Ex`s Attempt To Trap Me

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

Me and my ex have a history. We broke up once because she was being a stupid AWALT bitch. And the second time we broke up, it was because she was being a stupid AWALT bitch. And that`s around the time I became MGTOW.

I recently dropped off some gifts at her house for her birthday (I bought them before breakup #2). Knocked on the door and ran. We’ve been no contact for a month, and all of a sudden my phone blows up with text messages and phone calls. I know better than to answer them. But I give in. I knew I shouldn’t have, because that means I would be crossing a line I wouldn’t return from. We start updating on each other’s lives, like she cut her hair short and I got a tattoo.

Soon, we start talking about sex (another line I knew I was supposed to cross, and did anyways). We start reminiscing about f~~~ing, pregnancy, and creampies. I stayed up late sexting her because my boner wouldn’t go away, my sex drive has been massively increased since breakup #2. Today, I told her to send me a nude (this is the second last line to cross before meeting and f~~~ing). Our next conversation went something like this:

Her: Want to come over to my house tommorrow?
Me: What time does your mom get home?
Her: 5, why?
Me: Your mom will think I’m using you for sex, and that’s awkward.
Her: Aren’t you lol
Me: There’s not a woman on this planet that I don’t use for sex lol
Her: Gheez I thought you just wanted to be friends lol
Me: That’s why you sent me that beautiful nudie right?
Her: I just wanted to show you what you’ve been missing out on 😛
Me: Well I just want to reminisce on old times 😉 Anyways, this is my workout rest week so if you want to get pounded 10 days from now, too f~~~ing bad. 😉
Her: I won’t change my mind:) I’m not a f~~~ buddy, sorry
Me: kkk

I feel so relieved at this point. No one left with any feelings hurt. Hopefully she doesn’t do the typical thing and text me three days from now asking to get f~~~ed. That would really lower my respect for her, which is already pretty low as it is. But this just goes to show that she was trying to trick me again. She lures me with her pussy, and than tries to withhold it so she can have me as her money bag again. Not happening.

Brother, we need to stick together.

[HitmanParticipant]

your playing with fire there brother-man..
careful..
remember..
one chance per woman per lifetime.
‘as the dog returns to it’s vomit,so does the fool to his folly”
i’m sure your’e not a fool.
human to have those impulses yes.
a fool , no.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

The_Young wrote:

I recently dropped off some gifts at her house for her birthday (I bought them before breakup #2). Knocked on the door and ran. We’ve been no contact for a month, and all of a sudden my phone blows up with text messages and phone calls.

What the hell did you expect? You’re saying this like her reaction was a complete surprise. “Ex’s attempt to trap me” ??? You’re the one who started this! (unless I misunderstood the chronological order of events) I’m heavily facepalming right now. Stop simping! And do get a fleshlight

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Buller100Participant 2189]

I would not have taken the presents round, better to give them to charity.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

The_Young wrote:

Me and my ex have a history.

Your ex SHOULD be history…

[Anonymous 42]

The_Young wrote:

like she cut her hair short and I got a tattoo.

She’s not telling you about the Chad she has poking into her lunch meat!

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Anonymous wrote:

The_Young wrote:

like she cut her hair short and I got a tattoo.

She’s not telling you about the Chad she has poking into her lunch meat!

The_Young wrote:

Her: I just wanted to show you what you’ve been missing out on

Oh, yeah! She’s been honing her head game and f~~~ing skills and got so much experience – she had to brag

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 54]

You dropped the gift off. You made this happen .What was it you wanted ?

[EchoesParticipant 92]

I agree with XSDBS why are you wasting your time with this bitch? Shes clearly just playing games with your head and you’re trying to do the same back.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

The_Young wrote:

I recently dropped off some gifts at her house for her birthday (I bought them before breakup #2).

For f~~~’s sake why?

Should have donated that s~~~ to charity. It might do somebody some good that way.

