Falsely accused of assault

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Stay strong. You did right.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

One phone call. That’s all it takes.

“Life can change in the blink of an eye. What we know, what we love — it can all change.
Our comfort, our security, our home — it can all be taken away.
One phone call can change everything. One phone call can take a well-ordered plan and leave us without a compass.
That’s all it takes — one phone call. And then we are left to begin again, start over, find a new home.
In the blink of an eye. ”

The irony is the above quote came from a woman. I guess she would know…

http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/1182377-life-can-change-in-the-blink-of-an-eye-what

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Back in Black wrote:

T I saw that second girl talking with a female in her late 30’s. I asked the mother if that was her kid. She said it was. I was kind of rattled and said something like, what’s the problem (or something like that). The mother replied that my son told the girl I was swearing at/about the girls. I denied it and got my kids and got the f~~~ out of there. (I know I should never have sworn about the kid). And I should never have even addressed the mother.

Sounds like the mom just complained about you swearing? and not an “assault”? From what I read, it was the second girl on the rink who said you “bumped” her (WTF , the second girl sounds like a third year law student).

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Blade,
I have much respect for you. Good job undoing all the s~~~ your ex puts in their heads. I do the same thing. It sucks that the children are being harmed by these women. I consider it child abuse and wish the courts would recognize it for what it is.
BIB

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Machiavelli,

I hadn’t thought of cctv’s. Great idea. I am going to look into this.

BIB

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

It sucks that the world we live in makes “masculine” traits of: respect, honor, trust, loyalty and integrity and renders them nearly meaningless.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

M52,
Sorry to hear what happened to you. Your kids needed you to be their father and do that s~~~ with them. The world is poorer for this loss.
BIB

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[AutoliteParticipant]

Back in Black wrote:

And I should never have even addressed the mother.

You need to understand and follow the rules when dealing with women.

1) If encountering a women by mistake, just back away slowly. Never run as it will trigger their natural instinct to attack.

2) Avoid all eye contact. The woman will perceive this as a threat and dial 911.

3) Never attempt to feed a woman. This will only encourage them to come back looking for more to eat.

4)Never leave money or credit cards laying around out in the open. Women are attracted by the scent.

5)When in an area where an encounter with women might be likely, carry some sort of self defence weapon like a heavy cane or walking stick that can be used to ward off an attack. Some women will even back away if you were simply to flash a small crucifix.

6) In a worst case scenario and an attack occurs, drop to the ground, roll into a ball, cover your head with you arms and play dead.

You might get slightly mauled, cut and bruised but the woman will eventually leave you alone if she thinks that she’s won…

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Thanks Autolite, thats some creative and funny s~~~!

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[Anonymous 0]

I just realized that I’d hate to be a school teacher in these times. F~~~! I’d have to wear at least 2 body cams at all times, a car cam, home cams, classroom cams…

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Get cameras.

Paranoia and narcissism are virtues when you go your own way.

Monk

[AutoliteParticipant]

Back in Black wrote:

Thanks Autolite, thats some creative and funny s~~~!

Thanks for the kudos but I can’t take the credit. I just repeated something that I read in a survival guide/pamphlet that I found at a men’s homeless shelter…

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

ask to see the CCTV footage and have them removed once the evidence supported you. Thank God I don’t have kids either,

[Yojimbo RockfordParticipant 348]

Get the f~~~ out of Commiefornia if at all possible.

[ConstantineParticipant 4416]

Back in Black wrote:

The second little girl then said something very strange. She said, “as long as we are all clear on what actually happened”. It was all very bizarre and I dont think I even responded to her final retort.

That’s a remark that she would’ve once overheard. It’s probably how her mum always wins arguments. Mum makes that comment = daddy immediately loses. She was probably waiting for a chance to show off the line to a stranger.

Back in Black wrote:

I just figured out why it was so difficult to write this story – its because I am afraid of a little girl.

You have good reason to be. They can be demons. They are raised to be that way from the word go. Back when I worked at a video store, I remember this guy coming in once with his little girl, who looked no older than five. They had a complaint about a movie that they’d hired the previous day. But rather than addressing it with me like an adult, he wanted to teach his five-year-old how to complain. He started saying, “Come on love, complain to the man. Tell him what your problem was.” He dictated everything that she needed to say. I knew almost instantly what he was thinking. In his head, he was teaching her out to stick up for herself. But what he was really doing was showing her how to make a scene. Truth be, I don’t think that the girl even cared that much about why they were there. Can’t you at least wait until she’s old enough to understand what she’s bitching about? That was years ago. She’d be grown by now, and is probably a c~~~ thanks to him.

That’s how early they start. They’re building a goddamn army.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[Anonymous 3]

Autolite wrote:

Back in Black wrote:

And I should never have even addressed the mother.

You need to understand and follow the rules when dealing with women.

1) If encountering a women by mistake, just back away slowly. Never run as it will trigger their natural instinct to attack.

2) Avoid all eye contact. The woman will perceive this as a threat and dial 911.

3) Never attempt to feed a woman. This will only encourage them to come back looking for more to eat.

4)Never leave money or credit cards laying around out in the open. Women are attracted by the scent.

