated around as friends is a total waste of time as they really have no interest in anything you do anyway.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Mr Logic wrote:

I totally hear you. Maybe I’m just getting deeper into the rabbit hole and understanding keeping women I dated around as friends is a total waste of time as they really have no interest in anything you do anyway.

And, I guess the bigger question to ask is yourself is; WHY do you have an interest in ANYTHING that they are doing ?

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[RottweilerParticipant 77]

“Female Friends”

Just stop right there man.

[Mr LogicParticipant 625]

Awakened wrote:

LordBrady wrote:

I totally hear you. Maybe I’m just getting deeper into the rabbit hole and understanding keeping women I dated around as friends is a total waste of time as they really have no interest in anything you do anyway.

And, I guess the bigger question to ask is yourself is; WHY do you have an interest in ANYTHING that they are doing ?

I place value on the fact they are human first, or I should say used to. That no matter how big the t~~~ are, they are still people.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

STEFAN MOLYNEUX: “A man can never be friends with an ex. How does that conversation go? ‘Hey, person I used to bang! Let me tell you about the new person I wanna bang!’ Cause that’s what friends do, right?”

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Mr Logic wrote:

I place value on the fact they are human first, or I should say used to. That no matter how big the t~~~ are, they are still people.

I don’t hate woman and will have conversations etc. with a couple/few, but I don’t consider them “friends” and they’re not exes. I think that it’s just a whole lot SIMPLER TO LIVE WITHOUT Them Hangin around in the background.

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[Anonymous 13]

You NEVER give them the satisfaction of knowing they got to you.

Telling her what she did 4 years ago just fed her ego.

She said ‘you’re bitter’, they all say that exact phrase and enjoy saying it in their perverse way because it means they got to you.

Always just GHOST.

They have no empathy or compassion.

Just an ego that likes to know it inflicted pain.

Leave the C~~~ wondering what she did.

NEVER CONTACT AGAIN.

[Mr LogicParticipant 625]

It’s weird. Even though I definitely feel MGTOW and want no relationships, I’m seeing my entire history unravel now and it’s for the good. It’s kind of disturbing knowing even she was a lie because I always thought of her as honest. A NAWALT. Boy am I learning.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Mr Logic wrote:

It’s weird. Even though I definitely feel MGTOW and want no relationships, I’m seeing my entire history unravel now and it’s for the good. It’s kind of disturbing knowing even she was a lie because I always thought of her as honest. A NAWALT. Boy am I learning.

Good for you.
Go monk!
Thank me when you are old.

Monk

[MurineesParticipant 704]

Females are LIABILITY.

Whether she is your mother, sisters, cousins, girlfriend, wife (BIGGEST), friends, classmates, coworkers, or even daughters.

Except for my daughter who I love and I would gladly take the liability. All others will get NFG from me.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Mr Logic wrote:

I place value on the fact they are human first, or I should say used to. That no matter how big the t~~~ are, they are still people.

No, sorry I’m calling bulls~~~ on this. YOu’re not in this for her as being a human or as a person. If a male friend treated you this way and made DEMANDS ON YOU (you said she demanded house/baby in 5 months), you wouldn’t still be hanging out with him. This is all about the t~~~.

Mr Logic wrote:

So I just dumped a female friend of mine.

The fact that you use the term “dumped” with a “friend” already proves she is not a friend in your eyes.

She dumped me because I couldn’t give her a baby and a house in the FIVE months I was with her.

So she’s incredibly entitled. Huge red flag. She did you a favor by ending it. You should have ended it and shouldn’t be anywhere near her.

Once I told her that she lied back then and wish she would admit it, she accused me of being bitter. I told her look…as a friend go f~~~ yourself. You burned me for bulls~~~ reasons. I don’t care if it’s 4 years ago. It sucked and I was friend zoned. Admit it or we are not buds. Besides, if you’re not over here blowing me once a week, what’s the point?

You just explained why you’re still hanging around her – to get an apology OR to get action OR both. Being “buds” is a lie. You know it and she knows it.