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

I dropped off the gifts because I’m f~~~ing stubbourn, that’s why. I was thinking about donating them to charity, but I didn’t. For some reason I liked the idea of dropping off her gifts and running. I dont know what I expected.

I wont be pulling some s~~~ off like this again, its really f~~~ed with my chi

Brother, we need to stick together.

[finallyfreeParticipant 341]

The-young. I had a similar text conversation with an ex from 3 years ago. She will text me every once in a while out of nowhere? Recently she texted that she is having trouble with biology exams and had the nerve to ask me to take them for her(online exams). I was a chemistry and biology major in college so she knows it would be easy for me.

Her: Didn’t you take pre med classed in college? Can you take 2 online exams for me, Im struggling and will pay you.
Me: I have enough money, but you can pay me alright.
Her: I told you I would pay you?
Me: Not in cash, take em off and bend over hun
Her: I’m not like that, sorry to have bothered you. Good luck
Me: So you will sleep with your other ex’s no problemo? Oh well good luck with with the tests. And stop texting me good luck I don’t need any??

I make a good salary so she knew money wasn’t going to get me to do it for her? I feel like she knew I would say no but just wanted to see if I still wanted her sexually. They play so many f~~~ing mind games it’s sad. Just remove them from your life. They are toxic.

[Mr_OptionsParticipant 298]

Ex’s should be past tense not in the present. As others said you are playing with a fire that can burn you up faster than you can move out of its way. Block her on all social media, block her number. Start working on bettering yourself.

A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

You my good man are showing what a dumb ass your are. Hey I have to admit that I was sometimes a dumb ass when it came to exes.

That all stopped when I realized that my ex was not the last woman on earth.

So learn or GTFO of here. I have no time for bluepill hell nor should you.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

XSDBS wrote:

Your ex SHOULD be history…

Yep.

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And never cave on that. ^^ The idea that you’re still there for her – any capacity – is history too. Not negotiable. Giving her gifts AFTER a break up (whether you bought them sooner or not) and answering calls & texts is wrong enough. But knocking on the door and RUNNING??

That’s like her knocking on your door for sex AND THEN WITHHOLDING IT.

Get it?

You’re playing the same “come here go away” game she is!

The_Young wrote:

another line I knew I was supposed to cross, and did anyways

Work with me here…..

How did you know? Did you ask yourself “what would a MGHOW do?”. Because MGHOW crosses (or not) any line he wants without considering what he’s “SUPPOSED” to do. There is no “SUPPOSED” to anymore. There is just right, and wrong, and your own choices.

YOU already know that it’s wrong. So don’t do it. There is no “supposed” to.
Stop factoring in what others would say you should or shouldn’t do.

If you already know it’s not right, just don’t do it.

(good answers above too)

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Want to come over to my house tommorrow?
What time does your mom get home?

OK STOP.

The only answer out of your mouth to an EX is “NO”. Look at her question. “Do you want”. She phrases it that way on purpose. Even if she said “I want you to come over” or BEGS “WILL YOU?” the answer is still NO.

Not because I said so – or because you’re not supposed to.
But because it’s just not right.

“Do you want” is not an invitation anyway. She’s just testing your s~~~ do see what you will say.

The_Young wrote:

Me: Your mom will think I’m using you for sex, and that’s awkward.
Her: Aren’t you lol

Oh jeez.

You can’t “use her for sex”. Consensual sex only happens when a woman WANTS it to. There is no such thing as “using her for sex”. That is just female bulls~~~.

The_Young wrote:

Me: There’s not a woman on this planet that I don’t use for sex lol
Her: Gheez I thought you just wanted to be friends lol

Now it’s just getting silly. Again, you can’t “use her for sex”. You never have and you never will, so you can get that out of your head. When a woman spreads her legs and says “do me big daddy”, you’re not “using” her as if she’s not even a participant. She’s there with you too. She’s actually USING YOU as a toy for her own amusement.

