Feels great to be MGTOW!! Boom!

[ChurchillParticipant 28]

Hello MGTOW friends!

I join this website seeking the guidance of all you seasoned veterans. I am so genuinely excited to have finally found a circle of like minded males. Even though this is my first post, I have spent time soaking up the ample amount of wisdom offered in these forums. I haven’t even made one post yet and I am already grateful for this forum. With every post you are inspiring men whom you don’t even know exist, and I can vouch for that personally. Thank you. And with that, allow me to introduce myself.

I am 23 years old- no girlfriend, no wife, no kids.

Growing up, I was painfully shy. Regarding dating, I guess I was a “late bloomer” as they say (stupid expression); never went out on a date until I started college. I started off pretty blue pill, and the worst part was that it took me several years to even realize how much of a mangina I truly was. Now I have to live with these flashbacks- I call them “mangina PTSD moments,” where some of the blue pill crap that I said/did pops into my head from the past, and I absolutely cringe. I cringe because I see some of these girls and ask myself, “WTF were you thinking, trying to win the approval of ANYONE, let alone these entitled, insufferable #$$%?”

I have only been out with about 10 different girls. In hindsight, although many of them were very attractive physically, NOT ONCE did I walk away from a date with any of them thinking, “wow I am glad that I spent time with this person, I had fun. This date was worth my time and money.” But of course I was too smitten with their looks to even realize this at the time. Pretty much every date followed the same basic blueprint:

– Take girl out.
– Struggle to listen to girl talk incessantly about her BS.
– Take criticism for any time I forget some inane fact about her life.
– Pay for whatever it is we are doing.
– Go in for a kiss
– Get the cheek
– Drop her off without even hearing “thank you.”

And so in summary, I took the red pill not because of a singular defining moment, but out of a newfound sense of self respect. I am tired of being embarrassed. Embarrassed over having been a people-pleaser. Embarrassed that I bothered to spend even the most minute amount of my time and money on people who saw me as disposable. Embarrassed that I was born into what has become a brainwashed, PC generation that shames masculinity and is convinced that males are supposed to be a collection of pathetic, submissive, pussy-whipped, metrosexual social justice warriors. Millennials make me want to puke.

Haven’t been out with a girl since I took the red pill. Maybe eventually I will decide to give it a shot again, but lately I’ve been too disgusted. Plus I am perfectly happy with my life- studying for the CPA exam, learning a sales job, surfing, gym, NFL Sundays, and the occasional jerk-off session. I have a great life and I wouldn’t trade it for anything!

Thanks for reading. I look forward to getting to know you all.

-Churchill

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Welcome … and the great thing about the red pill …

Even if you do go back and play … that little red gem will keep you safe and on alert.

You thought they were vacuous shells before? ….. give it a go on pills …. it really is a cluster fk ?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Spectacular intro, Churchill. Thanks for dropping it! A real testimonial.

Churchill wrote:

“WTF were you thinking, trying to win the approval of ANYONE, let alone these entitled, insufferable #$$%?”

Some guys don’t ask themselves hard questions until they are in their late 30s and beyond. In 20 years you will look back (in a way you can’t possibly grasp now) how many lightyears ahead you really are. But don’t berate yourself TOO much. You were carefully conditioned to be a people pleaser. Its’ not your fault.

I was red-pill very early, but am guilty of some VERY embarrassing blue-pill / beta behaviors in my travels. Like if I had a date, I would get a haircut (even if I didn’t really need one)… maybe buy a new shirt…… wash and vacuum the car and stress out over making everything just nice and right. Get my shoes polished, shave twice, stress out over arriving on time, making reservations and getting tickets in advance, always bring a little gift if I was invited somewhere – that sort of thing. I really made an effort to show a girl a good time. It didn’t make a goddam bit of difference. Women who WANTED to screw me came over when the place was a mess, when I hadn’t freshly showered, didn’t shave, when it wasn’t convenient and pleasing them was utterly futile.

An approval-seeking mentality is CANCER and it will kill you. It doesn’t even work to get you laid.