If you haven’t gotten an apology yet, you won’t. And if you do, it will be forced and thus insincere.

If you get action, it will just expose you to more hurt from this psycho. Dont do it. Just go no contact.

[Mr LogicParticipant 625]

surfdude12 wrote:

LordBrady wrote:

I place value on the fact they are human first, or I should say used to. That no matter how big the t~~~ are, they are still people.

No, sorry I’m calling bulls~~~ on this. YOu’re not in this for her as being a human or as a person. If a male friend treated you this way and made DEMANDS ON YOU (you said she demanded house/baby in 5 months), you wouldn’t still be hanging out with him. This is all about the t~~~.

LordBrady wrote:

So I just dumped a female friend of mine.

The fact that you use the term “dumped” with a “friend” already proves she is not a friend in your eyes.

She dumped me because I couldn’t give her a baby and a house in the FIVE months I was with her.

So she’s incredibly entitled. Huge red flag. She did you a favor by ending it. You should have ended it and shouldn’t be anywhere near her.

Once I told her that she lied back then and wish she would admit it, she accused me of being bitter. I told her look…as a friend go f~~~ yourself. You burned me for bulls~~~ reasons. I don’t care if it’s 4 years ago. It sucked and I was friend zoned. Admit it or we are not buds. Besides, if you’re not over here blowing me once a week, what’s the point?

You just explained why you’re still hanging around her – to get an apology OR to get action OR both. Being “buds” is a lie. You know it and she knows it.

If you haven’t gotten an apology yet, you won’t. And if you do, it will be forced and thus insincere.

If you get action, it will just expose you to more hurt from this psycho. Dont do it. Just go no contact.

S~~~. You’re right. I guess all this time so was holding on to something while trying to justify it at the same time. I’m glad you caught that.

[GregB0Participant]

Mr Logic wrote:

She was actually an ex

This was the problem from the start. You can’t remain friends with an Ex; be they Male, Female or a blue haired chimp.

Under no situation is this possible as they will always hold you to blame for past stuff, say that you have not grown, etc. etc. etc.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Ex girlfriend 101:
No contact, of any kind, ever…
Also, “female friends” is an oxymoron…

Why waste your time on either one?

[Anonymous 3]

Mr Logic wrote:

I place value on the fact they are human first, or I should say used to. That no matter how big the t~~~ are, they are still people.

Homeless are people to. How many of those are your friends? I would guess the same number as I have: zero.

Institutionalized insane are people to. How many of these humans you want as friends? The same as I: zero.

Now the thing about these humans is that they actually could need a friend, some human contact, attention.

Yet their neediness is exactly why most people avoid them.

On the other hand we are attracted to people that have something we want.

That is humanity for you…

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

There is zero point to female friends. Throw the sex issue out. Still zero point to it. You can’t act like a friend around a woman, they won’t let you. They cant stop being a woman around a man.

I tried in my earlier days in college and all it gets you is being an emotional tampon. They are not there for you. It isnt mutual reciprocation. you are only there for them.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 7]

Mr Logic wrote:

Besides, if you’re not over here blowing me once a week, what’s the point?

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Mr Logic wrote:

Awakened wrote:

I just wouldn’t have bothered interacting with her, and just GHOST on by.

NO POINT to conversing with her about ancient history, or really anything else.

It doesn’t matter anyways, just Ghost her and be done.

I totally hear you. Maybe I’m just getting deeper into the rabbit hole and understanding keeping women I dated around as friends is a total waste of time as they really have no interest in anything you do anyway.

WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU STAY FRIENDS WITH AN EX? WTF does that accomplish? I never understand guys who do this. I know someone who was friends with his chick, then dated her, then broke up with her and still is friends with her and they hang out. WHY? The only thing it leads to is them using you as an emotional tampon. Aside from being annoying, then you’re either friendzoned for life with that awkward cloud of “yeah, we dated” hanging over you, or eventually SOMEONE wants to get back together. Don’t waste your time. ICE THEM OUT.

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