Sorry guys it’s long but interesting (like my dick):
I am female. I support equal rights for all human beings. I am strongly against interfering with another human’s perception of gender which I feel feminism is presently involved in.
I would never have understood MGTOW if I hadn’t been doing research on the phenomenon of female emotional dysregulation during divorce. What you will find in researching this area is that women in increasing numbers are starting to display behaviors associated with personality disorders in their marriages and during and after divorce.
Women who are otherwise psychologically healthy are now becoming emotionally dysregulated.
during their marriages, often leading to disordered behavior towards their spouse.
People who work in family law have had to become familiar with the practice of female domestic violence and abuse towards their ex-spouse, parental alienation, criminal accusation during divorce proceedings, custody revenge, abuse of the family law system to attempt to destroy their ex financially and carefully carried out plans to ruin the future lives of their exes after the divorce is finalized.
Because those outside of family law still assume that women are not capable of engaging in this level of violence, criminality and anti-social behaviors toward their family members, especially when they are in other parts of their life meek and mild law-abiding citizens, any attempt to publicize this phenomenon is routinely met with derision.
To accept that this kind of behavior is common in women within domestic environments shakes our core beliefs in two ways.
One, it causes the liberal or feminist part of the Westernized population to question the long-held notion that patriarchy is the cause of female oppression. We now have the unique vantage point to find out what women do after they are freed from oppression.
In hindsight, we find that abuse of power is a human, not a male tendency. For the first time in history we now see that females are equally capable of abuse, violence, oppression and revenge as men.
The second way in which the crisis in female emotional dysregulation shakes our core values comes from the conservative part of the Westernized population. Personality-disordered behavior in women flies in the face of the conservative notion of the pureness and sanctity of women, particularly in areas of sexuality and the role of women in society as a protector of the family.
With the advent of the Internet, men who have found their family and personal lives destroyed by emotionally dysregulated spouses have been able to connect with other men who have been through the same experience. They have compared notes and realized this is a very common social phenomenon.
Early on the men’s rights movement made an attempt to educate others on this crisis, but because of peoples’ unwillingness to let go of their belief about women as a class that must be protected, attempts at education about a new generation of dysregulation in females was met with ridicule and from feminists was met with political attack.
The men’s rights movement was unsuccessful in getting anyone to believe that a considerable portion of the female population was engaging in behaviors associated with Cluster B personality disorders behind closed doors.
It is no surprise that men who have had their family life destroyed by personality-disordered women and have talked to hundreds of other men across the internet who went through the same experience are now willing to go underground to try to warn other men of this crisis in mental health through anonymous forums and blogs.
But it is very sad that the only way for men to stay out of psychological harm until these laws and precedents are changed is for men to say no to the institution of marriage and romantic entanglement. However, it is perhaps the only way to send the necessary signal that this crisis is a real problem that although painful for those who cling to old beliefs, must be addressed.
Anonymous 3 years, 10 months ago.