Last night. I was out with a girl I knew for at least 5 years but I hadn’t seen her in 2 1/2 years. We had dinner. She’s cool and half my age. YOUNG. Red pill chick all the way. Her father is a red-pill comedian. She told me about a guy she had a one-night stand with a couple of weeks ago. He was rugged, “hott”, had tattoos on his neck, his hair was a mess, he was dressed all ratty, and she admitted he basically treated her like s~~~. Ignored her. Didn’t call when he said he would. etc. She loved that and she screwed him.

Then he called again….. and again….. and she agreed to meet him. He showed up with perfect hair (which he now DYED darker). His shoes were polished, he was dressed in a crisp shirt “for a date”, dress pants. Snappy shoes and he asked HER where she wanted to go. She said her vagina dried up on the spot. She was sitting across from me telling me all of it. Granted she is young, and when she’s 36 or 40 – or even much much sooner(!!) -I she will be wondering why there are no “gentlemen” around anymore.

I will be sure to remind her of our conversation last night.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome brother churchill ! cheers ! ..

[No CountryParticipant 759]

Welcome Churchill. Glad that you are here among a spectacular group of people. I am also new to this website but took the red pill about a year ago. I’m 25 and in the same shoes as you are, but damn I envy that you found it younger than I did. You my friend are a smart man. Once again welcome.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Welcome aboard the freedom ship man,you will start to feel a shift as well as a sense of power as you digest the red pill and the rage subsizes. Its like knowing where the gold is buried while the rest of the world is frantically searching. Embrace it,dump your mental hard drive of all the gynocentric lies you were taught since birth and start over building a life for YOU by YOU. Enjoy the ride brother!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! And ditto to the above posts.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Welcome Churchill, great introduction and I’m pleased yet ANOTHER young mgtow is created after the red pill slips down!
You will know that between the old farts here, (me included!), and all the younger men that are more enlightened than ‘we were’, at your age, this site is picking up many members every day.
11047 members as of today and I think it’s great that because you young men now have the tools and knowledge to avoid the years of crap that marriage/ltr’s are full of!
In the years ahead, think of YOURSELF and YOUR real worth.
Young mgtow’s here, YOU are the ‘prize’, NOT the delicate cupcake sleeping beauty, Disney Princess. She will of course show her true colours after you and your resources are safely gathered – more akin to the evil stepmother, evil Queen etc, (and that’s the truth!)
Welcome again and become more enlightened for the benefit of us all.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome, we are going to see more young MGTOW like yourself as time goes by.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 42]

@winston, that’s what we should call you,,,,
Bro, you sound like a Neville Chamberlain turned Winston Churchill! You got my nomination for MGHOW of the week! Great intro!

And me, I’m just sand in the crotch of feminism; “MG-Tower”. Welcome to MGTOW, where sanity is undisturbed..

Neville Chamberlain said:

”My good friends, for the second time in our history, a British Prime Minister has returned from Germany bringing peace with honor.
I believe it is peace for our time…
Go home and get a nice quiet sleep.”

Winston Churchill said:
“Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.
If you’re going through hell, keep going.”
“Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak. Courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.”

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome Churchill!
I am glad you are here and that you figured thing out so early. Good for you.
Many of us try to show men the dangers and misery of marriage. You can now tell others about how it’s like if you avoid that in the first place.
Knowing what NOT to do is important. Seeing what you COULD be doing is equally important.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

It seems like women are less and less tactful, as more and more men are no longer looking forward to the trip to marriage hell.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Churchill wrote:

– Take girl out.
– Struggle to listen to girl talk incessantly about her BS.
– Take criticism for any time I forget some inane fact about her life.
– Pay for whatever it is we are doing.
– Go in for a kiss
– Get the cheek
– Drop her off without even hearing “thank you.”

Welcome brother!

The list should be:
-Be rude to random birch in the bar, she will get wet.
-Take her home and f~~~ her (wear a condom)
-Drop her off in the parkin lot outside the pub where you found her and tell her to f~~~ off
-Rinse and repeat with her best friend

To be honest i guess its best just to stay away from them, but i cant…..yet

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[ChurchillParticipant 28]

Hey all,

When I posted my introduction a couple of days ago, I was excited. I was soliciting quality responses from some of the most respected members of the MGTOW army. When I logged on today, I was immensely pleased to see that my efforts had paid off; this welcome is nothing short of exceptional and I feel confident that it’s the beginning of a life-changing journey. Cheers to standing tall, and thank you for the warm welcome!

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