Fear of death?

[AutoliteParticipant]

cj023 wrote:

I hate asking, but if you knew tomorrow was it, would you be ok with it?

It would bother me. I’m suppose to get my teeth cleaned tomorrow and I don’t want to have to reschedule that again!!!

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Oh to see them again….tears…

I don’t think I’d really want to see any of my dead relatives ever again! I owe them all money…

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I p~~~ on death.

I went through a nasty ass divorce and got s~~~ out the other end. I faced many of my fears in the past 8 years.

Death can have me right now, it would be ok. I am not afraid.

A guy dies and goes straight to HELL where he meets SATAN.

Satan says to the guy; “Prepare to spend an agonizing eternity so horrific and terrifying that it’s far beyond all human comprehension”!

The guy says to Satan; “You don’t scare me Satan. I’ve been MARRIED THREE TIMES“!

Satan says back to the guy; “You wanna job”???

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

When I put my critters to sleep, I allways put my right hand on their head as they Die. I can feel their Little Spirits pass through my hand at the moment they die.

I once held a cute tiny little kitten while it died (with my hands around it’s neck). The little f~~~er fought me all the way too!!!

[Repulsive RalfParticipant 356]

I am being investigated for a heart problem at the moment, having an angiogram on the 15th, even that sounds worrying as I will have to stop taking the Beta-Blockers and they are talking about bringing on the symptoms and that I might pass out, which I read as my heart might stop.
What I really feel is sadness, sad that I had a childhood of abuse neglect and children’s homes, sad that all I ever wanted was to love and be loved by a woman and have children to love, none of it happened, all life has been is going to work in a hidden slavery.
My childhood dream to have a house in the country with a pond full of frogs will also never be realised.
I belive in God and had a relationship but wasn’t good enough for him so the scripture about it being better for me to have never been born hangs over my head.
Then again maybe they wont even do the angiogram as I am supposed to have somebody close with me for the procedure, in case I die to take the body home?, but I have nobody, perhaps I will have to hire a prostitute to pretend to be somebody who cares a damn if I live or die?

[SweetDaddyDom420Participant 391]

Fear of death??? Hell no. If I could choose death without suicide, I would. I just don’t want to be the one to pull the trigger. I know what that would mean for my soul. I am TIRED. Tired of having to go to work, when my body aches every day of my life. Tired of waking up still tired. Tired of seeing the depravity and the evil in this world. Tired of my frustration over the entire female experience. Tired of being confused. Tired of living in fear. I am just plain tired, and a nice long dirt nap sounds amazing. I have a good heart. I have made my peace with God. So either I will go to join loved ones I have lost, or I will have absolutely no awareness of anything ever again. Either way, I am ready to go. My bags are packed.

[cj023Participant 723]

Thanks to all who responded, I’ve just noticed every man I’ve looked in the eye while he takes his final breaths, he just seems to smirk and and looks at me and tries so hard to tell me a ‘secret’ that I don’t know…. well now I really know mgtow

[MonkGParticipant 21]

The best way to stop the fear of death is to face it. Go do something risky or join the military. You will face death so many times that it will become normal to you.

I personally don’t fear death but I am concerned about the way I might die. I wish to die while sleeping ( best death ever ). Other than that, I live my life day by day.

[MonkGParticipant 21]

To Repulsive Ralf: Dude the insecurity in you annoys the heck out of me. Come on man.
I opened you profile I read this ‘Repulsive to women as you can see, therefore, never married, never even had a girlfriend longer than three months.’ The only reason that you are lonely is that you are not confident, you feel like you are less than anyone else.
You look with all honesty …. good, not great and not bad. But you have to remember it is not about the look, it is about the act, the charisma. I feel god loved you that’s why he kept you single, but if you want you can change it.

The past is past. Don’t think of it. And I hope god will give your another chance, and I wish you health to get better. I hope you get along with some woman and realise the meaning of MGTOW.

Stay Strong man

[KeymasterKeymaster]

cj023 wrote:

Actually it would be nice seeing some insight how to get over this fear.

You didn’t say how old you are, but I am quite sure that makes a difference.

I was NOT EVEN REMOTELY prepared to face or accept death – until my father/ teachers / mentors / heros died. Then I started thinking about it more maybe c.2011. My morality just wasn’t on the brain. It STILL isn’t, really.

What I don’t want is to go out “helplessly” (like stuck in a plane going down), or getting killed by an idiot because of someone else’s stupidity or incompetence – or by a random psycho. That would make me so f~~~ing mad in my last seconds.

All I know is…. before I am old and have Alzheimer’s, I will hang a Batman costume in my closet – just to f~~~ with my own head.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 54]

Autolite.Thanks for the humor!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MonkG wrote:

To Repulsive Ralf: I opened you profile I read this ‘Repulsive to women as you can see, therefore, never married, never even had a girlfriend longer than three months.’ The only reason that you are lonely is that you are not confident, you feel like you are less than anyone else.
You look with all honesty …. good, not great and not bad.

When Ralph FIRST joined our website on the first day, I sent him a very similar message to cut that “repulsive” part out. It pained me to see a man with such a low self-deprecation opinion of himself and told him too –>> you’re definitely NOT “repulsive”.

Im not even saying this to be tough on him! I really like the guy too!

I’m not “repulsive” either. Not by a long shot. But I tell you — >> even when you look pretty good to women they will INTENTIONALLY treat you like you look like Shrek. When women are attracted you, they actually PRETEND they aren’t. Oh yes!! You can take that to the bank.

