Female cold shoulder

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  • #326752
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    DanceMyOwnWay
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    Lately I’ve been running into women I’ve dated and they either can’t give me eye contact, act cold and bitchy or variations of the above. Anyone else experienced this? I know I should care but I really don’t. These women were pretty much c~~~s in our involvement too. It’s like some kind of reverse psychology! Of course they can’t get enough of dancing Chad even though he’s a French shortarse. It feels more like a,minor annoyance than anything as I value the dancing itself over any female. Suggestions for rules of engagement? – some of them I CAN’T avoid as they are in my classes or vicinity. Cheers brothers.

    If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

    #326761
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    Truthseeker82
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    My first girlfriend saw me about 6 months after she dumped me. Was changing trains in lower Manhattan around rush hour. Was crowded but we both spotted each other. I yelled hello a few times – i know she saw and heard me. Walked straight past me with a bitch look on her face that could scare a tiger. After that I adopted a policy of ignoring any ex. Let their next Chad deal with their bulls~~~.

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    Pabsawake
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    Don’t think it just applies to women you dated. Seems to me they all act this way now.

    No f~~~s given here but woman walk around with their faces buried in their cell phones. Not even aware of their own surroundings. They no longer initiate any conversation or as you said yourself make eye contact.

    They no longer have any social skills.

    They have no reason to change as long as manginas keep going on these dating websites and do a monkey dance for them in bars and whatnot.

    Anyway brother I doubt you missed out on anything.

    "You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

    #326775
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    DanceMyOwnWay
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    Don’t think it just applies to women you dated. Seems to me they all act this way now.

    No f~~~s given here but woman walk around with their faces buried in their cell phones. Not even aware of their own surroundings. They no longer initiate any conversation or as you said yourself make eye contact.

    They no longer have any social skills.

    They have no reason to change as long as manginas keep going on these dating websites and do a monkey dance for them in bars and whatnot.

    Anyway brother I doubt you missed out on anything.

    No it’s deliberate. But I find it weird because if you’ve moved on, why even care? Just say hi and carry on. It’s childish, playing games and pointless. It makes you totally think yes I was so right to DTB.

    If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

    #326793
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    FrostByte
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    If she cold shoulders you it’s either a s~~~ test to see if you will pussy beg or she’s a bitch to avoid. Either way the response should be the same, go your own way.
    The whole point of this site is learn to stop caring, be unaffected, and focus on yourself.

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

    #326909
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    K
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    cold shoulder is a blessing.
    take it and be very very happy !
    do you really expect a child in a grown up body to behave any better ?
    women are like children,
    spoiled rotten bratty children.
    take the cold shoulder.
    it beats the conversation she would have with you any day..

    #326934
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    Phantom
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    I take the cold shoulder treatment as a compliment now. When a female does this to me, regardless of why, I know that she could have been a bitch & starting bitching about whatever she felt like, but instead decided to keep her mouth shut & not pull that s~~~ on me.

    I don’t care why she didn’t pitch a fit & bitch, but was thankful for it all the same. Besides, I am ghosting by them anyway more times than not, so it works for me.

    #326972
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    Stargazer
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    F~~~ ’em. They either hate you for something good or bad you did or didn’t do. Knowing women, they’re probably just p~~~ed off that you not having them in your life didn’t kill you.

    You’re better off without them… but if you come across one in a bar, buy her a few shots, tell her to meet you in the ladies’ room then send someone else in your place and leave.

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    Phantom
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    Amen Doc!

    #326989
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    Solid
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    She just want a good ego massage, tons of attention. The narcissistic bitch just want to watch how much you will crawl back to her. Just for her amusement, just to watch you suffer.

    She just wanna see how pathetic you are, how much you will beg just for a vagina.

    What to do ? Go your own way, don’t worth the effort, seriously. That’s MGTOW, do your stuff, you your own way, leave that future cat lady aside, go enjoy your life.

    If you have to insist, it will never worth your time.

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    Kaido
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    I take it as a blessing when they brush me off or give me the cold shoulder. The less attention I have from them the better. Couldn’t be happier. Saves me the trouble of having to brush them off myself.

    What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

    #327090
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    DanceMyOwnWay
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    Good responses. I have this one girl at a dance class I go to who could potentially cause some trouble. When we are practising routines we have to circle the room and therefore dance with all the women. So she danced in a way to make it as difficult as possible for me to move her. I later called her out on this and she looked off in the distance looking superior. I’m considering point blank refusing to dance with her whenever it’s her turn. But get this – I never even slept with this chick. About ten months ago we met up a few times – once to a dance social and then she came to my place the second time. She was hung up on an ex and tried to friendzone me after I nearly slept with her. Then I cut things off with her fairly soon after that. So it’s not like some vindictive ex but she seems intent on coming to my class, which I’ve always really enjoyed and I’m pretty sure she will try to turn other women against me too and some are potential sex prospects. It’s annoying and it’s bulls~~~ and I wish she’d p~~~ off and dance away into the sunset!!

    If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

    #327091
    DanceMyOwnWay
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    F~~~ ’em. They either hate you for something good or bad you did or didn’t do. Knowing women, they’re probably just p~~~ed off that you not having them in your life didn’t kill you.

    You’re better off without them… but if you come across one in a bar, buy her a few shots, tell her to meet you in the ladies’ room then send someone else in your place and leave.

    And out of all proportion to involvement. I like your advice Doc but I’d rather not waste my money on shots for females when I could be treating myself to a delicious pint of real ale! 🙂

    If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

    #327182
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    Fermat
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    Don’t think it just applies to women you dated. Seems to me they all act this way now.

    No f~~~s given here but woman walk around with their faces buried in their cell phones. Not even aware of their own surroundings. They no longer initiate any conversation or as you said yourself make eye contact.

    They no longer have any social skills.

    They have no reason to change as long as manginas keep going on these dating websites and do a monkey dance for them in bars and whatnot.

    Yep. Im on a college campus and Snapchat, Instagram, and GroupMe are the only language these women speak. If you don’t have at least two of those, they give you the blank stare. I have not had a extended conversation with any women because they are VERY difficult to approach and they all have that sour look on their face like they took a s~~~ with glass in it the night before. They are not fun to study with or hang out with, so I cannot imagine how intolerable they are in the workplace.

    I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

    #327370
    Pabsawake
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    Laughing my ass off I love the glass laced s~~~ reference.

    "You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

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