The_Young wrote:

Her: I just wanted to show you what you’ve been missing out on

And that’s why this is so wrong. Because they actually think you’re “missing out”. No. SHE is missing out. But you’re doing everything to show that you are missing out. Delivering gifts to an Exes door is the worst way to show her she is missing out. You’re sending her the wrong message.

The reason “NO” is the right answer is to let her know SHE is “missing out”.

The_Young wrote:

But this just goes to show that she was trying to trick me again. She lures me with her pussy, and than tries to withhold it so she can have me as her money bag again. Not happening.

This situation was entirely avoidable by you.
Knocking on the door and then bolting is you luring her.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[OldBillParticipant]

The_Young wrote:

I dropped off the gifts because I’m f~~~ing stubbourn, that’s why.

No. You dropped off the gifts because you’re f~~~ing stupid.

And it’s spelled “stubborn”.

I dont know what I expected.

You don’t know what you expected because you didn’t bother to think about the situation. You just blundered along guided by little except instinct.

If you’d even bothered to think about the situation, you wouldn’t have dropped of the gifts, you wouldn’t have replied to her texts, and you wouldn’t still be in contact with her.

You’re like a drunk who can’t put down the bottle, a junkie who can’t put down the needle, or a hamplanet who can’t put down the doughnut despite the fact they know they must in order to survive.

That young woman is playing you like a fiddle, she knows that all she needs to do is pull a string and you’ll come stumbling back.

I wont be pulling some s~~~ off like this again, its really f~~~ed with my chi

F~~~ing with your chi? Whatever you need to believe, whatever will give you the strength, it doesn’t matter. Just cut this c~~~ out of your life like you would a tumor.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Red_Pill_SouljaParticipant 221]

Sounds to me that she was seeking validation, which you provided for her.

[AttonParticipant]

We start reminiscing about f~~~ing, pregnancy, and creampies.

I smell trouble on the horizon, wear a condom.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[narwhalParticipant]

By dropping off the gifts, she knows that you had not moved on, that you were thinking of her. That’s exactly what she wants. Everything else you did is telling her the exact same thing.

You can call it a trap if you want, but what she’s telling you that if you want sex, you have to commit to her again. It’s not a trap when it’s completely out in the open like that, plain as day. So what are you deliberating about? Stop staring at the cookie jar. Either grab a cookie and deal with the consequences or get the hell out of the kitchen.

Ok. Then do it.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

I hope for your sake you are using protection.

Let me tell you a story about a former co-worker whom I used to work with. Now when she was 18 she was a cool chick and so forth but I never had any designs on her that way because I knew her family and I knew they were a bit crazy. She was the exception for not being crazy.

Over the years she pretty much turned into her mother who is a crazy ball busting bitch. Now she monkey branched from guy to guy until she found a doctor at her place of work. Needless to say with the way she was she got pregnant supposedly to this doctor. Now the doctor didn’t want anything to do with her and she kicked her out of his place.

Now she claimed she was pregnant and so forth. Now in her 7th or 8th month guess what she lost the baby. Now there is question if she was even pregnant at all. I never seen her because I work nights and I always tried to avoid this person just because of the way her and her family was.

Now a good friend of mine who alternates between days and nights believed she was pregnant. Now tonight at work I heard thru the grapevine that she was never pregnant as she claimed but it had to do with medication she was taking and she might of made the whole thing up to try and get this guy.

The lucky thing for this guy he did not bite. I read your story and maybe it’s a different situation but you really don’t want to be having sex with an ex period. This is what could happen.

As Sheldon on the Big Bang Theory said, got your back jack. Bitches be crazy. Remember that because think why would an ex want you around for? With women they would not be doing this unless it benefits them in some way shape or form.

As Abraham said to Glenn on the Walking Dead, when you were pouring the bisquick were you trying to make pancakes? Maybe you were not but do what Abraham said double up.

You don’t trust these women as far as you can throw them.

Exceptions to the rule???? Yes of course they are. They’re out there but so is the lottery. Get my point????

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