Family is the most important thing

[Anonymous 38]

I find this a very blue pill statement. It’s at the root of the justification for keeping a man on the plantation.

I have never been close to my family. Mostly I was p~~~ed off with them for acting like assholes – needless to say this is pretty much only limited to the women in my family, in particular my mother and sister. I also felt it was tribalistic bulls~~~. Maybe I would have felt differently had I been from a loving family. I look at uncles and the like and see how they are utterly used for their wallets and general masculine strength. I wonder if they feel valued or if they are depressed because they see it too.

I occasionally feel something when I see families working together and being there for each other. I want to believe in it, but the red pill thinking comes crashing down, it’s just another concept. And it’s not like they particularly have my back anyway, the times when I did support my family I felt like it was a one-sided exchange.

We live, we die. You can have a large family around you until death, even in your room when you’re dying, and it means little unless you were truly loved and respected (and treated as such) by those people. Many people live lives entwined with family and still die alone anyway. Death is just a moment, it’s what happened before that counts.

How did your outlook on family change since becoming red pilled?

[Anonymous 12]

My mother is always saying this. She even says about family members I have never met or care about. To me they are just people and I am not close to the ones I know and grew up with let alone complete strangers who happen to be related to me.

My outlook on family has always been the same even when I was Blue Pill.

[UntamedParticipant]

Depends what family and what that word entails. My family is my children, period.
Most families aren’t even worth the word, most “family” members aren’t worth to be called friends.

My dad used to say “Stangers’re better than family” and I can second that having had proof out of all my travels.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 42]

Family is the most important thing

Not according to modern female empowerment, no sir, women and whatever the f~~~ they want is the most important thing!

We as men may feel a little indifferent about that, but since when did we matter?

Give them nothing…

[Anonymous 38]

Anonymous wrote:

Family is the most important thing

Not according to modern female empowerment, no sir, women and whatever the f~~~ they want is the most important thing!

True Tower.

Anonymous wrote:

My mother is always saying this.

Once a woman has lost her allure she has nothing to offer anyone, that’s why women need family more than men. It’s their life support in old age. A cat cannot offer you much support, and you can’t nag a cat either.

We can look after our own s~~~, support others AND manage to enjoy life on our own. Very few women can do this.

Untamed wrote:

Most families aren’t even worth the word, most “family” members aren’t worth to be called friends.

Truth. It’s so typical of women to take you for granted when they know they ‘can’, i.e. you’re tied to them by blood or marriage. I only see my family once or twice a year, I would have nothing to do with a lot of them if they were not related.

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

Family are just people I’ve known a long time.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[ZombieVaderParticipant 99]

In today’s world, family means little- everyone’s belly is full. It’s why women are feral- SOMEONE’S gonna pay for her, cuz vagina!

For most of our existence, though- family WAS LIFE.
Without blood and tribe, you died.

The trick, today, is to try to make your blood family WORTH being FAMILY with.

Otherwise, our friends, well chosen, have to be our family.

Better The Corner Of A Rooftop....

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

You are the most important thing in your life.

[SantiagoParticipant 144]

I would wonder how many of the family crowded around a man’s deathbed are primarily concerned with whether and how much they’re being Willed.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Family IS OPTIONAL……Many May Think It Sad, But Most Can’t Handle Too Many Truths Anyhow…..

People are Born, and People Die, People Come, and People Go….

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9544]

Family is just a group of people who nag and tell you how to live your life instead of letting you figure things out on your own, or doing things on your own.

The women in my life are the worst, on my dad’s side especially. They nag, make fun of you, get outraged when you say or do something they disagree with, order you around, make you feel guilty, slap around, mettle in my business. While the males just sit there and take it. I just put my headphones on and ignore their bulls~~~!

Hell, I had to take 30 minutes of bulls~~~ from my, then 17 year old female cousin and two aunts why it’s wrong for me to play the lottery with MY money, and have a good time with it! My cousin in about to be 20 and she still orders me around and tells me off about the real world as if I’m married to her! Again, I put on headphones, because no 35 year old should be taking guff from a teenager!

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

Only your father created your life.

He could have done it with any female.

If you value your own life it is natural
to value the life of your father.

My father is in heaven now and owns
this flesh he created because I have
in fact given myself back to my
creator in heaven.

My father has died yet lives again
through me.

I have to say: “I do not care how blue pilled
it sounds to you or anyone for that matter,
“I love my father in heaven above all others.
Where he lives I am also”.

Love and respect to all

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2145]

I have nine relatives who live within a miles radius of my house and I haven’t seen some of them in a decade. Hell, one of my uncles lives four blocks away and I have never stepped foot in his house.

Family and relatives – I might be related to them, but I don’t relate to them.

I don’t hate them, or wish them ill will, but I have my own life and own interests to pursue.

I don’t even go to weddings or funerals (I know, same thing) any more.

Lots of guilt and manipulation in families and I no longer want any part of that.

If I die alone, so be it. At least I’ll die a happy, free man.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

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