5)When in an area where an encounter with women might be likely, carry some sort of self defence weapon like a heavy cane or walking stick that can be used to ward off an attack. Some women will even back away if you were simply to flash a small crucifix.

6) In a worst case scenario and an attack occurs, drop to the ground, roll into a ball, cover your head with you arms and play dead.

You might get slightly mauled, cut and bruised but the woman will eventually leave you alone if she thinks that she’s won…

That had me laughing. Thanks for the early laugh this morning.

[Ice-JiubParticipant 491]

Thanks for sharing your story. I know it can’t have been easy, but thanks. It was difficult to read, too, knowing even a kid can f~~~ your life up with a few false words…

[MichaelSpectator 544]

That’s a really scary story. Just the fact they approached a full grown adult male like that is worrisome. Because when you are a kid everything looks so huge.

This a huge problem when a grown adult is afraid of a little girl child filled with fears of “what if’s” which are all 100% legitimate.

The place had a video camera system. There is too much liability for them not to. My mommy used to take me to roller skating rinks as a small child in the late 1980’s early 1990’s and even then they had cameras everywhere. The problem is:

1) The enormous expense, time and cost associated with charges and arrest.
2) Guilty no matter if your innocent publicity.
3) ZERO CONSEQUENCES FOR THE ACCUSER because it would be a child. Your only recourse is to sue the family and that would likely be tossed out since it originated from a small child.

I don’t know what to say. It’s really scary the kinds of things kids are exposed to now and days. And it’s a provable fact that babies and children learn/absorb information from their environment light years faster than adults.

Very strange situation. You would be exonerated based on the facts and video tape but my God; what you would have to go through.

This is why I love and am entertained by little kids but avoid them at all costs.

A child’s accusation should be taken as gospel. But with all the moral degeneration and cultural filth information they are exposed to associated with the decline of the West. It makes it questionable since kids are products of their environment.

And look at the environments they are being raised in. Horrendous. Manipulative single mothers by choice. Domestic fights with “mommies friends” (male). Daycare centers, Child Protection Services, the kinds of things they are exposed to which are the exact opposite of traditional morality and traditional nuclear families (yes a f~~~ing HUSBAND and a f~~~ing WIFE never getting divorced) etc etc. They have it terrible. They are learning, absorbing, adapting to these environments without ever knowing it.

Lots of little girls have learned watching Mommy “win” in her divorce drama or child support custody drama and they are learning this is how the world, their world, works. And they grow into women from this “base”

Now will this “base” work that way under an Islamic invasion patriarchy system? F~~~ no. They would be totally helpless. It only works in the artificial feminist system we have in the West.

Pretty scary. I if confronted by the Mom in the future be cool and point to the video tape as evidence. If pressed further threaten to sue for slander libel and defamation.

The kids forgot about this 5 minutes after it happened. But the Mom did not. She is fuming about it. If you think the situation warrants it, and only you know the answer to that, you need to immediately procure the video from the owner. But don’t say why. Ask if you can view and and record it from your phone.

If the owner refuses call an attorney and have them write a letter. If they refuse go to court and have the attorney file a preliminary motion for discovery. All of that costs time expense to you. For nothing. Which is total bulls~~~. But that’s how this rigged system works.

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Michael wrote:

That’s a really scary story. Just the fact they approached a full grown adult male like that is worrisome. Because when you are a kid everything looks so huge.

This a huge problem when a grown adult is afraid of a little girl child filled with fears of “what if’s” which are all 100% legitimate.

The place had a video camera system. There is too much liability for them not to. My mommy used to take me to roller skating rinks as a small child in the late 1980’s early 1990’s and even then they had cameras everywhere. The problem is:

1) The enormous expense, time and cost associated with charges and arrest.
2) Guilty no matter if your innocent publicity.
3) ZERO CONSEQUENCES FOR THE ACCUSER because it would be a child. Your only recourse is to sue the family and that would likely be tossed out since it originated from a small child.

Pretty scary. I if confronted by the Mom in the future be cool and point to the video tape as evidence. If pressed further threaten to sue for slander libel and defamation.

Michael,

I appreciate your well thought out response.

For sure I would have never even considered confronting an full grown man when I was that age. Bizarre.

In addition to there may be some small chance of an innocent man being found guilty. That would destroy that man’s life in addition to his own children who would be forced to grow up without a father.

Another possible defense is to sue for emotional distress. It is not a particularly strong argument and would be costly but f~~~, when a man and his children’s lives are in the balance everything has to be considered.

I would have loved nothing more than to have been able to discuss things rationally with the mother and clear everything up. That, of course, would have been the mature thing to do. However, the situation was so bizarre and the vibe I got from the mother and the overall potential risk were just to great. I had to leave.

A few men on this thread have also mentioned CCTV’s. I had not even considered that and it is a great idea. I will look into this for sure.

I appreciate everyone’s two cents and even more so, all your support.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[Anonymous 0]

feel for you man.

No shame in you telling the story.

Its sad we live in such a world. Bodycams, bodycams, bodycams. ( and dash cams) sad we have to do that but hey…it will save your ass.

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