You know how many times exactly this happened to me?

What women think is not a reflection of you and you must NEVER base your self worth on it.

Worst thing you can do.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Autolite.Thanks for the humor!

The “Man meets Satan” joke was from the late Sam Kinison (R.I.P.)…

https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/s/sam_kinison.html

[Anonymous 54]

cj023 wrote:

Thanks to all who responded, I’ve just noticed every man I’ve looked in the eye while he takes his final breaths, he just seems to smirk and and looks at me and tries so hard to tell me a ‘secret’ that I don’t know…. well now I really know mgtow

This makes me smirk! Oh oh….Really this is great to read. Im fine with dieing with no one around me. But if there were, I would definatley want it to be Men.With Autolite makein jokes about it!!!!

[MonkGParticipant 21]

When Ralph FIRST joined our website on the first day, I sent him a very similar message to cut that “repulsive” part out. It pained me to see a man with such a low self-deprecation opinion of himself and told him too –>> you’re definitely NOT “repulsive”.

I’m glad that I am not the only one feeling that way. The man needs help. I wish if I could do something for him. All that I can do is wish he get better and get back his confident or build a one.

hen women are attracted you, they actually PRETEND they aren’t

I must agree on this one as well

[Repulsive RalfParticipant 356]

Keymaster wrote:

sam wrote:

To Repulsive Ralf: I opened you profile I read this ‘Repulsive to women as you can see, therefore, never married, never even had a girlfriend longer than three months.’ The only reason that you are lonely is that you are not confident, you feel like you are less than anyone else.
You look with all honesty …. good, not great and not bad.

When Ralph FIRST joined our website on the first day, I sent him a very similar message to cut that “repulsive” part out. It pained me to see a man with such a low self-deprecation opinion of himself and told him too –>> you’re definitely NOT “repulsive”.

Im not even saying this to be tough on him! I really like the guy too!

I’m not “repulsive” either. Not by a long shot. But I tell you — >> even when you look pretty good to women they will INTENTIONALLY treat you like you look like Shrek. When women are attracted you, they actually PRETEND they aren’t. Oh yes!! You can take that to the bank.

You know how many times exactly this happened to me?

What women think is not a reflection of you and you must NEVER base your self worth on it.

Worst thing you can do.

Thanks to both you guys.
Whilst I do appear to be “repulsive” to the very few women I find attractive enough to actually want, the chosen moniker is more a statement against the high standards of modern women, I consider I was very good looking, as an ex National Championship level racing cyclist, I have always been fit, always had a job, ex-military, home-owner, IQ of 125+
But still not good enough for the stuck up girls of London. Most of the women I used to date were Irish.
I do have a self-depreciating air however, and back when that picture was taken, I wasn’t the most confident of guys where emotional attachments are concerned. I blame that on my own Mother abandoning me twice and putting me in a children’s home.
The real reason I never went out with anyone more than three months was because I dumped them, I just cannot stand being attached to anybody even though I have always craved such.
I could never “settle”, I have to really, really like somebody in order to be able to stand prolonged company, but a few more meaningless shags would have been nice. Though I now remember I didn’t actually go out of my way to meet such, they always wanted sexual encounters to turn romantic and I hated the pain I caused them so just avoided them.
One girl I dated for a few weeks did tell me her and her friend used to “ogle” me, when I asked why they hadn’t made advances, she said I looked “un-approachable”which I guess I did used to.
I now try and wear a pleasant face and am quite popular at work, but I do not find any women of my age group attractive I am afraid and do reject advances from them. I am on a dating site even though I have given up dating after the last mad women, just tonight I got another two women messaging me, but I just ignore them. I have lost the emotional desire I once had for them and the sexual desire is a lot more trouble than is worth, but so many decades of being alone gets quite boring really, but I do acknowledge that the woman I wanted during my “repulsive” years probably didnt exist anyway.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Repulsive Ralf wrote:

Whilst I do appear to be “repulsive” to the very few women I find attractive enough to actually want, the chosen moniker is more a statement against the high standards of modern women,

I understand that!! Completely. And relieved to hear you say it.

Repulsive Ralf wrote:

But still not good enough for the stuck up girls of London.

Well…. he he…. so what.

If you don’t mind my saying, I am rather well-traveled, and the UK has some of the fattest, drunkest, most obnoxious donkey-sounding c~~~s in the world. No disrespect to the Union Jack.

Repulsive Ralf wrote:

I could never “settle”, I have to really, really like somebody in order to be able to stand prolonged company, but a few more meaningless shags would have been nice.

Less than 2 days ago I actually read this fact from a study.
(Sorry I didn’t bookmark it)

The short version…..

Most women regret having too many “one-night stands”.

Alarming numbers of men allowed themselves to “get too involved” and regret not having enough “one-night stands”.

So there you go.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Nick6923645Participant 253]

Thanks for all the humor and insight. I am on the down hill slope. Although I am as strong as ever (I have worked out all my life) as each year goes by now I am getting slower, no matter what I do. My friends who were never in shape do not have/see this problem. I have just come to accept feeling like the tin man in the WofO, but the oil does not work anymore. I do not fear death, as was said earlier, I don’t remember the time before I was born and won’t remember after I die. What I fear is being imprisoned in my body with a functional mind. As far as alzheimer’s, I already have 3 great movies set aside to watch over and over and over. Dieing in my sleep would be the second best way to die, the first would be to have an aneurysm while bonking Emma Watson, (I know but for some reason I think she is hot!)

condemnation before investigation = ignorance

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