Fatherhood theif

[RedPilledParticipant 12]

Hi lads,

My name is Trev and my story blows!

4 years ago I met a girl, 2.5 years ago I put 40k down on a house and started making payments (I had to put her on title as her tiny income put me into a place where I could take the mortgage), 1.5 years ago we got married, 15 months ago we decided to have a child, 6.5 months ago she f~~~ed me over worse than I could have possibly imagined.

The time during the pregnancy was the best time we ever had together. The joy and excitement of becoming a family made everything so much more rich.

Then she gave birth, a week afterwards she had huge tantrum about some friends coming over to have a glass of bourbon and a cigar with me to celebrate my sons birth. She got so angry after she left, she threw a full beer bottle than landed about 4 feet from our newborn son and broke, throwing glass and beer everywhere. Two weeks after that, she left to go see her mom and a lactation consultant on Vancouver Island. She did not return until my son was three months old! She literally stole that time with my newborn son from me. The whole time me pleading that she come home so we could be a family, and that leaving and letting things stagnate was not the way to go. A month after her return, she left for the island again, with my son of course. This time saying we were gettting a divorce. She came back ten days later and apologized and said she’d never do it again. Less than two months after that she was making my life so miserable I asked if she thought separation was a good idea… she jumped all over that! She has move down out and we are now about to enter into mediation, with a woman presiding of course. She wants, half the increased value of the house, about thirty grand, and child support, and whatever’s else her greedy fingers can get.

This is an incredibly digested version of events and just the main gist. To try and convey the entirety would leave my fingers raw and you guys with tired eyes… I gaurentee you wouldn’t be bored by it however! The tale is full of lies and deceit and unbelievably selfish behaviour. The worst part is she believes her own bulls~~~, which is virtually impossible to deal with. How do you argue anything with someone who isn’t confined by the rules of reality!?

Anyway, I suffer great pain from not being with my son… to the point where I want to end it all, but I’m not a selfish t~~~ like she is and would never do that to my family and friends.

…..sorry for lack of symbols and numbers after first paragraph, iPad decided not to let me use symbols keyboard, POS….

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome brother. You don’t argue will them. Ignore them. I know you will have to go thru the process to try and see your son. But cut her out of your life now.

[AttonParticipant]

To little guidance is given to men with the interests of men in mind. It is clear that your case is a pretty good example of the consequences of this problem. Either way welcome to the forum Trev.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Welcome to the forums Trev. A brother of an ex GF had the same type of thing happen to him. Wife spit out the first kid, then ignored him, left, filed for divorce within three months. Same thing happened to an ex co-worker. Seen this too many times now for me to think “That wouldn’t happen to me” I hope it all works out for you brother.

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

Welcome.

Sorry to hear about all the past (and future) loss time with your son, it’s heartbreaking

Stay strong though brother, you always have people here to talk to if/when you need it.

[RedPilledParticipant 12]

Thanks Gents!

I truly appreciate the kind words and sentiment.

I apologize for all the spelling mistakes and grammatical errors in my introduction, I was being thwarted by a laggy iPad and autocorrect (the second most irrating thing on planet Earth!)

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Welcome brother.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 13]

Welcome Trev.

Sorry to hear you got f~~~ed over.

C~~~s doing what c~~~s do, f~~~ing good men over all across the globe.

Walk away from these c~~~s, never return to these toxic creatures.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Trev
Beer’s in the fridge

[NeroParticipant 1466]

It’s not YOU, it’s these f~~~ed up C~~~S. Do not, for one second, blame yourself for any of this. These c~~~s could not care less about you when they move on. They are vile. This is a very harsh story, my friend. The silver lining is that you just got out of jail very fast and already learned a lesson that took me about 18 years to learn.

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome to the exodus, our numbers are growing exponentially for damn good reasons!

Thanks for giving us one more person with one more reason!

Put her out of your mind and out of your life forever, and don’t make the same mistake ever again!

GIVE THEM NOTHING!

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome, man. Always be strong and ignore the c~~~s as much as possible. I hope things getting better for you and your son.

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